3lee said:Im buying my wife a strap on to use on me. Im getting a 5 inch dick and a 4 inch anal plug. Its all from Doc Johnson. Anyone else here do this with there wife and any advice??
She brought it up though. I was relutant at first. But with some finger stimulation from her, it was pretty fun and good. She seemed to like it.PenilePersist said:I've heard stories of this kind of thing making girls leave the men who wanted it. But, whatever floats your boat. They only thing I've ever considered and tried shoving up my ass was the Aneros because it's actually to promote prostate health and people report of AMAZING prostate orgasms. But, I tried it once and it doesn't seem like something I'd want to try again.
3lee said:She brought it up though. I was relutant at first. But with some finger stimulation from her, it was pretty fun and good. She seemed to like it.
P.P.) Do you ever let your ladies ride on top?PenilePersist said:especially not with the dominance of her fucking with a strap-on.
goldmember said:P.P.) Do you ever let your ladies ride on top?
lol good pointPenilePersist said:Yes. Totally different than being fucked in the ass with a strap on. Plus, any time I want I can start humping her from the cowgirl position and controlling her body with my hands and arms as well and that makes me more of the dominant again.
sed26 said:It's just unnatural. It's almost like having gay sex. Don't take this hard as it is just one person's opinion.
If you want to fuck your girlfriend in the ass, are you gay?
sed26 said:What does that have to do with gay sex? Its a woman's ass. There are thousands of ways to have unbelievable sex besides getting fucked by a strap-on, or anything else involving my ass. I look at it as I was the one born with the penis and it gives me a sense of power. I guess I'm not the type to be dominated thats all.
sed26 said:Why isn't shoving the dildo up there not enough. Why use a strapon? No its not gay to do things with your ass but getting fucked; that's different. Enough about the constant arguement as it is going nowhere we could go on forever.
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PenilePersist said:Good one. In another thread, I called for using a dildo or two in addition to your own dick so you can fill up all three holes. But, the strap on would definitely help keep some hands free.
Stridge, I don't know about eeverybody else, but I have said from the beginning "whatever floats your boat" and I agree that they should do what pleases them both as a couple. I just shared how I would handle it and why and what I have heard from people who have tried this.
For me, this would be me taking a loss of enjoyment in order to give more joy to the woman ... not mutual enjoyment ... and the amount I'd have to take is not worth it.
If my wife or GF was extremely adamant about wanting to fuck somebody in the ass with a strap on, I'd tell her we'd have to invite another woman into the bedroom for that purpose so we could run a train:
me > GF/wife > 2nd woman.
MAXAMEYES said:Dude,
After that I just gotta throw this in:
Wadda they call hemorrhoids in San Francisco?
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Speed bumps !
Sorry man....I just hadda do it.
kcee7x7 said:You guys sound like you have a great relationship. I don't judge you. In my own experience, there is nothing better than a great sex life with your wife of many years. Everyone has there own little thing in the bedroom. Mine is taking pics of my wife in outrageous outfits and having her go out in public in some of the tamer ones. Really turns me on...go figure.
But of course, my favorite is when she bends over and takes me from behind and grimaces and clenches her fists! Oh, man...I'm getting carried away! Oh, honey?
GashKing said:kcee,
Well, I gotta cum clean. I kinda like seeing other men/women have sex with my wife. Do you think that there is something wrong about that ? It turns me on and the guys love it that I love it !
From what I read, whether guys actually let their wife have sex with other guys or not, it is a pretty popular fantasy. However, most guys that have the fantasy would not want to actually go through with it because every married man's greatest fear would be that his wife might enjoy it more than being with him. Remember the movie Indecent Proposal with Demi Moore, Woody Harrelson, and Robert Redford? He was obsessed with whether she enjoyed the sex with Robert Redford. When she admitted that she did, he went crazy.
You are a brave (I guess) man, Gashking!
kcee7x7 said:GashKing said:kcee,
Well, I gotta cum clean. I kinda like seeing other men/women have sex with my wife. Do you think that there is something wrong about that ? It turns me on and the guys love it that I love it !
From what I read, whether guys actually let their wife have sex with other guys or not, it is a pretty popular fantasy. However, most guys that have the fantasy would not want to actually go through with it because every married man's greatest fear would be that his wife might enjoy it more than being with him. Remember the movie Indecent Proposal with Demi Moore, Woody Harrelson, and Robert Redford? He was obsessed with whether she enjoyed the sex with Robert Redford. When she admitted that she did, he went crazy.
You are a brave (I guess) man, Gashking!
Kcee,
I didnt get used to it over night - it took awhile at first!
Dont forget, we have been swingers for many years now and most of the members of the Club know who belongs with who and who can have sex with who ? Members of the Club really dont have to worry about stealing anyones mate as we get together quite often for parties and we all know each other outside of the Club. My wife has been doing this way before I got involved (she started in high school and college).
Indecent Proposal is only "in the movies". My wife does enjoy sex with other men and tells me this - which I support - to make her happy. But she "loves only me" ! I live with her, go to bed with her each night and she is the mother of my children and my loving wife.
sed26 said::O What would your children think about this? I don't think that'll have a positive effect on them if ever found out.