Anal Question

I don't think it's gay or anything to do anal with a woman, but I do think it's rather dirty. I mean... feces comes from there.

Stuff_ said:

I don't think it's gay or anything to do anal with a woman, but I do think it's rather dirty. I mean... feces comes from there.

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That's why it's not an act that lends itself to spontaneity, at least if you plan on going bare-back. The woman needs to eat light for 24-48 hours prior, and have an enema or two within a few hours before the act. At least, that's what I've read, never having been a part of the festivities.

...or you could simply wear a condom.

IHaveAVagina said:

From a woman's perspective.. and I've never had anal, or sex for that matter.. anal is not attractive. In any way. At all. It's rather gross and I would more than likely laugh in a guy's face if he ever suggested anal.

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Of course it doesn't surprise me that you would be grossed out by it, as many women are. I don't claim to know every man's perspective on it, but mine my be a little interesting.

I think it is an act of incredible intimacy. I've never been in love, but I once had anal sex with a two-night stand. This was a girl I hooked up with and spent the following night with. Although I did not "love" her, I did feel a strong bond with her and would no doubt have a closer relationship with her if she did not live hundreds of miles away (I was on business). We shared our troubles and I did feel as much closeness and intimacy with her and I have felt with anyone. Anal sex just kind of came up. I didn't really ask for it and she didn't beg for it either. I was gentle and in tune with her needs or concerns and I could tell she definitely got pleasure from it.

One can certainly argue that the ass is indeed dirty. I mean, condoms and some hygeine measures can keep it from being an awful traumatic experience, as far as cleanliness is concerned. Still, I wouldn't do it with just anyone. There are certainly women I would have vaginal intercourse with that I would not want to have anal sex with. So, I shared something special with this girl; something I wouldn't do with just anyone.

I think if I would be in a loving relationship with a woman, I want to enjoy her whole body. I want to bond with her in every way possible. I would just put aside minor issues of cleanliness to enjoy intimacy. That is all within reason of course, but that is why I don't see anything gross about anal. Yet, I understand why so many do.

I tried with the wife just to try something different.
We both enjoyed it but it's not something i'd do very often.

I have a question about anal sex i hope some of you monsters can comment on. I just started on my quest for 7.5 nbpel X 6 (goal by the end of 05), and was wondering if with 6 inches of girth there is anyway some women will let me even attempt anal sex. What about head? Dont want to give up head. Any comments would be great.

A 6" girth won't prevent you from doing anal, you just have to go slow and make sure she's warmed up and well lubed before entering her. It may be a good idea to start with small anal plugs and work up to larger ones 'til she's ready for you.

As far a head goes, you don't have to give up head... it just won't be the same as she'll have trouble deep throating. My wife used to be able to deep throat me but now when she tries, i just get alot of teeth rubbing (ouch).

Yeah, 7.5"x6" just means you would have to work up to it. From what I understand, the ass will take quite a lot, but it must be gradually introduced.

Once again as the saying goes, "Don't knock it 'till you tried it". I've had anal sex with numerous ex-girlfriends and most recently my wife. There was nothing ever "gay" about it. Every woman has thoroughly enjoyed it and I was happy to give it to them. For many women it can be a very intense and pleasurable experience. Additionally this has been said to me many times even by other women with whom I was not sexually active with. As a matter of fact, after I had been with my wife this morning she requested special "treatment" tonight. Damned if I'm going to shirk in my maritial duties.

You know what...?
I'm going to keep having anal sex regardless of what NOS thinks.
:D
He is so misguided and uninformed that he is simply missing out.
By not even trying it.... he is missing out. :|

Homophobes like NOS just don't get it... sex is more than just about procreation, it's also about pleasures. Guys like him are too busy worrying about doing something that might make him gay that he's missing out on something that could be very good. Maybe when he passes puberty, he's tune may change...

Well the strange thing is....
"Gay" means you are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to the same sex as yourself. Period.
A "sexual activity" on the other hand is shared by any two (or more) people that want to participate. A particular activity is NOT Gay. That is impossible.

Okay... enough of this.

pinprick said:

Well the strange thing is....
"Gay" means you are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to the same sex as yourself. Period.
A "sexual activity" on the other hand is shared by any two (or more) people that want to participate. A particular activity is NOT Gay. That is impossible.

Okay... enough of this.

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you don't understand, homophobes' logic works somthing like this...

gay guys consist of two things, 1. ass fucking, 2. girlyness
if your not a typical macho wanker dumbass full of himself, then your girly, thus a poof.
if you fuck someone in the ass that means your a poof girly wank.

You hit it right on the head...

Shithead said:

i don't have the same kinda respect for Nos that people are speaking about, why should i respect a person for making a mistake and having a wrong opinion.

to every question there is one right answer, to every issue there is one right opinion. i respect a person trying to find that right answer or opinion, through debates of contrasting opinions, or reading to further develop their own opinion, or just passivly observing though life, etc.

Nos wasn't trying to develop his opinion, even if his post did have questions in it, he was pretty much saying "my opinion is so obviously right, why do you insist on being wrong?"


i don't mean to offend anyone, so i hope a mature discussion can continue.

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this may have been covered in later posts (I like to start forums from the beginging post, first, kudos to Nos, it takes balls to admit your wrong, lastly; Shithead, how can he have a wrong opinion, its an opinion...

a poofy girly wank

im2manly said:

a poofy girly wank

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me?

Chester said:

this may have been covered in later posts (I like to start forums from the beginging post, first, kudos to Nos, it takes balls to admit your wrong, lastly; Shithead, how can he have a wrong opinion, its an opinion...

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what if someone had the opinion that all black people are inferior and should all be killed...

i wrote that post pretty quickly and rushed, but im not gonna go into the whole definitions of what an opinion really is and have some philosophical debate in a thread on anal sex. start a thread elsewhere about it if ya want.

Hahahaha! Shithead is cool! You did hit it right on the head!

"what if someone had the opinion that all black people are inferior and should all be killed..."
touche, that is a very good example, it is still an opinion and I dont think an opinion can be WRONG, it can be crazy; thats just my opinion though anyways, im going to stop talking about opinions now and let the thread return to its topic... sorry about the tangent there