What Do You Do With A Young Sexy Virgin ?
Jdcsd;601790 said:
well...sure yes you could do that lol. any restaurant you like actually lol
You know man I've battled with the exact same thing my whole life. It's something I've never understood but it is debilitating. It's gotten better the more I've searched for ways to get past it and have gotten out of my comfort zone and realized all those fears were only in my head. Things that have helped me is CBT therapy fro m the book Feeling Good and there was an audio program I listened to that described how to eliminate ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) though the guy would put me to sleep listening to him. Going through college and even picking a career that I knew would force me to interact with people and doing some public speaking and just pushing myself to make small talk have led me to a place where for the most part I'm comfortable today and have an active social life.youknowme123321;601026 said:
I have experienced everything you talked about. Fear of going into stores, the gym, Hell even going to best friends houses or hanging out with my family that I've known for years could trigger it. It's paralyzing. I missed countless opportunities for friends, good times, romance and better jobs because I was afraid to make a phone call because of it. There is a paradox to all the anxiety in that the more you fight it the worst it gets and you have to learn to accept it and relax but that's not easy to learn and took me some time. All this anxiety fueled depression and vice versa. It's a vicious cycle and being the scared little boy traped in a grown man's body that I was I turned to drugs and alcohol to run away from my problems and temporarily make me forget my emotions but it eventually made everything 100x worse. There is a solution though and it won't happen overnight as you sound just as bad as I was but I promise you the more you work through it and find ways to get outside your comfort zone the better it gets.
The kicker is I have no reason, no logical reason, to be anxious. I am only 5'6" but I'm very physically attractive, in great shape, pretty intelligent, successful and I can be quite witty and charming when relaxed. I say that only to say it can happen to anyone and give you hope based on how my life is now and how it continues to get better the more I do to resolve these issues
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Jdcsd;601958 said:
UH OH!!!! Have you not been to one of the newly renovated Wendy's???? no s & p shakers on the tables anymore!!!!
LIGHTNING;599590 said:
Hopefully they washed the seasoning off before you got your shot at adding seasoning. he he he
Jdcsd;601790 said:
This should be a new term for popping her cherry. ha ha I took her to red lobster.
AdmiralLongDong;603548 said:
hahahaha...very clever
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The best Virgins are Those who have a Trust Fund plus daily money from Millionare parents. Sometimes a rich virgin is the best ways for guys to have a chance to have a richer Lifestyle. So it doesnt matter how tight or ugly they are. If you find a rich Virgin then make sure you take care of her. First make love: to break it open. Then pound away to show her whose boss. Then make love again and pledge your allegiance. This will keep you in the circle of money.AdmiralLongDong;603548 said:
Disco Dave dropping some knowledge bombs
Disco Dave;603644 said:
i will take your advice!!
Presently in this predicament of a situation myself. Have to make love to a virgin in some weeks and I don't know what to do. I hope I don't hurt her. I am not too big per say 7.5 x 5.5. She'd be the first virgin i'd be with and I honestly don't know what to do! I am used to usually just smashing it straight up!
johnny-wang;610179 said:
You can't just "fuck" a virgin. You have to "make love" to her.
There's not much science to it, actually. You just have to make sure everything is comfortable for her. Make sure she's relaxed, get her really wet, start with some oral, then add some fingers to the play and then move on to penetrating her with your penis. Ask if it's ok to carry on. And ONLY carry on if she says yes. If at any point she says no, stop right there and carry on no further. Either you just go back to foreplay, or you stop completely and just hold her and let her know it's alright.
Honestly, guys, taking a girl's virginity just takes a bit of patience, common sense and respect for her.
It's amazing to be able to fuck a girl really hard and wild, but in my book, that can only be a pleasurable experience if both partners know what they're doing. If one of them is inexperienced, it's best to take it easy and teach something.
You got to remember that we've all had our first time once, and we were problably just as insecure and scared, so you got to respect that.
savageblue;610182 said:
Bro, I already know most of what you said and I am grateful, you said them again as a reminder to me. But my real concern is how do I break the hymen. . Thats the scary part for me. I don't want her to get all emotionally volatile and stuff. . .
johnny-wang;610186 said:
Ah, ok.
Well, what I know from my own experience and what I've read/heard, there's no formula for that. Sometimes the hymen breaks easily, sometimes it doesn't break at all. Some girls might be virgins but their hymen was already broken due to some other kind of strenuous physical activity (and no, I don't mean playing with cucumbers
). Sometimes it might break on the 2nd or 3rd time they have sex...The bottom line is don't worry about it. If she feels you're there to help her get through that "rite of passage", in other words, if she feels that it's ok for her to get emotionally volatile, she probably won't get emotionally volatile.
It's all about trust (not to be mistaken with "thrust" rofl),Thanks bro. . . U've been really helpful. Saw what u did with the last line too. . .. Sleek!savageblue;610193 said:Ah, ok.
Well, what I know from my own experience and what I've read/heard, there's no formula for that. Sometimes the hymen breaks easily, sometimes it doesn't break at all. Some girls might be virgins but their hymen was already broken due to some other kind of strenuous physical activity (and no, I don't mean playing with cucumbers
The bottom line is don't worry about it. If she feels you're there to help her get through that "rite of passage", in other words, if she feels that it's ok for her to get emotionally volatile, she probably won't get emotionally volatile.
dmoney101;610202 said:
Rflmao. . . That's what I fear. She's bound to be that way. Heck I had sex with my ex's friend a while ago and even though she was a slut she avoided me for some days out of guilt.
I agree.
Sensual massage with coconut oil
, and make her feel as good as possible (a lot of orgasms, and squirting orgasms for her). You can use your hands/fingers, mouth and tongue first and then progress cerfully with your cock.
Make her feel 100% safe with you, and the experience. No judgment from you, make her feel the most pleasure she have ever felt in her life. Make her feel beautiful. Don't be egotistical, focus should be to make her feel wonderful.
When you approach it this way.
This will happen to the MAX.
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