@Tornadocock from what you write it is evident that she's just making money off you. If you are having good fun, go for it! Just dont expect anything serious and NEVER put emotions for her or you'll end up bankrupt and lonely.
I think in a way I benefitted from having a little more motivation to focus on my PE and now hopefully my weight loss. I lost like 30 lbs in the last 6 months. I would do an extra session just before going to see here, and I enjoyed her ride me in the back.
Thanks Jackxxx I appreciate all the input from you and lightning I'll definitely keep you posted on the situation as it progresses.@Tornadocock from what you write it is evident that she's just making money off you. If you are having good fun, go for it! Just dont expect anything serious and NEVER put emotions for her or you'll end up bankrupt and lonely.
The way I see it, is been great motivation and ya pussy is always fun even if I can manipulate this more in my favor why not. ?
Bro she is playing you. Strippers always come in just for you on their day off
Strippers make fake social media accounts to make "special customers" feel privileged. My wife has fake social media accounts as well that I run.
I hope you are not spending all your hard earned money on her. It's sad to see this as my wife is the queen at manipulating guys with no club experience and getting their last dime when in the club. I feel really bad for regular working John's that get caught up because the money goes fast and then they go too.
Remember this is a profession and the dancer is providing a service.
I got no disrespect for the trade, it comes with a stigma that has had a bad rap for decades. I get that it's a job and that how they pay the bills. I've seen guys think they are smart just trying to ass grab on girls and have no intention of getting a dance. When I was dating I got my ex and her 2 best friends a night at a male strip club I book them a table up front near the stage. We were dating for like 4 years. She was turning 22 or 23.Exactly I have friend from the outside world and they say "Oh I dont like strip clubs because these bitches are all about the money" and Im like "DUDE, that is her workplace. Thats is her income. That is how she pay bills and food. Do you think she will go there just to see on your lap warming up your penis??"
That is saying women don't get abusing in any other form of life or career, wasn't a adult entertainment star almost beaten to death by her UFC boyfriend when he had a case of roid-rage@Lightning Im pretty sure it happens all the time that a customer becomes a stalker
In fact, sadly enough, there have been strippers killed by jealous psycho guys. A few years ago I used to watch all the time the TV show forensic files. I LOVE that show. And in many of them was about the story of a stripper who disappeared or mysteriously died. Dont recall happening in big urban areas though....it seem to be a more rural small town issue.
Of course girls fucking killed the business. All you see these days is cuban and venezuelan girls fucking for pennies. Unless you go to Eleven where all the girls there escort but they are HIGH paid. ALL the girls I knew, 100% of them either stopped dancing or moved to another state due to the same issue.
@Lightning Im pretty sure it happens all the time that a customer becomes a stalker
In fact, sadly enough, there have been strippers killed by jealous psycho guys. A few years ago I used to watch all the time the TV show forensic files. I LOVE that show. And in many of them was about the story of a stripper who disappeared or mysteriously died. Dont recall happening in big urban areas though....it seem to be a more rural small town issue.
Of course girls fucking killed the business. All you see these days is cuban and venezuelan girls fucking for pennies. Unless you go to Eleven where all the girls there escort but they are HIGH paid. ALL the girls I knew, 100% of them either stopped dancing or moved to another state due to the same issue.
That is saying women don't get abusing in any other form of life or career, wasn't a adult entertainment star almost beaten to death by her UFC boyfriend when he had a case of roid-rage
@Tornadocock from what you write it is evident that she's just making money off you. If you are having good fun, go for it! Just dont expect anything serious and NEVER put emotions for her or you'll end up bankrupt and lonely.
That is saying women don't get abusing in any other form of life or career, wasn't a adult entertainment star almost beaten to death by her UFC boyfriend when he had a case of roid-rage
Do any of them [these women] move off this path? or are they victims of cause and effect? always living this potential deadly, and abusive lifestyle.
I asked because in some of the posts it mentions that many working in this area have had hard lives including but not limited to sexual abuse. I understand that, but I never accept this leads someone into this line of work.
You choose it, is what I'm saying to you, and that is a personal choice, unless forced into it by some disgusting creature, its a choice.
One of my ex loves was abused by her father, and no way was she ever able to do this work.
Its a generalization that women who work in adult entertainment, and stripping, anything of this nature, have been in hard homes, or abused. Indeed, I have known loads of women that went to university here in the UK, and did escort work on the side for easy money.
You confirmed, as I already knew - friends that did it - ordinary women do this work.
I think it just needs pointing out, so these ladies dont all get put into the same box.
She's the type of girl that plays in the club, but doesnt do any sexual activity. Not even a hand job. She's a nice girl, from a normal family without a lot of money, but she's the type of lazy person. She's just comfortable dancing, making her money, smoking pot the whole day and staying in bed. Doesnt have the drive to do other things with her life. Eventually she will meet some good guy that loves her and take care of her.
@Jackxxx when I recently went down to visit a friend in Pompano, I stopped by Cheetahs. I couldn't believe that after 7 years, some of the same girls were still working there.
There was a mother and daughter that use to work there but I didn't see them the night I went. I also use to go out and chill with some dancers there named Miami, Mariah and Claudia. Not sure if you know any of them. We use to go to All-Star after the club closed.
My massage girl was still working there and she flipped out when she saw me. I stood for one beer and left.
Remember that club centerfolds in the middle of the industrial area of Pompano? I never understood that place. It was a Steakhouse before or something. My wife worked there one day when They first opened and made $10
I remember all those 3 names, specially Claudia. A latina with long hair and a delicious booty.
Yeah centerfolds is long gone. You're right, before it was a steakhouse or something. However after that it became a gay strip club called Swinging Richards. They were fined and shutdown by the city for nudity and prostitution. Then they build Centerfolds which was a beautiful club but never succeeded in attracting people. Eventually filed for chapter 11.
Then 1 year ago they demolished the whole block and built the new Solid Gold. The old solid gold and pure platinum on Federal Highway and Oakland Park were "indirectly" closed by the city. Basically the city of Fort Lauderdale didn't want more strip cubs in the city so they gave them a new ordinance: No more alcohol sales after 12AM. Of course a strip club cant survive without alcohol so they knew it was time to go. The old classic Solid Gold was demolished along with the strip mall in front of it and they just opened a Bahama Breeze there. The whole block where Pure Platinum was with that giant sex shop in the corner is currently flattened. Empty lot.
The new Solid Gold in Pompano I haven't been there yet, however Ive heard is a state of the art club with latest sound system, jacuzzi, different rooms, etc.
@Jackxxx , allot of studs I knew use to pump before scenes to girth-up, did you pump as well before scenes?
@Lightning remember Gia and Sunny at Cheetah? they used to hangout sometimes with Claudia at the club. Gia was a gorgeous exotic mix of middle eastern and puerto rican. Sunny was Costa Rican with a gorgeous body. I think I still have pics of them...Ill have to dig some very old files and see if I can find them...
That was Abby. 2009 Calendar
Oh yeah I remember her now lol. Never had fun with her but I remember her. So many memories from those days....the music, the smell, the girls, the voice of the dj, LOL....shots after shots after shots...I posted Sahara picture above your post. You probably know her too.