LIGHTNING;592342 said:Zam how are things going with this situation. Did any of our advice pan out?
smerc;592365 said:Hopefully it did as we all pretty much gave the same advise. Going to look shitty on our relationship advice resumes if something bad happened.
Zam, give us a good story!
Zambrodom3;592514 said:Everything is now ok! I did what I had to do, I did what was right to do! I followed your advices. Now she no longer means what she meant to me before. As hard as it was I realized that this was NOT the girl I fell in love with and this is NOT the girl that meant so much to me. No matter how much I digged in I could not find her. She is now going back to her ex boyfriend and she went back to Finland a week ago. Now that she is far away I find it MUCH easier not to think of her and just stop having feelings for her. I am THANKFUL to ALL of you for giving me the support I needed in the moment I needed it A LOT. I am no longer her slave or her bitch, now I am a free man! Of course it would take more time to forget her, but so far so good!!!
What she gave me is worth A LOT!!! She gave me motivation like no one else! She regularly fucked our manager (who had a pretty big size) and this gave me motivation like nothing else! Now I just cant wait till I go back home and get my hanger and pump to work!!!!
Cheers to all of you!!!!
LIGHTNING;592521 said:Good for you Zam! Everything in life is a lesson (good or bad) to make us stronger and help us grow. Move on brother, this was a lesson to prepare you for the true queen that awaits you.
Zambrodom3;592514 said:Everything is now ok! I did what I had to do, I did what was right to do! I followed your advices. Now she no longer means what she meant to me before. As hard as it was I realized that this was NOT the girl I fell in love with and this is NOT the girl that meant so much to me. No matter how much I digged in I could not find her. She is now going back to her ex boyfriend and she went back to Finland a week ago. Now that she is far away I find it MUCH easier not to think of her and just stop having feelings for her. I am THANKFUL to ALL of you for giving me the support I needed in the moment I needed it A LOT. I am no longer her slave or her bitch, now I am a free man! Of course it would take more time to forget her, but so far so good!!!
What she gave me is worth A LOT!!! She gave me motivation like no one else! She regularly fucked our manager (who had a pretty big size) and this gave me motivation like nothing else! Now I just cant wait till I go back home and get my hanger and pump to work!!!!
Cheers to all of you!!!!
LIGHTNING;592521 said:Good for you Zam! Everything in life is a lesson (good or bad) to make us stronger and help us grow. Move on brother, this was a lesson to prepare you for the true queen that awaits you.
That's great to hear Zam that the girl has moved home and your better for it. DLD is right about a man living by himself to get to know himself better. I have been trying to do that for 20+ years, but my wife just won't move out. Loldoublelongdaddy;592528 said:So true, every bit of negative experience we go through eventually becomes positive experience in a new relationship. I would advise you not to move on so quickly into a bounce back relationship. It is good for a man to live with himself for some time to get to know yourself.
Zambrodom3;592514 said:Cheers to all of you!!!!
Zambrodom3;587681 said:Hey boys! I am back, I have been abcent for 3 weeks now, but I have my reasons. My story is long, but I would try to keep it as short as possible. I am here to hear what you think and to hear what you would advise me to do. I am in a very shit situation and I do not know what to do....
I met this girl on facebook 2 months ago, on a group of the staff we are in now. We work for a party company in Sunny Beach (the wild horny drunk party sex of Bulgaria). Here we get LOTS of tourists coming only to drink like crazy and fuck like crazier. Girls, boys, everything is here to drink and fuck and nothing more....
We met on facebook and it did not take long for me to see how supportive and understanding she is. How good and kind she is. How much she cares about me and how much she is the 1st girl to ever make me feel like I am a full confident man. She was having hard times when we chatted, idiot me- I stayed awake, spent all my free time with her- showing her, telling her how much I support her, care about her, love her.... Even in her hardest times, when she was in pain and crying, shaking, begging for help- I still was there staying awake, spending ALL my free time with her instead of doing my own stuff. Time passed and we met a week ago, this must have been one of the worst weeks I have ever had in my life... I was standing there on the parties looking at how the one I loved, who had spent all her hard moments with me kissing and fucking random guys in front of me. I asked her "Why do you spend time with people who can only be with you in the best time of theirs- drunk and horny? It is the easiest to be with such a girl... why dont you spend time with the people who would be with you no matter what, no matter where or when. Is there something anyone else can give you that I cant?".... Her answer was "there is nothing you cant and they can give me". It was a deal we had made- no feelings, just friends with benefits, she is not the bad one, it is just my fault that I fell in love. But please brothers, tell me, help me- WHAT should I do??? I see the girl I love fucking my colleagues (the ones I see every day) like crazy, kissing them, fucking them in front of me and I still cant say anything about it cause that was the deal- NO FEELINGS. I am NO ONE to tell her who she can fuck or not- I am not her boyfriend or anything. This is her life and I want to put no limits on what she can and cant do- I dont have the right to do so... I am just a friend and nothing more. When she is drunk, she treats me like shit and treats everyone else nice.... when she is sober she has problems and I am the only one that would LOVE to spend his time with her helping her, making her smile... To me her smile means a LOT!!! We had sex a few times... she orgasmed 5 times, I orgasmed 1 time, cause she asked me to... The only orgasm I want is hers, the only smile I want to see is on her face, the only one I enjoy spending time with no matter how bad she feels is her.... and I only get a broken heart... An idiot I am for STILL giving my love to someone who only hurts me and breaks me every time I see her with someone else, but what can I do- people tell me- leave her, she is not for you, what are you doing with her, you can do MUCH better, you deserve MUCH better... and I know it, but my mind and my heart dont go along it seems...
To me brothers, you mean a lot, to me you are a family that I can give my love to and still get love back. Please, help me....
It feels this wayDisco Dave;592575 said:Is it me or does it seems like the summer time always bring some visiting hoe into our lives. Its like the movie Revenge Of The Nerds. The summer break, the alpha males, the sluttish visiting hoar, and the good guy falling in love. This seems to be my life story. Wtf.
doublelongdaddy;592698 said:Amazing how many people came out to support you, very inspiring.
8incyclops;592818 said:
Zambrodom3;592838 said:LIGHTNING- as soon as possible I will be ALL AROUND [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]!!!!
doublelongdaddy;592885 said:I have noticed so many more men getting involved over the past month and it is very inspirational. The more things move the more information that gets out to those who need to hear it.
youknowme123321;592902 said:you are leading the PE movement DLD. and as time goes on men are finding out that it really works!!you are helping man evolve!!!! the vaginas better evolve alongside us lol
Dashdeming;593009 said:When I was 21 I fell in love with chicks like this every other week. I figured out early on that if you act like a pussy, you will get fucked like a pussy because that is what a pussy is asking for. It seemed that each new groupie chick that came along had a unique and new quirk that drew me in to her. Of course getting laid is what it is all about at 21 and the testosterone is going to make you breed son. You have gotten some great advice from the family here. The only thing I can add is that you should not expect this to be the last time this happens to you bro. If you are lucky it will happen many more times and, one day and like me, you will have a trunk full of memories from your hard core years. These memories will be a badge of honor because you lived and loved hard. So enjoy these events of life and find your way to maturity with a nice dose of alpha thrown in there. Don't forget to pull a little beta on the babes to avoid being labeled an asshole. You want to be a bad boy, not an asshole, although being an asshole is better than being a pussy. Anyway, that is how we do it on the road these days and it works out mighty fine. Dig?
Dashdeming;593009 said:When I was 21 I fell in love with chicks like this every other week. I figured out early on that if you act like a pussy, you will get fucked like a pussy because that is what a pussy is asking for. It seemed that each new groupie chick that came along had a unique and new quirk that drew me in to her. Of course getting laid is what it is all about at 21 and the testosterone is going to make you breed son. You have gotten some great advice from the family here. The only thing I can add is that you should not expect this to be the last time this happens to you bro. If you are lucky it will happen many more times and, one day and like me, you will have a trunk full of memories from your hard core years. These memories will be a badge of honor because you lived and loved hard. So enjoy these events of life and find your way to maturity with a nice dose of alpha thrown in there. Don't forget to pull a little beta on the babes to avoid being labeled an asshole. You want to be a bad boy, not an asshole, although being an asshole is better than being a pussy. Anyway, that is how we do it on the road these days and it works out mighty fine. Dig?
GhostRider;593057 said:All I can add is the moment you start caring they stop caring. I'm in college and I've got chicks all around me. they flirt, wink, smile, all that shit. When I take one of them out, they love it. But almost every time I really start seeing her as more than just another girl to bang and forget, they stop liking me. Are too busy, don't answer calls, etc. So in my expirience the less you care, the less you think she's worth to you (while still trying to nail her) the better you'll be.
GhostRider;593057 said:All I can add is the moment you start caring they stop caring. I'm in college and I've got chicks all around me. they flirt, wink, smile, all that shit. When I take one of them out, they love it. But almost every time I really start seeing her as more than just another girl to bang and forget, they stop liking me. Are too busy, don't answer calls, etc. So in my expirience the less you care, the less you think she's worth to you (while still trying to nail her) the better you'll be.
doublelongdaddy;593069 said:So sad that there are so many games in relationships.
Zambrodom3;593072 said:So sad I see this is the way it really works.... sadly....
GhostRider;593057 said:All I can add is the moment you start caring they stop caring. I'm in college and I've got chicks all around me. they flirt, wink, smile, all that shit. When I take one of them out, they love it. But almost every time I really start seeing her as more than just another girl to bang and forget, they stop liking me. Are too busy, don't answer calls, etc. So in my expirience the less you care, the less you think she's worth to you (while still trying to nail her) the better you'll be.
Tahir Aqbar;593149 said:The insecurity is strong with this thread. Am I the only one on this forum who is doing PE because I want to have freaking big dick fetish sex? Or do ya'll seriously believe that having a 9 inch cock that you ram into some girl relentlessly day after day makes for a healthy relationship?
It's not about the individual girls. It's not about the amount of sex. It's not about the size of your penis. It's about developing healthy social skills so that you can engage as many women as possible and screen them until you find the ones who are worth your time.
Why is everyone so butt hurt that girls have sex with other guys. I mean, that's what all this boils down to. What do you expect? You think you're gonna find a girl who is a virgin who is just going to sexually awaken herself for you? She was never sociable before but now she's totally open with you and easy to communicate with? She didn't have many friends before but she's totally cool around your guy friends and never makes a scene. She was never into sex but now she only wants to do it with you all the time but never with anyone else just for you... you! You! The most important person in the world! Yoooouuuu!
Tahir Aqbar;593149 said:The insecurity is strong with this thread. Am I the only one on this forum who is doing PE because I want to have freaking big dick fetish sex? Or do ya'll seriously believe that having a 9 inch cock that you ram into some girl relentlessly day after day makes for a healthy relationship?
It's not about the individual girls. It's not about the amount of sex. It's not about the size of your penis. It's about developing healthy social skills so that you can engage as many women as possible and screen them until you find the ones who are worth your time.
Why is everyone so butt hurt that girls have sex with other guys. I mean, that's what all this boils down to. What do you expect? You think you're gonna find a girl who is a virgin who is just going to sexually awaken herself for you? She was never sociable before but now she's totally open with you and easy to communicate with? She didn't have many friends before but she's totally cool around your guy friends and never makes a scene. She was never into sex but now she only wants to do it with you all the time but never with anyone else just for you... you! You! The most important person in the world! Yoooouuuu!
youknowme123321;593176 said:i sense great hurt in his past![]()
Tahir Aqbar;593190 said:I actually just paraphrased that last part from a video I linked to this thread that nobody watched.
[video=youtube;BaRjwsOKEyQ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaRjwsOKEyQ[/video]
Tahir Aqbar;593190 said:I actually just paraphrased that last part from a video I linked to this thread that nobody watched.
[video=youtube;BaRjwsOKEyQ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaRjwsOKEyQ[/video]
Shenlong;593143 said:The world went to hell a long time back, all that's changed is people have grown used to it. If you're not part of the problem, you're not part of their world.
Tahir Aqbar;593190 said:I actually just paraphrased that last part from a video I linked to this thread that nobody watched.
[video=youtube;BaRjwsOKEyQ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaRjwsOKEyQ[/video]
Zambrodom3;593448 said:Looks like it is a MUST watch when I get the time though....
smerc;593460 said:Can download youtube videos as an mp3 and use in your ipod or other technology mp3 musical player system with earphones and batteries.
Says infield though, so you might want video playback.
doublelongdaddy;593487 said:Yeah, I used to do this in studio work. I can't remember the name of the software but it is a plug in for Firefox, it will download as video or MP3.
smerc;593506 said:Depending on the browser, youtube center does this very well. Gives you the option for video downloads in different resolutions(SD/HD) and audio downloads in different Kbps's(SQ/HQ).
I also have a text-to-speech software for firefox. I'm such as lazy asshole.
doublelongdaddy;593628 said:Good to know. Is the test to speech a Firefox plug in?
smerc;593655 said:There are text-to-speech extensions that you can download for firefox from mozilla. I think most use the default "anna" voice from windows though.
The one I use is textaloud. It uses nextup's TTS voices and it doesn't sound like a robot talking to you. It's a desktop software for wordpad/.txt/.pdf/ETC files and also has a firefox extension as well. You can also paste in text/article(s) and it can spit them out in .mp3 format as well. You can also change a bunch of stuff like pitch/speed to mold the voice to your liking.
Tahir Aqbar;593891 said:Guys, guys.
www.keepvid.com
You can download any video from youtube in any format. You can go to Snipmp3.com to download MP3 formatted files from youtube.
Zambrodom3;587681 said:Hey boys! I am back, I have been abcent for 3 weeks now, but I have my reasons. My story is long, but I would try to keep it as short as possible. I am here to hear what you think and to hear what you would advise me to do. I am in a very shit situation and I do not know what to do....
I met this girl on facebook 2 months ago, on a group of the staff we are in now. We work for a party company in Sunny Beach (the wild horny drunk party sex of Bulgaria). Here we get LOTS of tourists coming only to drink like crazy and fuck like crazier. Girls, boys, everything is here to drink and fuck and nothing more....
We met on facebook and it did not take long for me to see how supportive and understanding she is. How good and kind she is. How much she cares about me and how much she is the 1st girl to ever make me feel like I am a full confident man. She was having hard times when we chatted, idiot me- I stayed awake, spent all my free time with her- showing her, telling her how much I support her, care about her, love her.... Even in her hardest times, when she was in pain and crying, shaking, begging for help- I still was there staying awake, spending ALL my free time with her instead of doing my own stuff. Time passed and we met a week ago, this must have been one of the worst weeks I have ever had in my life... I was standing there on the parties looking at how the one I loved, who had spent all her hard moments with me kissing and fucking random guys in front of me. I asked her "Why do you spend time with people who can only be with you in the best time of theirs- drunk and horny? It is the easiest to be with such a girl... why dont you spend time with the people who would be with you no matter what, no matter where or when. Is there something anyone else can give you that I cant?".... Her answer was "there is nothing you cant and they can give me". It was a deal we had made- no feelings, just friends with benefits, she is not the bad one, it is just my fault that I fell in love. But please brothers, tell me, help me- WHAT should I do??? I see the girl I love fucking my colleagues (the ones I see every day) like crazy, kissing them, fucking them in front of me and I still cant say anything about it cause that was the deal- NO FEELINGS. I am NO ONE to tell her who she can fuck or not- I am not her boyfriend or anything. This is her life and I want to put no limits on what she can and cant do- I dont have the right to do so... I am just a friend and nothing more. When she is drunk, she treats me like shit and treats everyone else nice.... when she is sober she has problems and I am the only one that would LOVE to spend his time with her helping her, making her smile... To me her smile means a LOT!!! We had sex a few times... she orgasmed 5 times, I orgasmed 1 time, cause she asked me to... The only orgasm I want is hers, the only smile I want to see is on her face, the only one I enjoy spending time with no matter how bad she feels is her.... and I only get a broken heart... An idiot I am for STILL giving my love to someone who only hurts me and breaks me every time I see her with someone else, but what can I do- people tell me- leave her, she is not for you, what are you doing with her, you can do MUCH better, you deserve MUCH better... and I know it, but my mind and my heart dont go along it seems...
To me brothers, you mean a lot, to me you are a family that I can give my love to and still get love back. Please, help me....