pleeeease read!!!! low sex drive

[caliboy2]

ok here's my problem, im in my early 20's and i have a veeeery low sex drive. as of right now i have stopped masturbating for the past 2 weeks and it has been very easy...i havent had the urge and the only time ive gotten an erection is in the middle of the night while sleeping. i dont have ed because my penis can physically work...i can get erections...and they can stay a majority of the time but i just dont ever seem to have the desire for sex.

i used to have terrible sleep habits but now im going to bed at atleast 12 and waking at 8, so usually about 8 hours
im not on any medication now, i was taking hair genesis because of my hair thinning but have stopped
i havent masturbated in over 2 weeks....and its been very easy to do, no desire to masturbate
my penis is physically capable of getting hard, i dont have ed, even though i dont desire sexual things i can begin masturbating and get hard and stay hard for a good amound of time
im sure i have performance anxiety but i have tried to relax when im with a girl but it doesnt help
i havent had sex much and dont have much experience with girls
im not overly stressed
i work out regularly, i use free weights...i used to get horny after doing squats but not anymore
i dont do cardio cuz i seem to tired to get aroused afterward
i eat pretty healthy too...im in really good shape
i dont smoke, do drugs or drink

i have tried jelqing and stretching for a short period and it made it worse, i have taken l arginine and various other herbal remedies and they dont help, i dont want to use an ed pill to give me an erection....i just want my sexual desire back

i did try kegels once...and oh lord...they made me horny as fuck, no pun intended....but i loved them...i could think about something and boom...erection...ready to go...but that soon wore off so i tried them again...nope didnt work...i tried them more intense....nope...i tried them gentle...nope...nothing worked...i started to get sore around my tail bone, at the top of my crack....and ive rested for a few weeks and tried again...nope...tailbone still is sore....man i loved those kegels and wish i could get them to work again....ive tried doing hundreds a day...ive tried doing long squeezes but nothin works...

i feel like my brain and penis have been cut off...and are no longer connected....are there any techniques to help me rewire my brain...i did used to look at adult entertainment a lot and not masturbate....like every day...id just look and not always be aroused so id keep looking...but i have stopped looking at adult entertainment all together cuz i thought maybe i fried the sexual part of my brain doing so

so id much rather exercises....variations on the kegels maybe...or workout or cardio stuff....any mind exercises to help my sex desire? i dont really want to take pills or medicine....unless i had a hormone problem or something and needed it medically...i dont want to take ed pills...im sure i need help with my performance anxiety but like i said any info or exercises would be great

thanks so much

 

[My05Cavy]

Wow dude. Got me? Have you been on any medication that you haven't told us about? That would be my first guess. When you stopped taking the hair loss stuff is that when it started? Anything different than normal?

I don't know. I remember reading somewhere that between 18-20 a mans sex drive drops around 60%. Could it be that coupled with your performance anxiety? If it persists I would consider talking to a doctor.

You could try a PC routine as well.

 

[leftydick]

i took propecia for about 6 months, that was like 3 years ago or something....no ive been like this for a while...its not just that ive stopped taking the meds and this happend....its been a prob for a while....i know i have a pretty messed up mind...i used to go to a therapist and stuff but ive been happier than ive ever been in my life and yet i still have a low sex drive...and im not overly stressed, i know i should go to a doc but i just wanted to try some stuff on my own first

 

[lm2]

Some other men have their libidos trashed for a while after taking propecia, I've heard. If it happened due to you taking the propecia, I would talk to Doctor John Chrisler, as most mainstream docs wouldn't know about this sort of thing. His email is Doctorjohn@allthingsmale.com. Maybe he could consult with your doctor and fix you up.

 

[ithiel]

damn i aint never heard of low sex drive in your 20s. could be stress dawg

 

[oliver]

Low testosterone? Couldnt be, you seem in healthy shape.. There are some people with a lower sex drive, I'm pretty sure i heard that somewhere.

 

[spinner2]

If the drug you were taking for hairloss was a DHT inhibitor then that would be your likely culprit. I would go to an endocrinologist to get a blood test if this continues, since it sounds like your hormones might be a bit off from normal.

 

[leftydick]

yea id assume i would have to have adequate testosterone to put on muscle...and i have been putting on muscle....so its most likely something in my head....i also forgot to mention i have had kidney stones before and kidney infections numerous times...the only reason i say that is cuz when it happens my right testicle huuuurts so bad...dont know if that could cause any potential problems but yea...prob a mental thing

?

 

[WILLBOM]

try YOGA, it would be good for u.breathing and anxiey control comes naturally and u can start feeling more confident in 4 weeks...

 

[leftydick]

hey willbom thanks for the yoga advice, i kinda tried doing some stretches today, mostly legs, cuz ive had a bad low back and hamstring for like 2 years and i was gonna stretch em out cuz i never stretch and after i did that it felt like the blood was flowing through my body and penis better and i actually started to get aroused just by the way my boxers were rubbing me, idk if my having really tight muscles in my legs could be causing a problem but it worked a little, im just affraid its gonna be like the kegels and stop working after a while

anyway if you guys could check out another thread i posted about my hair loss that would be huge too

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26115

 

[leftydick]

oh and sorry about switching sn...i forgot my password and the email i used so i made another sn...but i figured it out haha