bad sex can someone help please

[bigtyivier]

hey guys, i need help with a problem. Last monday i finally had sex with a girl i was seeing for a while. me and her have great chemistry and are very comfortable with and around eachother.
i put on a durex lubricated condom and went to work on her. after 40 minutes tho my dick got softer inside of her and i took it out to try to restimulate myself but it didnt work and it only got softer. An hour later we decided to go for round two and i think the problem was i was around 95% erect when i put on the condom and that only lasted 5 minutes because i went soft again. the next day this happened again. can someone help me with this because im really bummed out. some of the reasons this might have happened is lately ive been smoking wayyyyy too much cigarettes and 2 nights before that was my fourth night in a row going out all night to clubs for allnighters. can soemone help me out with this, wat should i do or wat might be the problem? <

 

[rhfreak]

from the sounds of it, you were simply fatigued, dont sweat it...
I had a similair experience once that got me all worried (seeing as how im 22 and shouldnt be having problems of this nature)
It was a night after i had worked 5 straight 12hour night shifts outdoors, and was crazy tired. To celebrate my evening off, i went out to a few clubs with the girl, went back to her place, and we kinda got things going. Things were fine for the first few hours, but after that i found myself goinng a little limp. Tried to stimulate myself back up to 95%, but it went limp again after a few minutes.

After a few nights rest though, i was back in full form. I've also taken up a kegel routine, and haven't felt better. So i'd definetly recommend that.

Also, cutting the smokes down can't hurt.

 

[10inchadvantage]

Stop smoking. Don't party so hard. Also, condoms can reduce sensitivity.

 

[ithiel]

it aint got nothing to do with smoking. I think its that you been feelin the fatigue set in man.

 

[penguinsfan]

You may just need some wild stimulation. Tell her to play the rusty trombone.

 

[Vaseline_Knight]

it aint got nothing to do with smoking. I think its that you been feelin the fatigue set in man.

In actual fact it may have everything to do with smoking.
smoking and drinking coffee are two major contributers to ED.
The third one is lack of sleep.

So relax, get ur sleep, drink plenty of water, and take 1000-1500 mg of L-Argenine an hour before sex. You'll be very happy.

 

[bulc9]

In actual fact it may have everything to do with smoking.
smoking and drinking coffee are two major contributers to ED.
The third one is lack of sleep.

So relax, get ur sleep, drink plenty of water, and take 1000-1500 mg of L-Argenine an hour before sex. You'll be very happy.

L-Argenine is quality! I used to do this all the time, try jelqing as well makes erections alot harder and kegels! As VK said lots of water, no cigs, and mainly sleep!

 

[ithiel]

In actual fact it may have everything to do with smoking.
smoking and drinking coffee are two major contributers to ED.
The third one is lack of sleep.

So relax, get ur sleep, drink plenty of water, and take 1000-1500 mg of L-Argenine an hour before sex. You'll be very happy.

maybe so but I never had that type of problem, I been smoking for a minute now.

 

[Vaseline_Knight]

maybe so but I never had that type of problem, I been smoking for a minute now.

well you're superman ithiel... we all know that..
but for us regular folks... smoking can cause problems..

 

[10inchadvantage]

maybe so but I never had that type of problem, I been smoking for a minute now.

I hope you don't smoke "tobacco." If you're smoking weed that's a whole different story.

 

[ithiel]

I hope you don't smoke "tobacco." If you're smoking weed that's a whole different story.

matter fact I do both.

 

[BDS]

How long does it take to see improved erections by quitting coffee? I've tried quitting cold turkey, but can't go for more than a week or two. I have not seen any improvement in erection strength, in fact, they are a little softer.. Hydromaxm.

 

[10inchadvantage]

Wow, talk about a fattie. Unbelievable.

 

[samzman]

How long does it take to see improved erections by quitting coffee? I've tried quitting cold turkey, but can't go for more than a week or two. I have not seen any improvement in erection strength, in fact, they are a little softer.. Hydromaxm.

i have coffee everyday, doing kegels is what is the key. do that and you'll get hard as shit

 

[10inchadvantage]

That's some excellent ground weed man. You can't really judge it unless you see it up close and then smoke it.

 

[ithiel]

truly depends on what you got. These days I aint use to nothing but THC covered weed and purple shit like oprah and glover.