If i told you im a 23 year old virgin what would you laugh at me, its not cuz i havnt had girlfriends or have a small dick or am ugly, its because of insecuirities with my body
would you laugh at me?
ballweight;350807 said:
bro, my best friend was a virgin till he was 25, same reason because of securities EVEN THOUGH there were some FINE ASS girls wanted his dick! also, he had a bad acid trip and his friends told the ambulance he fell off his skate board and he wouldn't talk to anyone so they put him in a hospital bed and gave him a catheter and for some reason that traumatized him about sex
BUT, He has a girlfriend now and is doing alright. don't be afraid to wait! broads is dirty anyway watch out!
oh yeah, what are you insecure about specifically if you don't mind?i agree with stretch, there nothin wrong will still bein a virgin. loose your virginity when youre ready....it shouldnt be a race.
well, i got lot of former friends who had their first time on the 18th birthday. well, most of them turned out to be morons, but well. it's just one option of many.
well, ive had my lucky day much earlier and so i don't had to worry.
the important thing is to know what you want there or lets say how you want it to happen.
well, ive had my lucky day much earlier and so i don't had to worry.
the important thing is to know what you want there or lets say how you want it to happen.
one of the greatest things about Penis Enlargement to me is pretty soon EVERY girl you bang will feel like THEY Are a virgin, even the loose y goose ys!
You guys are honestly the best, I feel better but its one of those thing, you still want to do it. My problem is that I have white patches on my skin and also I have a scar on my stomach from an opo so it not very appealing at all. I hope i get to 10inch someday, when this happens then I think I will be able to bang any girl I want, its very depressing, I havnt had a girl for the last 2 years, I had a girl before for like 4 year but never boned her, shes with someone else now and i get depressed thinking he boning her, I wish I could have but didnt want her to ee my body.
I feel really depressed sometimes, even to the point I wish I was dead and thats no lie, I started this Penis Enlargement so someday when i lose it Il be at a point I can show my dick to anyone, really appreciate you guys helping me out
I feel really depressed sometimes, even to the point I wish I was dead and thats no lie, I started this Penis Enlargement so someday when i lose it Il be at a point I can show my dick to anyone, really appreciate you guys helping me out
No man...we are friends here...friends don't laught at friend...
Please dont worry about that. You know how many guys that have fuck tons of girls just to leave them unsatisfied. The worst thing you could do is rush it and fuck someone your really not that attracted to just to do it. Or you will force yourself to do it when your not comfortable doing it and cum in 10 seconds.
It probably better this way. You might find a "keeper" and you two can share a great moment. I truly believe sex can change some people for the worst. I have seen it plenty of time with people losing there virginity to someone who doesnt give two shits about them and they go down a downward spiral.
And imagine when you reach your Penis Enlargement goals and your ready to get some "meow". She will guide you through it and she will love your new size. And body image issues lose them. Will all wish we could fix or change something. Just get on the right track now and it will be a thing of the past.
It probably better this way. You might find a "keeper" and you two can share a great moment. I truly believe sex can change some people for the worst. I have seen it plenty of time with people losing there virginity to someone who doesnt give two shits about them and they go down a downward spiral.
And imagine when you reach your Penis Enlargement goals and your ready to get some "meow". She will guide you through it and she will love your new size. And body image issues lose them. Will all wish we could fix or change something. Just get on the right track now and it will be a thing of the past.
ballweight;350807 said:
Would we laugh? Enemies and haters laugh. Friends help each other out. Were all friends here.
I have to say everyone here is really nice and helpful. I really dont know what to do, I do know guys who have been with a lot of girls. I jsut want to be able to pick up any chick and bang her rather than tell her i got this and that problem, do you get what im saying. About the girl being a keeper I dont know, I dont really want anyone long term for a few years, i want to be with a few girls first. Honestly if you was in my posiiton you understand, its soo depressing, stay awake all night thinking about it. I even cry sometimes when i get to the point like i wanna die, it might sound extreme but iv living with this for years and its so frustrating that i cant be with any girl only cause of this.
One of the guys my friend who is a playa has a dick which is only 6icnhes at most i promsie you since i seen a vid of him gettin a blowjob, im bigger than him but not confident because of my issue <
One of the guys my friend who is a playa has a dick which is only 6icnhes at most i promsie you since i seen a vid of him gettin a blowjob, im bigger than him but not confident because of my issue <
ballweight;350849 said:I have to say everyone here is really nice and helpful. I really dont know what to do, I do know guys who have been with a lot of girls. I jsut want to be able to pick up any chick and bang her rather than tell her i got this and that problem, do you get what im saying. About the girl being a keeper I dont know, I dont really want anyone long term for a few years, i want to be with a few girls first. Honestly if you was in my posiiton you understand, its soo depressing, stay awake all night thinking about it. I even cry sometimes when i get to the point like i wanna die, it might sound extreme but iv living with this for years and its so frustrating that i cant be with any girl only cause of this.
One of the guys my friend who is a playa has a dick which is only 6icnhes at most i promsie you since i seen a vid of him gettin a blowjob, im bigger than him but not confident because of my issue <
I think everybody is here for some insecurity or another, whether they admit it or not. Everyone wants a bigger cock. However, you shouldn't let something like a scar or your penis size effect your daily life. Confidence goes a long way. I've seen short 5'2" guys and fat pieces of shit get with average to good looking females simply because of their confidence.
Even if you don't have a 9 inch penis, walk around feeling like you do.
hello ballweight...
i wouldnt laugh we all have our insecuritys about 1 thing or another!
i was 24 when i lost my virginity so ur not alone im 26 now. u have to understand that when u meet someone that likes you for who u are. there will be nothing to worry about! so u have scars on ur stomach and white patches... if a girl cant see past this then you are better off without them. hey its there loss!
keep ur head up and keep smiling! good things come to those who wait! keep positive bro!
i wouldnt laugh we all have our insecuritys about 1 thing or another!
i was 24 when i lost my virginity so ur not alone im 26 now. u have to understand that when u meet someone that likes you for who u are. there will be nothing to worry about! so u have scars on ur stomach and white patches... if a girl cant see past this then you are better off without them. hey its there loss!
keep ur head up and keep smiling! good things come to those who wait! keep positive bro!
Frank-Butcher;350860 said:
bro if i do that il just get into trouble because itl be same thing, she will wana fuck and il think how am i going to show her my body, its so hurtful man, i really dnt know how to fix this problem
ps i was without a girl for 4 years i was very depressed about my situation.. so i know how u feel bud!
its a thing that u will have to come to terms with mate.. other people are in much worse position than u! i know a guy who got his leg ripped off in a machine he is happily marraid with kids now.. i know a girl with the worst eczema all over her body but hey i still fancy her and i think shes attractive hardly notice it.
most of the girls ive dated are very understanding about mens insecuretys. u just goto put on a brave face.
scars? some women get scars from child birth ive never heard a guy or women OMG i cant be with this person because they have a scar.
if i were u bud i would realy not worry about your body! ive been there b4 ok not because of scars but for other things like being a ugly C**T haha.
life is to short to be selfconcious! i promise u that when u meet a girl she will understand.. and i bet u when u do lose ur virginty u will think what the fuck was i worrying about!
just dont waste ur life not expirencing and wasting away thinking to much about things! life is to be enjoyed!
tell me to bugger off if u think im talking crap
most of the girls ive dated are very understanding about mens insecuretys. u just goto put on a brave face.
scars? some women get scars from child birth ive never heard a guy or women OMG i cant be with this person because they have a scar.
if i were u bud i would realy not worry about your body! ive been there b4 ok not because of scars but for other things like being a ugly C**T haha.
life is to short to be selfconcious! i promise u that when u meet a girl she will understand.. and i bet u when u do lose ur virginty u will think what the fuck was i worrying about!
just dont waste ur life not expirencing and wasting away thinking to much about things! life is to be enjoyed!
tell me to bugger off if u think im talking crap
It depends on the girl, maturity etc.
ballweight;350849 said:I have to say everyone here is really nice and helpful. I really dont know what to do, I do know guys who have been with a lot of girls. I jsut want to be able to pick up any chick and bang her rather than tell her i got this and that problem, do you get what im saying. About the girl being a keeper I dont know, I dont really want anyone long term for a few years, i want to be with a few girls first. Honestly if you was in my posiiton you understand, its soo depressing, stay awake all night thinking about it. I even cry sometimes when i get to the point like i wanna die, it might sound extreme but iv living with this for years and its so frustrating that i cant be with any girl only cause of this.
One of the guys my friend who is a playa has a dick which is only 6icnhes at most i promsie you since i seen a vid of him gettin a blowjob, im bigger than him but not confident because of my issue <
friend, i gotta be honest. im a pretty funny lookin guy. i hid behind everything you could think of- drugs,drinking, hobbies,work, but in the end, its all in your mind. yu have to be bigger than your own inner critic. the only thing to be sad about is how lame most people are, but im sure you don't have to fuck em to know that. just gotta find one who's not an idiot. OR , Bang a few idiot broads to come to terms with thr fact that no one cares EITHER WAY! just be PATIENT. you WILL Have a bigger cock and it WILL
make you feel pretty darned good. the best is yet to come!
Girth Hammer;350844 said:
Amen to that!
ballweight;350807 said:
Shit i'm 21 and i'm still a virgin and could have sex PLENTY of times but it's a personal choices as to why i havent. To me its my sense of self respect and the first time I go for it I will have reached my Penis Enlargement goal by then so I'll be super happy. Just work on your insecurities, get that body you want/desire and Fuck what anybody else thinks dude.
Bro the only guy knocking you is the guy in the mirror. Forget that! Be confident, you know you're packing some heat in your pants, don't psych yourself up to not being this or that, build yourself up to being confident. Everybody has confidence issues at some point or another, but don't let it bring you down. You can't score a goal unless you get on the field, get out there, go for it and relax.
Frank-Butcher;350860 said:
really many thanks for your reply bro, made me smile my man, I pray to God some day il be able to do what you guys do, just pick up a random chick and bone her
to be honest its not about getting one girl to keep, i want to be with many girls
just want to say to everyone who has replied I owe you guys, you are all like brothers to me, I really feel better after speaking to all of you, i hope i can fix this shit soon but we will see what happens, for now im just concentrating on the big dick issue
22 here and still a V. I don't tell anyone, but I couldn't care less what anyone thought. I want people to respect me for me and not some lame excuse of how I am not a "man" yet. I don't know what women think about this, but I would think they appreciate you that much more.
Don't feed into bullshit, be yourself. Do you. You are safe here.
Don't feed into bullshit, be yourself. Do you. You are safe here.
i know a 32 yrs old virgin, no its not me guys! lol.
doublelongdaddy;351028 said:
haha come on bro, your just playing with me right? iv seen your vids and you dick is huge and you aint got anythin wrong with your body so I cant think any reason you would still be a virgin.
If your being serious I apolgise man but I would be totally amazed!!!
Phoenix22;351041 said:
Il try to worry less bro but its hard you know, i mean i know i got a bigger than your average guy and whats frustrating is that these other guys who got normal bodies and small dicks can do things i cant, i really appreciate all you guys helping and answering me, I really do appreciate it. I thought u would laugh at me mostly
(nothing but love)Dude, you will be alright.
It is only bad to be a virgin if you think it is bad. It's okay to be a virgin really.
I have a scar in my pubic hair from an inguinal hernia when I was 16. That's where your intestines push through the tube your testicles drop through and you end up with your intestines in your ball sack.
I have had suicidal thoughts in my past over similar issues to yours.
Most people have insecurities about their bodies or sex or something, and that's okay.
Here's how to get over it:
I know you want to just find some hot piece of ass and plug it in, but that will only magnify your insecurities. The key is to find a good girl, a kind girl, a patient girl who likes you for who you are. Not the girl you're going to marry (necessarily), but a girl you can relax and connect with. THAT kind of girl will help you dissolve your insecurities.
Start slow, as the first couple of sexual encounters may be difficult. You and her may cry, but STAY HONEST. This is when all those 'issues' come to the surface and you must face them in the open. No doubt she will have insecurities too, remember that. Be accepting of both yourself and who she is in that moment. Acceptance of each other will be what ultimately lets those issues dissolve and float away.
From there you can experiment, learn to really get in touch with your body and hers in a sexual way. Learn what works and what doesn't. Insecurities may come to the surface later on, deeper, more hidden ones.
HONESTY and ACCEPTANCE will win you the day (or night rofl) every time. You may not always "get laid," or have something to brag to friends about, but that's not the point. This process will make you a mentally and sexually happy and healthy person in good time. How soon depends on you, but remember there is no rush.
Remember: going and hunting for a one-night stand or picking up some club ass might get you bragging rights, but finding a girl you connect with is KEY to getting over insecurities and becoming confident. Sex is a byproduct of genuinely connecting with a woman. When you have sex with a woman and not just her body then you will feel much better about yourself in the end.
It is only bad to be a virgin if you think it is bad. It's okay to be a virgin really.
I have a scar in my pubic hair from an inguinal hernia when I was 16. That's where your intestines push through the tube your testicles drop through and you end up with your intestines in your ball sack.
I have had suicidal thoughts in my past over similar issues to yours.
Most people have insecurities about their bodies or sex or something, and that's okay.
Here's how to get over it:
I know you want to just find some hot piece of ass and plug it in, but that will only magnify your insecurities. The key is to find a good girl, a kind girl, a patient girl who likes you for who you are. Not the girl you're going to marry (necessarily), but a girl you can relax and connect with. THAT kind of girl will help you dissolve your insecurities.
Start slow, as the first couple of sexual encounters may be difficult. You and her may cry, but STAY HONEST. This is when all those 'issues' come to the surface and you must face them in the open. No doubt she will have insecurities too, remember that. Be accepting of both yourself and who she is in that moment. Acceptance of each other will be what ultimately lets those issues dissolve and float away.
From there you can experiment, learn to really get in touch with your body and hers in a sexual way. Learn what works and what doesn't. Insecurities may come to the surface later on, deeper, more hidden ones.
HONESTY and ACCEPTANCE will win you the day (or night rofl) every time. You may not always "get laid," or have something to brag to friends about, but that's not the point. This process will make you a mentally and sexually happy and healthy person in good time. How soon depends on you, but remember there is no rush.
Remember: going and hunting for a one-night stand or picking up some club ass might get you bragging rights, but finding a girl you connect with is KEY to getting over insecurities and becoming confident. Sex is a byproduct of genuinely connecting with a woman. When you have sex with a woman and not just her body then you will feel much better about yourself in the end.
doublelongdaddy;351028 said:
LMAO!!!!!!!
first there is nothing wrong with being a virgin for as long as you want. I still wish I had waited for that special moment because my experience was hell on wheels literally. As far as your reason for being insecure, completely understandable, but believe me most women are not that shallow or mean. I mean if you meet someone you want to take it to the next level with then you have already gotten to know each other and she will probably understand. If you still feel uncomfortable try setting a romantic candlelight scene. Make sure the candles are behind you and redirect her hands when they roam too close for comfort. That will not only make your first special and memorable but will keep you from having to answer questions you are not comfortable with. When you are ready you can show her and tell her about it. This is just a suggestion. Of course you can wait till you reach your goal and then well she probably won't notice due to the more "pressing" matter
Dld, i read about you calling Jen into the bathroom, boning her for a bit and then being measured. I think it was you anyway!
Heck, ain't no virgin.
On topic: Don't worry about it mate, get a good girl and she'll like you regardless, you can have 10 eyes and 2 noses and someone will still love you regardless.
As has been said before, it's all in your mind.
Remember, out of all the senses we have the one we depend on most, being sight, lies to us the most. I got that quote from a guy that gave me confidence, Mr. Dld Salvini.
Heck, ain't no virgin.
On topic: Don't worry about it mate, get a good girl and she'll like you regardless, you can have 10 eyes and 2 noses and someone will still love you regardless.
As has been said before, it's all in your mind.
Remember, out of all the senses we have the one we depend on most, being sight, lies to us the most. I got that quote from a guy that gave me confidence, Mr. Dld Salvini.
View attachment 21047doublelongdaddy;351028 said:
no I wouldnt laugh at all. Id tell u to go keep your head up and score yourself some cookie rofl