Most embarrasing thing happend to me y-day:(

Okay so, it was my second time having sex. Yes im 18, and its only been the second time for me to have sex. I live in the middle east, so its not easy to do stuff like that with gurls over here.
So anyway. we were fooling around for like 20 mins, as usual i was very horny.
then i put on a condom, i just put my dick in her. and i ejaculated =/
WTF is that about. it was so embarassing i cant beleive it.
then i waited a while, and we did it again. i know if u take it slow, u can go longer. but i didnt take it slow at all the second time. and this time it lasted for only like 5 mins(non stop, just the sex, no fooling around). i was going REALY fast tho.
is this because i have no experience?
or am i a premature ejaculator???
Anything i can do to fix this?

second time seems pretty normal if you were pounding away like you say

Man I've blown a load before I've even gotten in a girl (although I did just get done pumping and it was difficult to get an erection as well, so I had to play with myself for a while). As long as you truly don't let it bother you it won't even stop you, or her. You should be able to get an erection within the hour again and go at it. Just keep having fun with her, and things will be alright.

When I blew the load, twice, before I ever got hard enough to penetrate, I simply kept going; as I knew it was just natural. Having that inner confidence really shines, and women love it. By the way, I did end up fucking her, and tearing her pussy up (although it was gross, blood everywhere). Anyway, just keep on doing it. You'll get better. Make sure you're getting her hot and heavy beforehand though.

Well, it happens man, don't make assumptions from 1 encounter, see if it keeps happening then maybe you do.

5 Mintues is alright, the average for a man is like..3 mins or something?

Personally sometimes I ejaculate in 30 seconds and sometimes it's like 15 minutes. It depends on some factors, give it another try.

khathas;300612 said:

Well, it happens man, don't make assumptions from 1 encounter, see if it keeps happening then maybe you do.

5 Mintues is alright, the average for a man is like..3 mins or something?

Personally sometimes I ejaculate in 30 seconds and sometimes it's like 15 minutes. It depends on some factors, give it another try.

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woow i didnt know that the average for a guy is 30 seconds.
yea i guess its diff everytime. im trying to think of other things, like when i masterbate, it really works
hopefuly il gett beetter. thanks man

Dude, it is called performance anxiety and it can lead to exactly that, premature ejac.

Your gonna be just fine, just do the exercises like jelqs and stretches, they will condition your penis, preparing it for tougher days and nights of sex by getting a bit desensitized as we all do.

You will be amazed how long i can go at it...talking about hours and not minutes or seconds. It also help to be confident in bed and confortable with the girl so get to know her better and feel for yourself that YOU CAN MAKE YOUR DICK DO WHAT YOU WANT IT TO DO and NOT the other way around.

Peace

Mike

P.s. i started at 11 yo eheheh

george_want_big;300633 said:

woow i didnt know that the average for a guy is 30 seconds.
yea i guess its diff everytime. im trying to think of other things, like when i masterbate, it really works
hopefuly il gett beetter. thanks man

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Lol, no I said it's 3 mins. But in reality it's probably 30 seconds as most people wouldn't admit the truth. No, lol, it's around 3-4 mins, you read my post wrong.

Dude, if it's only your second time having sex, of course you are gonna bust fast. It feels good as hell and you just aren't used to it yet. You will get better with time and more experience. We all go through it. You gotta crawl before you walk. Like others have said, even now, sometimes I will bust a nut in a minute or so, and other times I can go forever. It just depends. Try not to think about it too much or you will be so conscious about it that you will go quickly every time. Just have fun!

No problem. With time, you'll be able to pace yourself better. Perfectly normal. I've been having sex with the same lady for going on 45 years and I still bust a nut immediately at times. Wait a while and go back at it. She'll appreciate it if you do. And don't worry if it aint rock hard. It'll happen.