Whats some ways to come faster?

[longstretch]

Okay my problem is lately it takes a while to cum, longer than usual, even with a girl, and the window of oppurtunity passes way too fast. I was with a girl last week, and bless her heart, she was surprised to find out I've never came through oral sex and was determined to get me off...and swallow! Well 20 minutes later I could tell it just wasn't happening and on a scale from 1-10 she was a 7.5 skill wise.

So I told her lets just have sex and I'll cum in your mouth. But from being on the brink of the PONR to her wrapping her lips on my dick was 5 seconds too long and I lost the orgasm. I've tried DLD's trick when masturbating; RK on the way down, kegel on the way up; And I have very good control and strong kegel muscles.

I just want some tricks on becoming more sensitive, feeling more, and being able to cum on demand and not necessarilly having to pulverize a girl like a gorilla for 5 minutes and losing the orgasm as fast if interrupted. Anything is appreciated!

 

[Big Al]

Do a reverse "Stop and start". Instead of trying to prolong your ejaculation, your goal should be to ejaculate as quickly as possible, and do it in one shot (instead of 3 or more hold backs). Use a very loose grip too, as this will decrease your sensory threshold.

 

[DLD]

Maybe just lay off sex and masturbation for a few days. It is really incredible that you can last so long. Do you have issues with masturbation? If not, have sex with the girl, satisfy her, fake and orgasm and excuse yourself to shoot it for real

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

kegels while having sex or getting a blow job. It intensifies the orgasmic feeling, then you find yourself wanting to kegel again, so you kegel wich feels great... etc.

 

[BANANAxBOY]

How much adult entertainment do you watch in between sex? I'm telling you man adult entertainment is bad for our heads. If you look at adult entertainment stop for two weeks. That will make things better for you. Often times our brains can become desensitised to women and how beautiful God made them.

 

[longstretch]

Thanks guys!!!

Okay so I've always had the issue because ever since I was in Middle School I would try to last as long as I could and I naturally last a long time. I've tried kegeling during sex and it makes it feel better but it doesn't help with the speeding up my orgasm unless I'm knocking on the door. Maybe I should try to take a break from masturbating for a week or maybe cutting down to once or twice.

It isn't a erection quality thing, I have raging hard-ons, and I'm multi-orgasmic, it just takes fucking forever sometimes to cum. Sometimes I'm unable to orgasm at all and let me just tell you its a very bad feeling for the girl and guy both. I've been using a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words], so I wouldn't have to wear gloves when I workout and wouldn't be skinning my dick, and my dick does seem pretty sensitive.

I guess I should just cut down on hardcore adult entertainment and masterbation, do Reverse Kegels and Kegels when I do masturbate and if it gets really bad I'll do some sensitivity training from Barbara Keesling, not because I don't feel but because it helps know when the orgasm is there and might help speed it up.

Thanks for the suggestions guys and if anyone has any more suggestions pray tell.

 

[DLD]

How much adult entertainment do you watch in between sex? I'm telling you man adult entertainment is bad for our heads. If you look at adult entertainment stop for two weeks. That will make things better for you. Often times our brains can become desensitised to women and how beautiful God made them.

God did do a great job

 

[longstretch]

haha yes he did!

 

[Xmetal]

Sounds like a mental block to me, Ive trained myself to last as long as I want or pop in a few minutes. All in your head...trust me!

 

[DLD]

Sounds like a mental block to me, Ive trained myself to last as long as I want or pop in a few minutes. All in your head...trust me!

It is all in the mind but making that connection is difficult when someone holds obsessions blocking it. Mental change takes practice and belief.

 

[longstretch]

Okay so I think I'm cured of this...for the time being. I've only been cumming 2-3x a week and have quite hanging until things in school calm down a bit. I can tell a big difference in sensitivity. I've also noticed that while I'm having sex I seem to be a little more tense than when masturbating. So it was indeed a mixture of a mental block and over ejaculation.

 

[DLD]

Okay so I think I'm cured of this...for the time being. I've only been cumming 2-3x a week and have quite hanging until things in school calm down a bit. I can tell a big difference in sensitivity. I've also noticed that while I'm having sex I seem to be a little more tense than when masturbating. So it was indeed a mixture of a mental block and over ejaculation.

Good to hear.

 

[PudendaPleasure]

haha good times! I still haven't been able to cum through oral. (this is Longstretch). And sometimes I still am unable to reach orgasm even though I only masturbate/sex 1-2x a week. Though when this happens its usually from extended fucking sessions where I delay orgasm 3-4 times.

I basically just had to train myself to cum fast like I trained myself to last a long time. Now I can cum in 5 minutes or last as long as I want, but personally after an hour I'm ready to wrap things up.