Do I really need to be bigger ?

[Kingy]

Been a member on here for a good few months and started off well doin Penis Enlargement but I've not done any for a month or so and I wanted to get things going again so planned to buy a Bathmate.

This evening I mentioned to my Mrs that I was going to get one and she asked why ? 'You don't need to' to which I replied not even if it makes me feel better about myself. She then said but it won't make me feel better because sometimes its uncomfortable already when you go balls deep and you haven't exactly go a skinny dick.

So basically my Mrs is more then happy with my size and sometimes can be uncomfortable and she says extra girth wouldn't be more pleasurable so do I really need to be bigger seeing as the only person I plan on sharing my dick with is her.

Yes it might make me feel better but could effect our sex life by making it unpleasurable for her.

What would you do ?

 

[neognostic]

I'd stay put. If you want to be the best lover for her you will only mess things up. She may think you're doing it to try and get new sexual pussy. By the way, what are your stats?

Agree with this.

 

[Jdcsd]

Haha yah my wife thinks I just want a bigger dick to impress new whores. But I just want it for my own safisfacti

 

[Kingy]

I'd stay put. If you want to be the best lover for her you will only mess things up. She may think you're doing it to try and get new sexual pussy. By the way, what are your stats?

Well that my aim to be the best lovers she's had so it would make sence to no do Penis Enlargement but its mainly for my own self esteem.

I'm 7in BPenis EnlargementL and was 5.3EG but might be less now since I haven't done anything for about a month

Haha yah my wife thinks I just want a bigger dick to impress new whores. But I just want it for my own safisfacti

My mrs doesn't think that's why I want it bigger because its not I want it bigger for myself and because I probably think it will be better for her but obv not

 

[DLD]

Best rule of thumb: Never let the female know what you ar doing no matter how much you want to. Penis envy is VERY real and it will destroy your relationship...I speak from deep, grave experience!

 

[Kingy]

Best rule of thumb: Never let the female know what you ar doing no matter how much you want to. Penis envy is VERY real and it will destroy your relationship...I speak from deep, grave experience!

Could you explain please I don't no what penis envy is lol

 

[DLD]

Could you explain please I don't no what penis envy is lol

When someone becomes jealous over you because of the attention you give your penis.

 

[Kingy]

When someone becomes jealous over you because of the attention you give your penis.

Oh right seems odd to me but if you've experienced it can't argue with it

 

[walkingmoon]

If you want a bigger penis, your girl, wife doesn't need to know about it. It's not lying or anything, it's just your thing, even if in a relationship, you both have your own lives, not everyone understands that actually, what makes relationships awkward sometimes. She should respect it anyway, you are not cheating on her, with your penis maybe Plus you won't get a big size increase over night(takes times), use Bathmate few times, right before having sex with your wife and see what kind of reaction will she give you. After a good Bathmate sessions, your penis will be expanded quite nicely for few hours, 99% she will like it.

 

[Kingy]

If you want a bigger penis, your girl, wife doesn't need to know about it. It's not lying or anything, it's just your thing, even if in a relationship, you both have your own lives, not everyone understands that actually, what makes relationships awkward sometimes. She should respect it anyway, you are not cheating on her, with your penis maybe Plus you won't get a big size increase over night(takes times), use Bathmate few times, right before having sex with your wife and see what kind of reaction will she give you. After a good Bathmate sessions, your penis will be expanded quite nicely for few hours, 99% she will like it.

She's not funny about it or anything she just thinks its abit sili.

Since not doing Penis Enlargement for the last month I've gone back to my original size of 4.75 EG but when I was doing Penis Enlargement I got upto 5.3 and she haven't even mentioned it so tbh I don't think she would really notice over time

 

[truitt661]

I say since she is the only one that is getting it and don't have an issue with it you should just let it be.

 

[walkingmoon]

If you really feel that it's going to give you a better feeling about your self, excluding what your wife thinks of it, then just get back on track, even if it's only with her and she is 100% satisfied with it. Don't limit yourself, I believe that both partners in any relationship should always be growing and developing (whatever it might be you are want it to be). Staying the same all the time and not trying to be better is really boring. It's your life though.

 

[Dapper Dan]

...when I was doing Penis Enlargement I got upto 5.3 and she haven't even mentioned it so tbh I don't think she would really notice over time

Because of this,, I say go for it.
If she doesn't like it, fall back, and everythings a - ok.

 

[b.d.d.]

if your Penis Enlargement is about a woman/man or pleasing them sexually then its for the wrong reason imo

thats a bonus but to me just liek any other workout it should be about your own happiness or finding purpose/meaning in life. if not you will probably never feel happy no matter how big your dick gets.

 

[DLD]

Some people aren't meant to be happy.

Their own worst enemy is themselves too, they actually choose to be unhappy.

 

[DLD]

I don't choose to be unhappy but it is constant. Mental illness sucks balls!

Listen to what you just typed! "I don't choose to be unhappy but it is constant" you are right whether you want to be or not. If it is constant, it will remain constant. Make the choice and agreement that happiness is constant! A simple shift in perspective will go miles with mental illness. It will feel fake at first but I promise you, eventually it will stick. We are quite similar and I only offer this advice, as you know, because I have been through it for years and I want to see you gain some joy in life!

 

[Kingy]

if your Penis Enlargement is about a woman/man or pleasing them sexually then its for the wrong reason imo

thats a bonus but to me just liek any other workout it should be about your own happiness or finding purpose/meaning in life. if not you will probably never feel happy no matter how big your dick gets.

Well it sort of is but isn't about pleasuring her.

She says she is more then happy with my size and I know I can satisfy her and she's said she always enjoys sex etc but deep down I think It can always be better therefor I think being bigger will make it better even if this isn't the case I still think it will help.

Also deep down I want to be the biggest she's ever had, now I don't know if she's had bigger then me or not but I want to be the biggest because if she has been with some one who is bigger I feel they've got the upper hand on me.

It's all I'm my mind and I'm very much a thinker so I'm always thinking I can do better or be bigger etc

 

[DLD]

It's all I'm my mind and I'm very much a thinker so I'm always thinking I can do better or be bigger etc

A quality of a successful man!

 

[Kingy]

A quality of a successful man!

It is but I'd doesn't always make a happy man, being a bodybuilder aswell I'm always looking at my body wishing this was bigger, that was this shape etc and same goes for my penis I always look at it and I'm unsatisfied.

If my penis were the same size as a semi erection when 100% flaccid I'd be happy and a inch longer and thicker I'd be happy

 

[DLD]

I try to see myself in a constant state of betterment, an evolving series of corrections to improve myself as a man. The goal is never to get there, it is too become abundant in the journey. You indeed should be happy with yourself at all points, as long as you are consciously striving to become better.