The PE veil

Hey gentlemen, i wasn't sure where to post this so I figured whatever and do it here.


So come May and it'll be 6 years of PE for me and 6 years of being on this great, motivating forum. However as of recent I've been thinking a bit too much maybe, but I'm beginning to understand truly who I am, beyond material and the construct we all live in, the construct we all are forced to believe in and are supposed to follow. Regardless of race, culture, region it doesn't matter, a lot of who we as men throughout our lives for some strange reason revolves greatly around our penises. What's even more strange is that we do what we do for women. I guess this could work for both gays and straights but as straight men I know for sure if you have had sex with at least 3 women you'll know they don't know shit about sizes. A man with a 5" could please a women just as well as a 7" can(depending on the user obv lol) yet we are stuck is the predetermined mindsets that we need something we don't have or are blessed with from genetics. There is a social source of bullshit that rules our lives and makes men struggle with insecurities and spend endless time on penis exercises that in the long run we may not actually need. In terms of penis size and penis usability I think we can almost agree that women are retarded in that sense. So I question why? Why do I wear my SG everyday? Why do I jelq everyday? If I was 9x6 there's a woman out there who'll think I'm small cause she's tight about some bs. Yet if she's happy a 4.5" could be her dream come true. I don't know about most of you guys on here, but I am 5'7, fairly chunky and white and I mainly stick with black females and most of them tell me their previous men were black with arizona can size dicks, which I am nowhere near lol yet whenever I have sex they seem to be furthest from miserable. So I am not trying to deter anyone from pe'ing cause I myself will continue, yet I just question why do we feel the need to pe in a sense of growing. i really can't see why one would want a bigger dick for themselves. Somewhere along the lines it's for someone else's jaw to drop. If not, I don't see what else is the point, do you want to drop your own jaw by the sight of your dick? Seems a bit ridiculous to me, so I am questioning, why are we subconciously put into this situation that we need to be packin when our birth given sizes will suffice just well. It's like made to believe that if you aren't big you can't please a partner or you're less of a man or some shit.

I'm tired of seeing, reading and hearing this obsession completely filled with fallacies and nonsense that don't mean anything.
If you are a man and you PE for a bigger dick and not for a healthier penis, that's border line suspect, if it isn't for a partner and just yourself.
And if you think you need more to satisfy your partner, I'm pretty certain it isn't your size.

You only fuck dark skinned ones? Why? I would say that's suspect too bra just look at young thug, and tell me he doesn't look tranny. Or I could say that all dudes that have very very skinny, tiny wives are actually into little kids. Or that just because you like shaved pussy you're into prepubescent pussy because it looks similar. About PE we could get into the psychology if it but I think its just easier to say "I don't accept myself, let me change it" why look for all the problems when you got the solution to them bra. About the dark skinned chicks don't ask me if I'm prejudice or if its a trollish comment because if I only like blasians or any mix before full African its just preference bra. That's like Italian parents telling their daughter to bring home a nice Italian boy its just their preference, and its very respectable

Amongst other things, I actually do enjoy watching my dick spread apart good pussy, even if it isn't considered huge yet... but everyone has their own reasons, whether external influence or internal preference.

Ask yourself this: Why will *you* continue PE?

i would also add that some people here are also for getting a longer dick out of sheer joy or desire

I used to think it was just because I wanted to please any woman. But now, it's just to please my ego. Pre-determined male hormonal genetics already built into us. Gotta be bigger, gotta be better. I have had no bad complaints other than smacking the cervix which they liked. I wasn't happy all my life with my penis, I wanted to be bigger because I knew I was smaller than others, even though I was frickin average. I will stop once I am happy, which will be around 7.5bpel and 5.75-6 girth. Not to big but a great overall size. I've continued to grow myself as a person and physically as well. Why not do the same to my penis. I have made it healthy beyond belief and I know I won't have a prostate problem which runs in my family. I make everything to what I want, not what it should be or what others believe it to be. Essentially, I'm greedy but know what I want and will work hard for it.

I think for me, its a desire and power thing. Just like when I work on my body. I like catching women looking at me and excited by what they see. In the penis department, it is the same. I like the idea that they want me, but I get to choose whether they can have me. A bigger dick just sweetens the pot.

MoreThanLuck;680804 said:

I think for me, its a desire and power thing. Just like when I work on my body. I like catching women looking at me and excited by what they see. In the penis department, it is the same. I like the idea that they want me, but I get to choose whether they can have me. A bigger dick just sweetens the pot.

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Don't go stirring the pot with your dick now, ya hear.

I feel you, but what I'm aware of what my preferences are it was to just make an example maybe I worded it wrong. But I mean more so like if there wasn't this whole idea of being huge that is really setup, it's like something that gets pounded subconciously into a man during puberty if not before. And women play a huge role in keeping it alive. I also know why I PE and I definitely accept myself and have accepted myself prior to my gains

mahoney1234;680843 said:

I feel you, but what I'm aware of what my preferences are it was to just make an example maybe I worded it wrong. But I mean more so like if there wasn't this whole idea of being huge that is really setup, it's like something that gets pounded subconciously into a man during puberty if not before. And women play a huge role in keeping it alive. I also know why I PE and I definitely accept myself and have accepted myself prior to my gains

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Your wording is fine. You're right in the fact society plays a huge role in it as well. Society thinks 9" is average and that everyone has it. We know the truth and anyone who says they are, can't prove it. Only the brotherhood can. Yes, there are some men who are that size, but others just put the ruler under their dick. Tv shows, commercials, ads, etc. They all say we're supposed to be big. Just like if you have big feet or nose, you know.

runningignus;680853 said:

Your wording is fine. You're right in the fact society plays a huge role in it as well. Society thinks 9" is average and that everyone has it. We know the truth and anyone who says they are, can't prove it. Only the brotherhood can. Yes, there are some men who are that size, but others just put the ruler under their dick. Tv shows, commercials, ads, etc. They all say we're supposed to be big. Just like if you have big feet or nose, you know.

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yeah Tv shows, infomercials, publicity,�naked people movies�,they all have an influence,but can be a negative one sometimes....

shortdick;680854 said:

yeah Tv shows, infomercials, publicity,�naked people movies�,they all have an influence,but can be a negative one sometimes....

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Definitely negative. I used to think those guys were huge but there at my size now, not even that big than what I was. It's all money in the pocket of companies playing on people's insecurities.

shortdick;680854 said:

yeah Tv shows, infomercials, publicity,�naked people movies�,they all have an influence,but can be a negative one sometimes....

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Real women don't actually desire sex like men do for the reasons we do. Your average woman wants sex to fulfill her biological imperative to make babies. Once the babies come, the man is trapped and it's sweat pants, fat baby belly, and Facebook time! #truth

pogzee;680730 said:

i would also add that some people here are also for getting a longer dick out of sheer joy or desire

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yeah who wouldnt want to get to ten inchesx6 waking up every morning n witnessing a huge phyton resting between your legs..

runningignus;680796 said:

I used to think it was just because I wanted to please any woman. But now, it's just to please my ego. Pre-determined male hormonal genetics already built into us. Gotta be bigger, gotta be better. I have had no bad complaints other than smacking the cervix which they liked. I wasn't happy all my life with my penis, I wanted to be bigger because I knew I was smaller than others, even though I was frickin average. I will stop once I am happy, which will be around 7.5bpel and 5.75-6 girth. Not to big but a great overall size. I've continued to grow myself as a person and physically as well. Why not do the same to my penis. I have made it healthy beyond belief and I know I won't have a prostate problem which runs in my family. I make everything to what I want, not what it should be or what others believe it to be. Essentially, I'm greedy but know what I want and will work hard for it.

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i like your words i think there is this pre determined male hormaonal genetics,we want to be bigger,better.But yeah we have to work to gain those inches.

shortdick;680868 said:

i like your words i think there is this pre determined male hormaonal genetics,we want to be bigger,better.But yeah we have to work to gain those inches.

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Yeah. C'mon, it's not like it's free lol. We still work hard for these measly few inches😒 lol.

runningignus;680871 said:

Yeah. C'mon, it's not like it's free lol. We still work hard for these measly few inches😒 lol.

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yep we do but make sure you are not overtraining it lol

stillwantmore2;680864 said:

Real women don't actually desire sex like men do for the reasons we do. Your average woman wants sex to fulfill her biological imperative to make babies. Once the babies come, the man is trapped and it's sweat pants, fat baby belly, and Facebook time! #truth

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lol man this made me laugh so hard (pretty much cuz its truth). Altho women can be extremely sexy in sweat pants

We all come to PE for different reasons. There's never a need to feel bad, or guilty about wanting to pursue it. It SHOULD BE a "selfish" pursuit in my opinion. If you don't do it for yourself, there's really no motivation. Doing it for someone else will likely just result in disappointment.

stillwantmore2;680921 said:

We all come to PE for different reasons. There's never a need to feel bad, or guilty about wanting to pursue it. It SHOULD BE a "selfish" pursuit in my opinion. If you don't do it for yourself, there's really no motivation. Doing it for someone else will likely just result in disappointment.

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I believe everything we do is selfish one way or the other. Like donating to charity makes you feel good, you do it for the selfish reason cuz it will make you feel certain way.
Same as PE when people write they do it for women...no, you do selfishly wanting them to feel certain way or say certain things.

Luke 6:41 "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

Being selfish is usually bad, but sometimes you need to be selfish in the sense that you gotta sort your own issues out before you can 'care' about animals or what have you. Also I endorse stilly's post about biological clock that makes women get joy out of bearing kids. I want to own family one day, but I know that its not my place to be the 'nurturing' parent because I'm the baws one. Either way the universe is vast, and cuddling a mini-me/ kitten/ tree all day is pointless