going flaccid with condoms

Have any of you experienced this where you dick wont stay hard with a condom on, I feel bad for the girl because I dont finish all the time because my dick just goes half way soft inside of her. are they ways to stay hard is it the condom or is it just me. I hate condoms but I hate std's even more so I need help.

Thanks for the help in advance

Take some Viagra, that will help a lot. 25mg should do the trick.

Wats your stats, try a bigger condom, this happend to me the condom was to tight felt like it cut the circulation off and my dick went numb and came the soft, try magnum or xl.

A little viagra goes a long way; check out the ad at the top of the General Penis Enlargement forum. Try the very thin condoms or the magnums, if you have some girth.

im not that big only at 6 in i never measured my girth but im not skinny, i just have a feeling its the condom or in my mind

if the condom feels too tight or it it sinks in deep in your penis time for a bigger size.

You are psychologically hurting yourself. By HATING the condom you are setting yourself up to fail. Reprogram your beliefs by buying a large box of condoms (say 20) and over the space of a week or two, make yourself hard and practise putting them on quickly and smoothly, then masturbating for a while wearing it.
You need to increase your confidence and comfort wearing them and start to look on them as positive things, eg when you reach for one, you know you're about to get laid =)

Also, just do what is takes to stay hard when inside her. Think dirty thoughts, talk dirty etc. Thinking about my gf's younger sis often helps me out !

Try Trojan Supra condoms. After trying polyurethane, I can't ever see using latex again. They are much thinner, almost as strong (I asked my sister, an M.D. that works with STDs, and she says the slight difference is insignificant), and the heat and sensation is unreal. I too sometimes have a problem with going soft in the middle of fucking and I don't understand it. The only thing I have chalked it up to is that there is no love or emotion behind the act for me. To actually care for what I'm fucking is foreign to me, as I've never been in love. It's not that I hate the condom. I wouldn't want to not use it. On the rare occasions I've had sex, my sex has been cheaper than my booze, and I've been known to hit the MD 20/20 on occasion. Guess I've been a real skankmonger. Anyhow, go try a box of the Supras and see if they help at all.

Usually upping the size helps a lot bro. First go to a magnum because it could be embarassing if the condom slipped off because it was too big =/

penguinsfan said:

Try Trojan Supra condoms.

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they only thing i have foudn with tyhe supra comdums is that they are smaller or marrower that regualt ones so they are even tighter than a regular comdom. they leave a deep deep ring around the base of my penis that is somewhat painful after sex (soar).

joe_smith said:

they only thing i have foudn with tyhe supra comdums is that they are smaller or marrower that regualt ones so they are even tighter than a regular comdom. they leave a deep deep ring around the base of my penis that is somewhat painful after sex (soar).

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Wow, I found them to fit far more loose and comfortable than Trojan ribbed or Lifestyle condoms. Strange.

penguinsfan said:

Wow, I found them to fit far more loose and comfortable than Trojan ribbed or Lifestyle condoms. Strange.

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Really? I was talking to a friend abvout them and she said her bf had the same problem. We liked the thinness and the feeling that brought, but the tightness and deep ring they would leave was just too uncomfortable. I dont think my girth is that much. I am about 5.8 and 6 on a good day. From what i figure 5.5-6 is average. Who knows maybe we got a bad batch or something.

My girth is 5.5" and we are both above average. Perhaps not so much for this board, but certainly for the public at large. 5" is probably a good average and a number of men are down around 4.5-4.75".

I don't know why I liked them so well, but I didn't notice any real tightness or any ring mark and the sex was 500% better.