Dating or Getting into a relationship with a EXOTIC DANCER?

Another pic of Abby at exxxotica. Cant remember the name of the other girl, she was like 20 at that time, very popular too...
 
scarletts party

Small clip from 2009. At 1:57-1:59 Abby is there all wasted LOL.

The club keeps the same vibe. I think today even more than before. Since those years have been expanded. They bought the stores next door and the whole building in that strip mall is scarletts now. They have probably around 20 poles.

After those years 2008-2009, I started going back again in 2012-2013 as a stripper. Our club used to close at 3AM, so after that we used to put our Labare tank tops, a nice jacket and hit the club. We knew all the girls in those days. We used to get out of there at 8AM, drunk, with day light and 100 degrees outside, and go to hard rock casino until noon. Then sometimes go to the beach after, then rake a nap, shower, go to dance and repeat again.
 
@Jackxxx, these were a couple friends I hung out with from Scarletts, they both were vip hosts
Jessica and Diane. We would hang out at Love Hate (Miami Ink Guys small bar) and Club Mekka. It's crazy, I forgot Scarletts was open to 6am everyday and to 8am on the weekends.

The last picture was at Club Space 10am after Scarletts closed. Girl in middle with Scarletts glasses was the massage girl Amanda. She was really good people. Those are my glasses on the right my wife is wearing, everyone always wanted to take pictures with them \o/

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I did Exxxotica back then as well. 2006 I was there with Jenna Jamison helping her out in the show. There are a few threads here at MOS with pictures from back then. This was around when DLD was training talent on how to do PE exercises out there.
 
DLD & I went out on a strip club tour one night in Miami. We just finished shooting a penis size comparison video and I took the largest 9" strap on and went out to the clubs with it on.

I got allot of table dances that night to see the reaction of the dancers and every single last one of them were devistated at the size of it (thinking is was my cock). I was having dancers bring dancers over to me to dance for free all night to check it out, it was quite an experience to say the least.

So next time you want free dances, strap on that 10incher lol

I used the biggest dildo in this video here...

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DLD & I went out on a strip club tour one night in Miami. We just finished shooting a penis size comparison video and I took the largest 9" strap on and went out to the clubs with it on.

I got allot of table dances that night to see the reaction of the dancers and every single last one of them were devistated at the size of it (thinking is was my cock). I was having dancers bring dancers over to me to dance for free all night to check it out, it was quite an experience to say the least.

I used the biggest dildo in this video here...

Where'd you hide it and what did you do with your dick?
 
Where'd you hide it and what did you do with your dick?

Just tuck your dick between your legs and the strapon straps over it under your pants. I wore velour pants so it was more impressive. My flaccid size is on the smaller side anyway (grower not shower) so it was easy for me. Now Mandingo on the other hand... thats a different story :D
 
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This thread was such a fun read. It managed to excite and intrigue me, but also remind me of the realities of that world that I'm not a part of, and don't need to be a part of. I had my own sort of recklessness as a younger man. I never dated a stripper, but I dated a couple of escorts, a couple phone sex girls, and a couple of cam girls. I also was out of control with going to sex clubs, random hookups, affairs, group sex, trolling the internet for hours, entire days and nights, searching for the next hit. And when the high washes away, you're just empty. So glad to be away from that life now. I must say, sometimes I do miss the excitement. Lots of fodder for fantasy when I'm doing my girth work.
 
It is such a good read. I would like some input from members outside the states, in how do you see this industry from where you are?
 
Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on
 
Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on
It’s like a big giant reset button! It’s so amazing when we start working on ourselves and seeing results it motivates us to keep reaching higher and higher. I’m so glad you’re making changes in your life for the better
 
Well I can't confirm or deny if this ride or die is in the picture or not. The only thing I can say I have received is drinks, she has bought me drinks. It has been fun more fun then I've had in alog time. I have had a bit of a dry spell because I wanted to focus on my career. Now that my career is established I noticed that I'm 320+lbs not working out and my sex drive is close to dead. All of a sudden I am working out, and focusing on my PE and now down to 267lbs. So I see it as just jump starting my battery. If she did want to hang out without payment or what ever then sure if not time to move on

That's awesome, I need that same motivation again as you brother!
 
It’s like a big giant reset button! It’s so amazing when we start working on ourselves and seeing results it motivates us to keep reaching higher and higher. I’m so glad you’re making changes in your life for the better
Thanks DLD I'm glad that I asked this question, I almost didn't because I thought there would be alot of negative feed back and no positive feed back or information or people's experiences.
 
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Honestly people are people. If you were to meet a dancer that just got in the business, there is a high possibility that you could pull her if your talk game is right.

But its allot harder to try to pull a dancer that has been in the game for a while because every man pretty much runs the same game. "Why is a beautiful smart women like you in a club like this?", "I can take care of you and pay your Bill's",, they hear it all.

Business men come in offering my wife a job at their firm, etc. anything to get a chance to hook up outside the club. Funny thing is they dont realize she makes way more money than most big shots can pay her.

Dancers average different pay.

Every night when my wife came home, I would do her numbers. Take her pay for the night, minus house fee, tips, drinks she bought, etc.

Even though some nights were really good or really bad, the average was still there. I even had it down to what outfits and hair made more money, nights, locations, time of year etc.

In the last year, after 6 months of accounting, she averaged about $75 an hour working 20 hours a week. There are nights you can make a couple grand and nights you leave the club owing house.

Some dancers want a stable job with benefits but every business has it's up and downs and plays off employees ect, so nothing in life is 100% stable.

It's hard for any dancer to go work a regular 9-5 for $12-15 an hour after realizing what they really make but many dancers dont track income so they dont realize how good it is.

@Jackxxx, have you ever tracked income like this?
 
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That's awesome, I need that same motivation again as you brother!
I'll be honest it's no easy task but I feel amazing again my career is going well. It's just my health was suffering and now I'm gonna set a huge goal to get in massive shape by the summer if not sooner and the ball is rolling now. You just got to take the first few step in right direction. With abit of motivation and some sacrifice, it's possible.
 
It is such a good read. I would like some input from members outside the states, in how do you see this industry from where you are?
Just to give you some info I'm from Toronto, Canada I have never been to a strip club in the state. But I'm sure it's very similar, there are your trashy joints and high end places too.
 
What, I thought Canada had the best strip joints, that's what I learned from Family Guy! :D
Just kidding.

I haven't been to strip clubs here in Finland. It's quite problematic anyway, monetary wise I would say, as with Euros you don't have one euro notes. So the smallest note is 5 euros. Overall, things being so expensive over here anyway I just hadn't had the feeling to go to those places. There are few. I would say there are more of massage parlours than strip clubs or places that offer private booths. (Those being in sex shops.)

I'm very glad to hear about your rising up @Tornadocock ! I'm also aiming for that motivation peak. Certain balls have started to roll during this year already, thankfully.
Nice pictures by the way, brough a smile to my face!

Shout out to @Jackxxx too, love to hear more of you!
 
What, I thought Canada had the best strip joints, that's what I learned from Family Guy! :D
Just kidding.

I haven't been to strip clubs here in Finland. It's quite problematic anyway, monetary wise I would say, as with Euros you don't have one euro notes. So the smallest note is 5 euros. Overall, things being so expensive over here anyway I just hadn't had the feeling to go to those places. There are few. I would say there are more of massage parlours than strip clubs or places that offer private booths. (Those being in sex shops.)

I'm very glad to hear about your rising up @Tornadocock ! I'm also aiming for that motivation peak. Certain balls have started to roll during this year already, thankfully.
Nice pictures by the way, brough a smile to my face!

Shout out to @Jackxxx too, love to hear more of you!
Well it's not that cheap here either but the you can see the economy is starting to suffer now but there not as busy as they use to be plus a dance is $20 they don't do table dances like I have heard about or tables where guys have to spend as long as they are there and a bottle of water is 6.50 and the cheapest beer is 8.50
 
For a shut in like me, it's a huge jump that I needed, it's the experience that I always herd other guys talk about. Now I'm on this side of the fence and it's fun. Here is a picture of my pants the last time I walk out of there and a picture of her.

If that is really the girl in the picture, she looks like a top dollar professional. So if you are really banging her, you have to be paying good money for it.

I have never had an opportunity to take a picture of cum stains on my pants LOL so I'm not sure what that is about. That is definitely a first for me and I thought I've seen everything. Was that the first time you ever came? Your cum looks really white.
 
If that is really the girl in the picture, she looks like a top dollar professional. So if you are really banging her, you have to be paying good money for it.

I have never had an opportunity to take a picture of cum stains on my pants LOL so I'm not sure what that is about. That is definitely a first for me and I thought I've seen everything. Was that the first time you ever came?
Well to answer your question
First yes that is her I have more pictures she sends them to me when she tries to lure me in ?
Second I never said she was cheap. That is why I don't go see her ever week.
Third that's not my cum that's her cum, and that's not the first time she came on my pants from riding my dick, I bring my own condoms because I wear magnums.
Forth not the first I cam I don't cum on my own pants. ?
 
Whew, I'm so happy to learn that wasn't your first cum shot (cwl) makes allot of sense now.

She looks very high maintenance.
 
Whew, I'm so happy to learn that wasn't your first cum shot (cwl) makes allot of sense now.

She looks very high maintenance.
Wow thanks for the vote of confidence lighting ?. Ya she has marked a few of my pants but usually she cleans then with some wipes this time she forgot and so did I. I ? realized when I got home. She hasn't complained about the dick yet. Takes her a little bit of time to get use to it and then after riding it for 20 min I give it to her doggy style and it's super fun. But I need to try and see what happens after a few months see how hungry that pussy ? gets. ?
 
Wow thanks for the vote of confidence lighting ?. Ya she has marked a few of my pants but usually she cleans then with some wipes this time she forgot and so did I. I ? realized when I got home. She hasn't complained about the dick yet. Takes her a little bit of time to get use to it and then after riding it for 20 min I give it to her doggy style and it's super fun. But I need to try and see what happens after a few months see how hungry that pussy ? gets. ?

Hey I have to ask, allot of walks of life come through these doors (drunk) I would love to see more pictures of her. Has she tried reaching out to you yet?
 
Reached out to me? She hasn't stopped maybe we don't text each other one day out of the week. Just yesterday she texted me during the day when she was on her lunch break at her regular job. But then I wook up this morning and I got 4 or 5 text messages from her after she finished her shift at the club. Saying I hope you have a good day at work and all the jazz. Here are a few more pics tell me that would motivate you just a bit ?
 
Honestly people are people. If you were to meet a dancer that just got in the business, there is a high possibility that you could pull her if your talk game is right.

But its allot harder to try to pull a dancer that has been in the game for a while because every man pretty much runs the same game. "Why is a beautiful smart women like you in a club like this?", "I can take care of you and pay your Bill's",, they hear it all.

Business men come in offering my wife a job at their firm, etc. anything to get a chance to hook up outside the club. Funny thing is they dont realize she makes way more money than most big shots can pay her.

Dancers average different pay.

Every night when my wife came home, I would do her numbers. Take her pay for the night, minus house fee, tips, drinks she bought, etc.

Even though some nights were really good or really bad, the average was still there. I even had it down to what outfits and hair made more money, nights, locations, time of year etc.

In the last year, after 6 months of accounting, she averaged about $75 an hour working 20 hours a week. There are nights you can make a couple grand and nights you leave the club owing house.

Some dancers want a stable job with benefits but every business has it's up and downs and plays off employees ect, so nothing in life is 100% stable.

It's hard for any dancer to go work a regular 9-5 for $12-15 an hour after realizing what they really make but many dancers dont track income so they dont realize how good it is.

@Jackxxx, have you ever tracked income like this?

Absolutely yes. I used to put every expense into the equation to calculate the hourly rate and se if it was worth it LOL.

Those years are gone though....I finished dancing in 2014, mainstream adult entertainment I finished in 2015, but after that I kept shooting scenes here and there with smaller producers just for the fun and the extra few hundreds. Officially I did my last scene in May of 2017. After that for the first time in my life i said "I retire" Never said that before because I dont believe people who say "Im reitred" and then some time later theyre back again broke trying to make some money. I dont believe in that.
 
What, I thought Canada had the best strip joints, that's what I learned from Family Guy! LOL
Just kidding.

I haven't been to strip clubs here in Finland. It's quite problematic anyway, monetary wise I would say, as with Euros you don't have one euro notes. So the smallest note is 5 euros. Overall, things being so expensive over here anyway I just hadn't had the feeling to go to those places. There are few. I would say there are more of massage parlours than strip clubs or places that offer private booths. (Those being in sex shops.)

I'm very glad to hear about your rising up @Tornadocock ! I'm also aiming for that motivation peak. Certain balls have started to roll during this year already, thankfully.
Nice pictures by the way, brough a smile to my face!

Shout out to @Jackxxx too, love to hear more of you!

LOL thanks brother!! what you wanna hear? Im open to any question. I never did in the industry anything that I cold regret or that I has to keep secret for the rest of may life. So I guess Im able to answer anything you ask me LOL
 
Just a silly question, did you have a favorite outfit to wear for your gigs @Jackxxx ? This has gone through my head few times, I don't know why.
Did you get good catering at the sets when filming, was there a lot of variation?
 
Reached out to me? She hasn't stopped maybe we don't text each other one day out of the week. Just yesterday she texted me during the day when she was on her lunch break at her regular job. But then I wook up this morning and I got 4 or 5 text messages from her after she finished her shift at the club. Saying I hope you have a good day at work and all the jazz. Here are a few more pics tell me that would motivate you just a bit ?

Man if you are enjoying her services, I say keep enjoying yourself if your pockets can afford it.
That's a sweet piece of ass. It's crazy how easy it is to buy pussy nowadays. Women see a way to get money and they will do what it takes.
 
@Jackxxx, you mentioned something about a dancer that had a star on her pussy, I think DLD and I went out with her and her friend one night. We went to a hotel down in Doral and they got us high and was trying to rob my pockets.

I never smoke so I was super paranoid and I was telling dld we have to go now!

We left and a few weeks later i was hanging out with my wife at that club across from Madonna club on Washington and the girl saw me and started screaming in the club saying I tried to tape her. She was on allot of bars.

Do you know if she use to go to FSU in Boca?
 
Man if you are enjoying her services, I say keep enjoying yourself if your pockets can afford it.
That's a sweet piece of ass. It's crazy how easy it is to buy pussy nowadays. Women see a way to get money and they will do what it takes.
Lighting I have jump started my engine, focusing on my health again and my PE I am waiting, I'm almost at 8.5" BPFSL then i will post Pictures. Hopefully I lose a few more pounds, and the ball will be rolling to fast to stop.
 
Just a silly question, did you have a favorite outfit to wear for your gigs @Jackxxx ? This has gone through my head few times, I don't know why.
Did you get good catering at the sets when filming, was there a lot of variation?

LOL. favorite outfit not really...I used to go to location usually just wearing basketball shorts and a t-shirt. For the scene it doesnt depend on you. The producer tells you depending on what type of role are you playing. If its a teacher, or a trainer, or whatever it is.
 
@Jackxxx, you mentioned something about a dancer that had a star on her pussy, I think DLD and I went out with her and her friend one night. We went to a hotel down in Doral and they got us high and was trying to rob my pockets.

I never smoke so I was super paranoid and I was telling dld we have to go now!

We left and a few weeks later i was hanging out with my wife at that club across from Madonna club on Washington and the girl saw me and started screaming in the club saying I tried to tape her. She was on allot of bars.

Do you know if she use to go to FSU in Boca?

@Lightning LMAO I don't think is the same girl brother....hahahaha. At least what I remember this girl was pretty "normal" and older...she was like late 20's early 30's in those days.... Her stage name was Star, she had a red star tattooed around her pussy and she was from Dallas. White girl blonde hazel eyes probably around 5'5". Her friend I cant remember her name but she was from Cleveland. Around same height, white girl, blonde green eyes. As far as I know none of them went to FSU, UNLESS she went after I used to hang out with her....this was back 2007-2009. After that never saw them nor heard from them again.
 
@Lightning LMAO I don't think is the same girl brother....hahahaha. At least what I remember this girl was pretty "normal" and older...she was like late 20's early 30's in those days.... Her stage name was Star, she had a red star tattooed around her pussy and she was from Dallas. White girl blonde hazel eyes probably around 5'5". Her friend I cant remember her name but she was from Cleveland. Around same height, white girl, blonde green eyes. As far as I know none of them went to FSU, UNLESS she went after I used to hang out with her....this was back 2007-2009. After that never saw them nor heard from them again.

Yeah this girl was light skin mixed Latina. Def not same chick. Far from normal lol
 
Thanks DLD I'm glad that I asked this question, I almost didn't because I thought there would be alot of negative feed back and no positive feed back or information or people's experiences.

It’s always going to be all positive for me! In my opinion spending any time in the negative is a waste of time. If you want something in life and you want it bad enough you’ll make it happen in the moment. A moment by moment turns in to the day by day, then the month by month and soon year by year. If we’re gonna start something we need to start it in the now and keep it in the now tomorrow will always take care of itself so do the best you can for today. I’m never fear asking any questions here whatsoever, you will never be persecuted you always be met with loving answers. We are a family and a brotherhood we look after each other.
 
Reached out to me? She hasn't stopped maybe we don't text each other one day out of the week. Just yesterday she texted me during the day when she was on her lunch break at her regular job. But then I wook up this morning and I got 4 or 5 text messages from her after she finished her shift at the club. Saying I hope you have a good day at work and all the jazz. Here are a few more pics tell me that would motivate you just a bit ?

Got a phat ass on her. Looks cute, nice skin. Not quite my type, but at the end of the day enjoy it my man, and get your moneys worth.

I remember going to Hollands red light district, and I've been to several other countries in Europe, and around the world from France, Italy, Serbia, Thailand.

They all seem to be very similar, in that you are the business, SHOCK, but as men we can get too simple about this, forgetting that the attention from her, is because of £$£$£$ and I dont blame them one second ... I encourage all women in this business to milk the men as much as they can, more so the wealthy ones.

I certainly spent allot of money in France on very high class dancers, that fucked literally all day and night! pity they dont actually like us English (xd) the sex was INCREDIBLE, and I lost count how many times I went out and fucked on that so called holiday, more a fuck-festival.

Here in Britain it has very good clubs for high end dancers, but I never do this anymore. Been to some in the capital, Birmingham, and Liverpool, Manchester. Need to be careful you use a proper club here in the UK, because otherwise you can end up in scraps with some of the shit that live around the area, staggering around drunk, and they see you with some hot lass and start shit.

LOTS of quality escorts though here in the UK, that you can scroll through online, many work independently and charge cheap rates. Last sex I had was in 2012 before being celibate, was with a gorgeous Hungarian escort that only cost me £170 for 2 hours of intense pleasure! I had a fierce appetite for eastern European pussy at one point, which is why I loved the influx of Polish, Romania, Czech, Slovak and god knows what else that came here for work .... and SEX!
 
Got a phat ass on her. Looks cute, nice skin. Not quite my type, but at the end of the day enjoy it my man, and get your moneys worth.

I remember going to Hollands red light district, and I've been to several other countries in Europe, and around the world from France, Italy, Serbia, Thailand.

They all seem to be very similar, in that you are the business, SHOCK, but as men we can get too simple about this, forgetting that the attention from her, is because of £$£$£$ and I dont blame them one second ... I encourage all women in this business to milk the men as much as they can, more so the wealthy ones.

I certainly spent allot of money in France on very high class dancers, that fucked literally all day and night! pity they dont actually like us English (xd) the sex was INCREDIBLE, and I lost count how many times I went out and fucked on that so called holiday, more a fuck-festival.

Here in Britain it has very good clubs for high end dancers, but I never do this anymore. Been to some in the capital, Birmingham, and Liverpool, Manchester. Need to be careful you use a proper club here in the UK, because otherwise you can end up in scraps with some of the shit that live around the area, staggering around drunk, and they see you with some hot lass and start shit.

LOTS of quality escorts though here in the UK, that you can scroll through online, many work independently and charge cheap rates. Last sex I had was in 2012 before being celibate, was with a gorgeous Hungarian escort that only cost me £170 for 2 hours of intense pleasure! I had a fierce appetite for eastern European pussy at one point, which is why I loved the influx of Polish, Romania, Czech, Slovak and god knows what else that came here for work .... and SEX!
 
LOTS of quality escorts though here in the UK, that you can scroll through online, many work independently and charge cheap rates. Last sex I had was in 2012 before being celibate, was with a gorgeous Hungarian escort that only cost me £170 for 2 hours of intense pleasure! I had a fierce appetite for eastern European pussy at one point, which is why I loved the influx of Polish, Romania, Czech, Slovak and god knows what else that came here for work .... and SEX!

What a wonderful way to enter celibacy. ?
 
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