Both ends of the stick :(

Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now. Well its been pretty great, but I think its kind of fucked up. So she tells me that the most any other guy has made her cum was 3 in 1 nite. I'm thinking, holy shit, thats pathetic. I go down on her for about a half hour to 45 mins or so and can make her cum 15 times easily, i've done it several times. Then we fuck and I can get her off another 4 or 5 times pretty easily. The most i've ever made her cum was 20 times. Sounds like bullshit, I know. But when I go down on a girl I really know what i'm doing, I know right where her g-spot/clit are. Finger her g-spot and suck on her clit, and trust me, shes bound to cum fast. So obviously im the best shes ever had, but I dont really hear that from her. Shes told me a few times, and said she was being 100% honest. I get to hear that from all her girlfriends that i've met, who call me wanting to know if I would be up for a 3 some and I should talk to my gf about it.

So sure, thats great. Thats awsome. But theres another side to this stick. The shorter side. Shes also told me i'm the smallest shes ever been with. Shes never been with anyone under 6 1/2 inches before me. Wow. Thats a blow to the ego. And I thought I was doin alrite at around 5 1/2. The biggest shes ever had was 9 1/2 inches. Im just thinking to myself AM I THE ONLY GUY WITH AN AVERAGE DICK AROUND HERE? Shes only been with about 10 guys though, but still. Shes also only 18. I'm 20. She says the average guy shes been with was probablly about 7 1/2 inches. There are 2 sides to every stick though, and I would much rather be the 9 1/2 inch guy that has only made her cum 3 times then be the guy who can make her cum 20 times and have a 5 1/2 inch dick. Even though she gives me a great bj for about an hour or so most of the time, it still pisses me off. I dont know why I posted this, I just needed to vent >

Fuck this i'm gonna walk up one day with a big ol'e 8x6 and shove it down her throat. Thank god for Penis Enlargement.

Forgot to add: Althought its kind of nice being the biggest around shes ever had, at 5.5 in girth. Sometimes she has problems taking that. That kind of helps I guess.

Sigh. I like I said, I just wanted to vent.

hey man, I guess you don't really need us to answer as you just needed to get it off your chest.

but let me tell you something:
1. girth matters!!! and you're the biggest one, so why care about the other guys?
2. you're givin it to her, she's givin you great blowjobs, so why wanna have 9 inches? she didn't say it felt better, did she? maybe she prefers your fat thing???

enjoy the great sex you're havin mate!

First, girls don't generally know size, so take what she says with a grain of salt. 10 lovers and one 9.5 incher...? She musta won the dick lottery. It was probably 8 at the very most, which is 1 in a 1000 men statistically. She's probably telling the truth comparatively, which is that you are the smallest in length but the biggest in girth, but even then there is always an element of bragging with women and their ex bf's lengths. Women exaggerate the size of their old boyfriends to impress others just as much as men do their own size. Kinda makes them feel like the alpha female or something.

Second, you are average sized and that's nothing to be ashamed of. I started Penis Enlargement at about that size. No one ever kicked me out of bed or complained about it before I made it bigger. I only had problems making a woman cum during intercourse when I got really fat. Don't think you're alone because of all the naturally big-dicked mofos here. They just post more pics than the smaller, average guys, so it kinda skews our perceptions of size a little.

Do your Penis Enlargement and get that length up a notch or two. I bet if you could get to 7/ 7.5 her story about old BF sizes will change a little. Especially when you start bottoming out. Yes, I'm speaking from experience. My wife's "horse-hung" old boyfriend wasn't quite so big when I hit 7" and tore the bottom of her pussy with my 7X6 while pounding the shit out of her one night.

PS-- I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but be leery of women who have 20 orgasms. It's extremely rare for women to be able to do that. I have found, from my own personal experience and also from discussing it with other men, that women generally only have 2 or three. And, yes, I know where the g-spot and clit is, too. Women have two kinds of orgasms. "Little ones" and "real ones". Real ones will make their feet curl and their pussies gush. I'm not saying you aren't making her cum 20 times, but that is something I have heard before, and it is very, very uncommon. If you would like to go more into this, I will. If it upsets you, as it has others I have discussed this with, then forget I said anything.

kong1971 said:

It was probably 8 at the very most, which is 1 in a 1000 men statistically.

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Shit, thats much better to know, makes me feel much better actually. I come here and i'm thinking HOLY SHIT DOES IT EVER END!?!?

I thought it was more like 1 in 100, but 1 in 1000 makes me feel better.

PS-- I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but be leery of women who have 20 orgasms. It's extremely rare for women to be able to do that. I have found, from my own personal experience and also from discussing it with other men, that women generally only have 2 or three. And, yes, I know where the g-spot and clit is, too. Women have two kinds of orgasms. "Little ones" and "real ones". Real ones will make their feet curl and their pussies gush. I'm not saying you aren't making her cum 20 times, but that is something I have heard before, and it is very, very uncommon. If you would like to go more into this, I will. If it upsets you, as it has others I have discussed this with, then forget I said anything.

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Nah dude, why would it upset me? Yeah, i'm probablly just giving her little ones, but I do know she is cumming that much, which does mean shes at least having an orgasm usually. I'm sure there are a few really really nice ones in there though. Probablly the first few at least, maybe a few others. Before her I never really cared about getting girls off or not, I would make sure she got off at least twice or so, so that she couldnt say I was horrible in bed, and then that was it. I guess I actually love this girl and seeing her in extacy and knowing its because of me, really makes me happy for some reason.

Now, its unually not in 1 sitting, no. But over the course of the night, yes. We usually spend saturday nights together because of her schedule, and the fact that I want to hang out with my friends and that she wants to hang out with hers friday night. She always sleeps over saturday night and stays into sunday morning till about 12-1 or so. (Hence the reason I sleep all day saturday and then sunday after she leaves)

Even though i'm most likely giving her little ones with a few real ones mixed in there when I really really start going at it, its nice to know that I can make her cum that much at least. And its really nice to know that if she ever has sex with another guy, shes going to be like, "wtf is this shit? Get away from me you pathetic asshole!" I guess feelings have alot to do with it too. Sometimes this girl scares me, she says she wants to get married and have kids with me pretty soon... But when you have strong feelings like that for a person then its easy to just lay back and relax and let it happen, then if you're stressed about something like that.

By the way, Dr. Evil is fucking awsome.

7" is 1 in 100 statistically. Most men are 5.5 to 6.5 inches. 5 or less is on the low side. 6 or more is on the high end of the average scale. Consider also, most vaginas are only 5.5 to 6 inches deep, so when they say size doesn't matter, I think they are actually being pretty honest.

I still want my 8 NBP, tho!!!

kong1971 said:

I still want my 8 NBP, tho!!!

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Dont we all man, dont we all. 8x6 NBP is my goal as well. Heres to our goals eh? Cheers.

amen.

KONG = PS-- I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but be leery of women who have 20 orgasms. It's extremely rare for women to be able to do that. I have found, from my own personal experience and also from discussing it with other men, that women generally only have 2 or three. And, yes, I know where the g-spot and clit is, too. Women have two kinds of orgasms. "Little ones" and "real ones". Real ones will make their feet curl and their pussies gush. I'm not saying you aren't making her cum 20 times, but that is something I have heard before, and it is very, very uncommon. If you would like to go more into this, I will. If it upsets you, as it has others I have discussed this with, then forget I said anything.

I would have to agree. I dated a woman that was about ten years older than me. I could make her cum repeatedly or she would be on top and find the right spot. But most of them were quickie orgasms. She would have a good one, pause for a bit, start moving and sliding again and have another. Then pause again, move and slide, and have another. Think of it like an earthquake with aftershocks.

Here's my little story on this:

I have a very good friend who lives with a woman my wife is friends with. Now, my buddy is a pretty cool guy, but he likes to brag. I just go along with most of his BS because I know that he has a little streak of insecurity... and he's funny as hell, to boot. He's skinny, average height, pretty good looking. I've never seen his cock, but according to him it's about 8 inches long (riiiiight) HOWEVER he did see my pics on here and said, "Gawddam!" so it can't be that big because I'm not that big myself.

We are buddies and talk about sex and he has told me, among other things, that he always gets his girlfriend off at least 10 times when they do it. He says they go at it all night long, and that once, for her 23rd birthday, he gave her 23 orgasms and one to grow on.

His girlfriend and my wife talk and she told Missus Kong that he was sometimes a little fast on the trigger, not all that big down there, and when my wife asked her about the "10 orgasms every time" she just laughed and said, "Yeah, right!" and told my wife that she sometimes faked it to make him happy or so he would hurry up and finish.

HERE IS MY OFFICIAL TAKE ON MULTIPLE FEMALE ORGASMS:

Multiple female orgasms (past 2 or three) are 99% fake.

Women and men are basically the same. Our genitals are shaped different, but women just basically are not that different from us. A true multi-orgasmic woman is as rare as a multi-orgasmic man. Women, like us guys, are happy to get off once, maybe twice.

Consider: when you are making love, there are periods when you are taking it easy, and then periods when the sensation is more intense, and you speed up a little, kind of go "Ooh, yeah" and then have to slow down or you'll pop.

Women are the same way... but dudes, "Ooh yeah" is not an orgasm.

I have researched this and discussed it with my wife, who is very honest about sex with me. In one survey I read, they asked women about orgasms. The numbers were like 40% always have a orgasm, 40% sometimes have an orgasm and 20% rarely or never have an orgasm. 90% have, at one point or another, faked orgasms. I'll do some surfing and try to find that survey because it is very interesting. Nowhere in that survey did it ask what percentage of them regularly had 20 orgasms... because it is a laughable male myth.

These "little orgasms" are just peaks of pleasure during intercourse, periods where the female is feeling good, enoying it, but they are not...real...orgasms.

Why men persist in thinking this is kind of beyond me. I think some of it is ego, some of it is male insecurity or one-upmanship. I don't know... but as I said before, I would rather give my wife one real orgasm than 20 fake ones and she heartily agrees.

You wanna get one up on your gal, then let this 20 orgasm crap go. Concentrate on giving your women one or two REAL ones and you'll have em eating out of the palm of your hand.

so the "little ones" you refer to are the tremors and shakes type. where the big ones are the cock clinching, heavy cumming, climbing up the wall type. right? and what about those ones that are sort of chained. she cums or gets off heavy and you keep going at it? just courious since the later are always awesome. and my wife claims she never has faked one. and I believe and hope that is the case. am I able to make her cum every time? nope to be totally honest. sometimes it's a mood issue or whatever.

Believe what you want. I ain't trying to rock the boat. This is just my perspective and my opinion. Just do some research. There are plenty of articles and surveys and shit like that on female websites. I think it's hilarious to read female articles and they're all full of tips on how to have an orgasm like its instructions for puting together a jigsaw puzzle...and then you come to a male forum and 80% of the guys give their women 1000000000 orgasms in five minutes! I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but do the math.

kong, bud, I have no idea nor anything to compare it to since I have onle been with my wife. do understand I was stateing what I think I know and was inquiring about the rest. you and several others here have been with more women than I so especially in this case I must defir to you.

loco, I can't really say anything about your wife specifically because...well...I never had sex with your wife. :D Know what I mean? There are women who have multiple chained orgasms, just like there are multi-orgasmic men. I'm just saying that this is a very, very rare thing.

Most of the women I have been with were very honest, very funny gals who weren't afraid to speak their mind. This is the type I have always went for. Down-to-earth, earthy girls. I never went for phony barbie doll types. In every single case I can think of, they were just happy to get off once or twice. None of them were super multi-orgasmic like you hear around here sometimes... 30 times in a row, with pussy juice spraying up the walls... I mean, come on! :D

Why do they do it then? Different reasons. A little bit of play-acting to turn the guy on. Out of frustration, to get it over with, if the guys not getting them there and its taking too long. Out of ignorance, thinking they're supposed to do it. To please their guy, who thinks he's god's gift. Whatever.

You should discuss it with your wife -- in a light-hearted, non-pressure way -- and see what her take on it is.

She may not be having huge orgasms, but I do know she is cumming that much dude... When im fingering her and sucking on her clit and her vagina starts getting all tight and contracting then she always says "Im cumming" (usually screams) and pulls away from me really quick cuz she gets really sensitive down there when she cums, then I do know shes having an orgasm and cumming. Like I said, they may not be huge, but at least I know she cums that much.

*Sigh* believe me or not, i really dont have a reason to come on these boards and lie... sorry but i dont care what you guys think of the situation, but thanks for your input, good or bad. i was just posting this when i was venting... i didnt really even expect anyone to reply.

Well... that sounds like an orgasm to me!

Hey, don't sweat it cause I'm not trying to sound like a know-it-all or the expert around here. Believe me. I was just chipping in my 2 cents. That's what a forum's all about!

Yeah lol its all good man you're opnions are always welcome, its cool to know what other people think. I'm just saying I wouldnt have a reason to come here and lie though. And what the hell why did you take that signature of dr evil down? Everytime I saw that think it made me laugh!

my take on this....

Kong I think you are very right to an extent in the orgasm department. I think its not fairly common for girls to have over 3+ orgasms. however I do not think its entirely impossble or rare, In my experience which is (17 girls) the average # of orgasms girls have are between the 1-3 range but not the maximum.... this is assuming you can get them to orgasm. What I found in my experience is that the initial orgasm is the hardest, the woman gets more sensitive thereafter with each following one. I think if time wasnt a problem or we wouldnt get tired or etc.. most women could reach the 3+ range. I also believe there are different ranges of orgasms other then just a small one and a big one.. My current girlfriend has had one everytime weve been together with the exception of 2 times. She gets soaking wet, and convulses around me, but she does not squirt or anything crazy like that etc... then she has to pause for about 30-45secs before she continues. I know shes not faking it, and I dont think this falls into a huge or small orgasm but rather into the middle of that range. Again I am not disagreeing with you on all accounts but rather then have a low level orgasm or high level I think there is more of a range then that such as something like 1-5 from a smaller orgasm to a mind shattering one...

Sonar on to you

#1 thing to remember is this.. your girl is with you and not mr fake 9 1/2"
all girls have different perspectives on things etc...
Next thing is this, even if he does exist at the size who cares, u beat him in girth.... I dont know about you but I know my girl would rather have a shorter thick cock then a long skinny one..., grab a pencil thats close to 7" long, do you thing that would satisfy your girl or your thick cock? thought so

I cant say I blame you with the worrying i was on your same boat and dated an african girl who had the assumption that all black guys were huge etc.. and she told me about her exs and stuff that were 8.75-9" long etc... Well guess what, I was the only guy she couldnt deep throat and when we went to have sex, she tore open before I was even half way in and bled on my couch....

What you have to remember is this and I just realized this recently.... you can always improve and increase your size...so although you may be unhappy about your size as of now, you WILL get bigger...

Thanks, cleaner. I take alot of shit around here sometimes because I try to be honest. Some men just don't want to truth. They just want you to say, "Wow, you gave her 25 orgasms and she shot her juice up the walls! You are awesome, dude!"

I'm glad you get what I'm saying. Yes, I can give my wife more than one orgasm. I'm not saying you can't do it. I have given her 2 and 3 orgasms many times. But I would say 3 is normally about the max for most women most of the time. My wife is perfectly satisfied with matching me one for one. Hey, sometimes I can go 2 or 3 times in one night myself... but not very often. A little too old and fat for that kiddie stuff anymore!

It's like Eddy Murphy said once you get that "ooOoOOOOOOHHHH" from them you can act however the hell you want with her.