Which path should I take?

[bigmanj]

So here is my dilemma. There is this girl I've been talking to for over a year now. Everything was going great between us, I fell in love with her. But in this years time, I have not done ANYTHING with her because of my worrying about my size, and not surprisingly she has lost a lot of interest but I don't want to give up hope. Anyways a couple months back at a party after she had one too many alcoholic beverages, she started ragging on this kid I know about his small dick. In the back of my mind I'm thinking what a bitch. It's no secret that she has been around either which worries me more about my size. Anyways, I've been thinking. I put in all this hard work P.E.'ing, and when I get bigger should I even want to do anything with her? I mean I've been working my ass off, and I don't want to satisfy a girl who will not appreciate it. To her it will be just another dick. But then I thought more and after all this work I kind of think I should reward myself also. What do you all think? Am I crazy? LOL

Here are some recent measurements to show some gains. Not much but I'm working on it.
Tuesday 3/2/10
BPFSL- 7 3/8"
NBPFSL- 6 3/8"
BPenis EnlargementL- 6 3/4"
NBPenis EnlargementL- 5 15/16"

Tuesday 3/23/10
BPFSL- 7 1/2"
NBPFSL- 6 1/2"
BPenis EnlargementL- 7"
NBPenis EnlargementL- 6 1/8"

 

[bluetard117]

I had a similar experience with the last girl I really liked. Unfortunately, it was long distance, so we never really got to act on it, but like yours, she had been around with some pretty big guys. I felt like I had to measure up, in order to feel as important to her as the others, or more so, if possible. Unfortunately, this consumed my thoughts so much, that I eventually drove her away from me over it, and so when I started really getting serious about Penis Enlargement, it was about 3 or so weeks after the shit hit the fan. It took about 6 months for me to get over this girl, and I think I'm just about over her, even though she still texts me and calls me. I actually got a text from her a little while ago about this, the guy who shes now been with since August, broke up with her once in December because the girl and I were still friends on Facebook, got back together, and then again a few days ago, to which she sends me this text saying, "I think you got your wish, I got dumped."
First of all, I don't wish that on her, and second, I don't understand why she is telling me this, she didn't tell me the first time.
I dunno man. I suggest you keep your life primary, and your Penis Enlargement secondary, but only to the extent that your primary is the apparent one to everyone else. Do some good stuff in your life, and accomplish things, but then, also do Penis Enlargement in private, and keep that to yourself. The chick here at my school I'm currently with thinks I'm just still growing, and that's the way I'm going to keep it. Of course, I dunno how I'm going to explain "just growing naturally", when I get the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words]

 

[Girth Hammer]

-Does she have hot friends.
If you want to be with her you may have missed your chance. Girl are VERY insucure. More than us and they want you to act quick when your interested or you go into the dreaded "friend zone" But if you want be fuck buddies go for it and you see she talks and all her friends will know about your skills. But by the way your making it sound, it sounds like she is trashy have some respect for you and your penis and forgot her, your better than that. rofl

 

[phaseshift]

So here is my dilemma. There is this girl I've been talking to for over a year now. Everything was going great between us, I fell in love with her. But in this years time, I have not done ANYTHING with her because of my worrying about my size, and not surprisingly she has lost a lot of interest but I don't want to give up hope. Anyways a couple months back at a party after she had one too many alcoholic beverages, she started ragging on this kid I know about his small dick. In the back of my mind I'm thinking what a bitch. It's no secret that she has been around either which worries me more about my size. Anyways, I've been thinking. I put in all this hard work P.E.'ing, and when I get bigger should I even want to do anything with her? I mean I've been working my ass off, and I don't want to satisfy a girl who will not appreciate it. To her it will be just another dick. But then I thought more and after all this work I kind of think I should reward myself also. What do you all think? Am I crazy? LOL

Here are some recent measurements to show some gains. Not much but I'm working on it.
Tuesday 3/2/10
BPFSL- 7 3/8"
NBPFSL- 6 3/8"
BPenis EnlargementL- 6 3/4"
NBPenis EnlargementL- 5 15/16"

Tuesday 3/23/10
BPFSL- 7 1/2"
NBPFSL- 6 1/2"
BPenis EnlargementL- 7"
NBPenis EnlargementL- 6 1/8"

bro trust me, 6 1/8" is not small. Do you shave? if you don't I suggest you do to give it that "longer look". Trust me if and when you get her in the sack, the key is to be able to hold your [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and get her to cum. Whether its through vaginal stimulation or working that clit. The key is do whatever it takes to make her cum, and when she does reward yourself by bustin that nut.

I've never had problem with girls because why? I focused more on getting them off before I finish. I'm at 6" and I never once had a girl tell me it's not enough, in fact I was praised for being able to last so long and know exactly what to do to make them cum. It doesn't matter how big or how long you are, if you can't make them cum then it's pointless.

Then why do I want to make my penis bigger you may ask? Because it's in my own head that I want a bigger penis, even though I've never had a problem with my size and women, I just have it in my little head that I want a bigger penis.

Also about her ragging on some kid about his small wiener, people say all kinds of shit when they are drunk. Men and women, they do it all the time. There are many reasons to why this happens, broken heart, things went sour, he cheated on her, he was bad in bed all kinds of shit can lead to those kinds of drunk talk.

What you need to do is, figure out why you like this chick? Pros and Cons and if the pros out weight the cons, work on your relationship with her. If she's not worth it, I still say hit it and quit it, experience is key when it comes to sex, not girth and length. It's how you use it that counts and dick size is just a side dish to the main meal.

 

[MassiveVageMan]

Why are we here? Why are we even here? Why do we dedicate hundreds of hours of our free time to making our penises larger? Why? The answer might be more complicated than what most of us think. More than the obvious; to satisfy a woman or to have more confidence or to make yourself believe that if you've got a big dick, she'd be less likely to leave you.

I just want to say this: Until you've felt the pain of having a woman you love leave you for a man with half the size of your dick, then you don't truly know what things are really about. What things really matter.

Would you want to be with a women who's just looking for a big dick? Would a woman want to be with a man who just wants her for sex? Penis size matters, sure. But it's much lower on the list than one might think. I mean come on, who's fallen in love with someone who is just lousy in bed. My ex only let me do one position: missionary. And she just laid there like a dead horse. And I'd tell her, "Come on honey, put a bed of minge around it." And she didn't even want me to go down on her, saying it was disgusting. And I loved that frigid bitch. Because it was the intimacy and her laugh and her grace and all those other things that I loved about her. And also I used hookers. Booyah! Consider yourself fresh princed! I'm going to go fuck a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words]!

 

[Eyeknot]

hahah... Honestly fellas this is a good thread... A lot of good advice here

What I can say has most likely been covered... But main things I wanna hit again are...

If a girl is just looking for a big dick... Give it to her... But dont take her home to your mum

and

If the girl your thinking about being with is saying shit about another guys junk like that you have to think to yourself if she would do that to you if things got sour... Personally girls that are really in LOVE with you may do that shit to try and get girls to not be
interested in you. The female mind is a big ass nancy drew case... Guys get the wrap for mind games but honestly girls are the best at it.. I could go on forever about bitches... I wish I could major in them....... haha

Back on topic... I would say give it to this chick... Fuck her when you can but don't let yourself get attached b/c then you can't get hurt - whoever cares less in the relationship controls/ has the most power... Not encouraging this but take it how you want it
Sorry I keep babbling on but if you really feel for this girl then take it slow... You don't have to F her right away.. Take her out to eat, go to a movie etc.. Then after awhile you can make a decision and say hey, I'm not feeling this girl as a serious partner so I'm just gunna say fuck it and nail her. Or after taking her out and shit you could find that you really do like her and want it to go somewhere. After that you can decide if its worth it or not to take it to the next level and risk your friendship.

hope some of this helps

 

[REDZULU2003]

Girls are allot more devious than most men nowadays and the tide has been turning along time, with ''Girl power'' and all. I would not worry too much mate about measuring up to these silly cunts that have had bigger men, for fucks sake it doesn't matter .. really it does not matter. It is nothing major, think about the world and your life ... breath the air in SLOWLY via a deep breath and remember your alive now and have the entire life ahead of you and this, well this is trivial .. once you meet death at the edge like I did, you see things so much differently and I want to help others change thoughts from negative into positive.

Allot of good advice already here and if you want a women like this for sex than go for it or friends, go for it. Its all a game you see, this whole women and man thing its a huge game and I love to be a spectator and analyse it all to see what's what ... fun to see how we humans act and behave.

Think positive, this IS THE KEY .. I don't mean go OTT like that silly bitch who does the Abraham stuff and the Law of Attraction, you can get warped with the stuff but always remember the light outshines the dark always and this is positivity VS Negativity ... if you are meant to be with her, than it will also happen and if you ever need guidance and strength, remember pray to god ... this is often overlooked but my prayers get answered so please pray and ask for his guidance if you ever need it.

 

[DLD]

Girls are allot more devious than most men nowadays and the tide has been turning along time, with ''Girl power'' and all. I would not worry too much mate about measuring up to these silly cunts that have had bigger men, for fucks sake it doesn't matter .. really it does not matter. It is nothing major, think about the world and your life ... breath the air in SLOWLY via a deep breath and remember your alive now and have the entire life ahead of you and this, well this is trivial .. once you meet death at the edge like I did, you see things so much differently and I want to help others change thoughts from negative into positive.

Allot of good advice already here and if you want a women like this for sex than go for it or friends, go for it. Its all a game you see, this whole women and man thing its a huge game and I love to be a spectator and analyse it all to see what's what ... fun to see how we humans act and behave.

Think positive, this IS THE KEY .. I don't mean go OTT like that silly bitch who does the Abraham stuff and the Law of Attraction, you can get warped with the stuff but always remember the light outshines the dark always and this is positivity VS Negativity ... if you are meant to be with her, than it will also happen and if you ever need guidance and strength, remember pray to god ... this is often overlooked but my prayers get answered so please pray and ask for his guidance if you ever need it.

Red, as usual, you have the REAL TRUTH explained in the best way