In order to not highjack the thread and to help OP with his situation, I can tell you from personal experience as a stripper that we men and women strippers are not too different. We become masters to hustle. We will make you fall in love and give us everything. Thats our job. It takes a very patient strategic job on your part to determine the intentions.
If it became practice to only see her at the club and spend money on her, thats a bad symptom. If you find out and she notice you walking away, she will give you the chance to meet her outside one day for a coffee or something at which point she will use all her power to make you fall in love again and become hypnotized to go back to the club and spend money on her. It will make you feel like "her daddy".....like "im the one who takes care of her, Im so proud of myself" She will flirt with you at the club and make you feel like "you're the one".....like "he look Im here making money from other guys, giving dances, but you're my daddy right there" and in reciprocity you will keep spending money on her and coming back to the club.
One thing you can do in order to even out the situation, and this will really piss her off, is hang out with different girls. Now this is tricky: She will get pissed because of two different possibilities. 1. She se that she's losing that money to another one or 2. She has feelings for you and she's jealous. Therefore, hang out with another one, spend money with the other one, but dont let her see that youre spending money with the other one. So if she comes to you to confront you, just be like "baby Im not even spending money with that girl, were just talking, hanging out. Eventually SHE WILL find out in the back if you were spending money wirth her or not, but hey, this is a game. The best player win. You HAVE to play hard with her in order to find out her true intentions.
If she's the one looking for you, trying to meet with you, spend time with you, trusting you her secrets, then those are good signs. If the tries to keep her stripper world completely away and separated from you, thats another good sign.
There as a book, a masterpiece of business that apply to many situations in life called "The art of the deal" written by the 45th President of The United States Donald J. Trump. That book will enlighten you not only for work and business but in many areas of interaction with society and how to manipulate humans to win.
I had girls taking me on vacation to expensive hotels, taking me shopping, dining, then making it rain on me on the stage. And on top of that I fucked the shit out of them. Its all games. Dirty games.
.
