Turn a "Grower" into a "Shower"?

Hi everybody,

First of all, I'm not 100% sure if I'm a grower or shower, or if there is anything between, I'd say I'm a relatively large grower, especially in thickness. When my libido is high though, I notice, my penis being "extra" large in length and thickness and especially when flaccid compared to its flaccid size at low libido. I can also notice, that when libido is high, and I rubb it for a longer time, the spongy body sort of bulges to the sides, when flaccid and hard. It almost looks deformed in a good way. I'm 20cm (7.8in) long and 19.5cm (7.68in) around. So this extra thickness, especially at the head and the first 2 inches of the shaft coming from the head, makes it look and feel even thicker and also heavyer than normal. Unfortunately this effect lasts for only a day or so. And it only works, when my penis is already a lot thicker because libido is at its peak.

So here are my questions:

1. Does any of you experience the same relation between libido and penis size and "weight"?
2. Anyone ever experienced this sort of (comfortable feeling) swelling that stays for a day or so?
3. I recently read about the difference of a grower and a shower. The article basically said, that some penis muscle fibers of a grower, are constantly flexed or tense, while the ones of a shower are rather relaxed. This effects, that bloodflow for a flaccid shower is higher, and makes the penis look bigger. While the stronger or more tense penis muscles of a grower prevent bloodflow when flaccid. Is that true? And if so, are my penis muscles more relaxed when libido or sexdrive is high? And if still true, is there a way, to constantly keep your libido up and herewith the size of penis? Or is there a lotion or anything, that helps relax those muscles, increasing the bloodflow when flaccid and turn a grower into a shower?

I'm not unhappy with the size of my penis, especially the thickness, but it still feels much more comfortable in the days where libido is high.

Many thanks for your replies in advance and warm regards.

1- for most of the people here it would be VERY hard to believe that you are 7.68 in girth (no post girth session expansion, but normal)
2- (to your 1st question and onward- yes, I have experienced this and I experience this quite often. I think that this is completely true and is due to a partitial erection maybe. Flaccid is flaccid, if your libido is high you might have a 20-30 EQ, which may cause the heavier expansion you are talking about.
3- to your 2nd question- I think that you are talking about fluid retention. I get this on a pretty huge level and believe me, there's lots of fluid. Basically, this is no gain, like the expansion you get from exercising, this is not blood in your cells that makes them expand and become larger with time for permanently, it is rather the buildup that is blood between your inner shaft and your skin (which is no way a gain).
4- not quite sure on your 3rd question, but for me- when it's cold, not only does my penis get back into my body ,but the one that's out becomes small and feels like a string or a wire (not a very good feeling). I think DLD should answer this one since his knowledge on the penis is far beyond everyone here's.
5- and last- if I had such a girth, MAYBE I would have been a little unhappy,since sex will become more of a torture than of a pleasure act.

Im now a shower. Every continious Penis Enlargement will turn you into one.

Welcome. 7.68in girth? I find that hard to believe.

Heya mate! Yeah, post a pic please. I want to see the pic not because I don't believe, but because I wanna see how a 7.6 looks like .