Dating or Getting into a relationship with a EXOTIC DANCER?

[DLD]

Rock more ice than an ICEBERG, dawgy.

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[REDZULU2003]

I hope she does break free and make a more respectful life for herself.

 

[DLD]

I hope she does break free and make a more respectful life for herself.

I pray they all do my brother

 

[Tornadocock]

I pray they all do my brother

I hope she does but I think it's like everything else. So many people quit smoking and go back, they can't make real life changes (fail)

 

[REDZULU2003]

Sure, but that's her life, and you'll never change anyone that either doesn't want to, or isn't ready. Show them the options yes, but in the end it drains you.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Yep that drains the supportive side because,you think about how to help them out but in the long run is up to them 100%,they may get help from everybody,if they want to change they will,sounds ridiculous but the one day at the time formula is key here..

 

[DLD]

Great discussion on a massively important subject. I’m glad the brotherhood has been shining a light on these things over the last few years. We should all want to not only improve ourselves but also help those around us improve their own life. The world has become a very disturbing and sinful place, we have to be the positive light in this darkness.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Great discussion on a massively important subject. I’m glad the brotherhood has been shining a light on these things over the last few years. We should all want to not only improve ourselves but also help those around us improve their own life. The world has become a very disturbing and sinful place, we have to be the positive light in this darkness.

Sin rules the world

 

[TuffDong]

Sin does not rule in my kingdom.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

They call it a sinny sunny sin lol that's ok

 

[Tornadocock]

Great discussion on a massively important subject. I’m glad the brotherhood has been shining a light on these things over the last few years. We should all want to not only improve ourselves but also help those around us improve their own life. The world has become a very disturbing and sinful place, we have to be the positive light in this darkness.

So true DLD, Getbiglonger7, REDZULU2003, but life moves on, I realize you can't put Your life on hold to help others. I have enjoyed the ride so far, I got what I needed a boost like you jump start a car, I'm back on track with a real goal. I just need to reaffirm what I want and what I need to keep me from falling back. I realize the fastest road sometimes has the biggest CRASH ? and burn. But slow and steady sometimes doesn't win The race. Got to find that happen place in the middle. ???????????

 

[DLD]

So true DLD, Getbiglonger7, REDZULU2003, but life moves on, I realize you can't put Your life on hold to help others. I have enjoyed the ride so far, I got what I needed a boost like you jump start a car, I'm back on track with a real goal. I just need to reaffirm what I want and what I need to keep me from falling back. I realize the fastest road sometimes has the biggest CRASH ? and burn. But slow and steady sometimes doesn't win The race. Got to find that happen place in the middle. ???????????

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[TomasRowley98]

Your story is very similar to mine. In my case, we got married and I was crazy about this girl. She was the hottest girl I've ever had. After the wedding, we spent more than two years together and during this time we were able to get bored with each other. By mutual consent, we divorced, as we could not be with each other anymore. I have a lot of respect for her, and that's why I looked in here Stay Friends After Divorce: Why, Coping, and Moving On, and I realized that it's better to stay friends with such people. We've been through so much and it would be stupid to cut off the whole experience. It's human nature, after all. A person gets tired of things and people.

 

[DLD]

@Jackxxx knows his stuff on this subject!

 

[goodfella18]

If you you marry à girl because of herr body you Will not stay with her, love os everythin

 

[Threak-X]

Your story is very similar to mine. In my case, we got married and I was crazy about this girl. She was the hottest girl I've ever had. After the wedding, we spent more than two years together and during this time we were able to get bored with each other. By mutual consent, we divorced, as we could not be with each other anymore. I have a lot of respect for her, and that's why I looked in here Stay Friends After Divorce: Why, Coping, and Moving On, and I realized that it's better to stay friends with such people. We've been through so much and it would be stupid to cut off the whole experience. It's human nature, after all. A person gets tired of things and people.

It sounds like the eye-candy lost its' sweetness and the "Honey-Moon" was over...

"Everything you love, you will eventually lose"...
...whether you want to or not. Happy to read you guys parted as friends; Life is part of "Letting Go" and knowing when to do that is very hard sometimes.

Great article you shared on relationships breakups @ BREAKUP-ANGELS.COM...

 

[DLD]

If you you marry à girl because of herr body you Will not stay with her, love os everythin

so very true. The most important part of a relationship in my opinion is being friends. The best relationship I ever had with a woman is when she was my best friend. She had a beautiful body and she was a beautiful woman but it was the connection we had as friends that nurtured our sexual relationship.

 

[Getbiglonger7]

Some say women n men may never be friends...is that right is that true?? Why they say that, in a relationship being friends sounds great !! I think most couples aren't friends ? are they lol

 

[Threak-X]

Some say women n men may never be friends...is that right is that true?? Why they say that, in a relationship being friends sounds great !! I think most couples aren't friends ? are they LOL

It's sounds like those people who say that use sex as the initial connection and then try to be friends later; it should be the other way around. Become friends first and then have sex, it's a much better experience — IMO

 

[huge-girth]

This thread is worth the bump,

 

[DLD]

This thread is worth the bump,

Dating Strippers always have fucked my head up.

 

[huge-girth]

Dating Strippers always have fucked my head up.

I've stopped sleeping with prostitutes. I've not had sex this year. I've grown so much mentally and spiritually. I'm very happy for myself.

 

[DLD]

Most Exotic Dancers get into the business for the quick generation of good money. If they don't have a well thought out exit plan they will usually get trapped in the lifestyle until their body expires from aging. No guys want to see or pay old grandmothers types flopping around their saggy parts.
Now, for @Tornadocock to be motivated to do PE and lose 30 pounds to impress her speaks self-esteem issues. It's usually a setup for disappointment and failure. Women like a man who is confident, funny and has someting going on, not a guy with only potential. Invest in your self-improvemnt and future and your return will surely pay off in a mulitude of dividends

Lighting was the master on this knowledge. Read the first few pages and read his words.