Ok, Women and Penis Size

[DLD]

and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... rofl

Yummy

 

[TheExecutioner]

Sex is arguably the greatest pleasure we can have in this life - it's foolish to think that once a woman discovers this pleasure she wouldn't want to engage in it at every opportunity ;-)

wesb

There are better things than sex beleive it or not

 

[wants9]

We all knew a girl like this or a guy that used to do that. So what? Why are we labeling people? All beautiful women are whores. All hot dudes are shallow players. If she is built like a adult entertainment star it just means that she has a great body. That's it. It has nothing to do with her personality. I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.

I agree with the sentiment. I've known coyote uglies that would take all comers (no pun intended), hotties that were very chaste, and vice versa. Some might take advantage of their looks when on the prowl, but I think alot of other factors, of the girl's own choosing, come before it.

 

[wants9]

and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... rofl

Dang it! I never got a call-back for the roll of horny pizza delivery guy

 

[poonologist]

There are better things than sex beleive it or not

whoa,take it easy there with that one
rofl

 

[poonologist]

I agree with the sentiment. I've known coyote uglies that would take all comers (no pun intended), hotties that were very chaste, and vice versa. Some might take advantage of their looks when on the prowl, but I think alot of other factors, of the girl's own choosing, come before it.

yeah,agreed

 

[kong1971]

If you're insecure, it will bother you. If you are secure, it won't. Don't blame her because you're afraid you don't "measure up". That's what this whole thing boils down to. "Gee, if she's slept with 20 guys, some of them must have had big weiners, and then she'll know my shameful secret!" I've been there. Before Penis Enlargement, I was insecure myself and would get crazy if my wife ever talked about ex boyfriends. Now I am happy with myself and it doesn't bother me all that much. Bottom line: the only thing you should really worry about with a partner who's been around is STD's.

 

[wants9]

I disagree, kong. For me, it's about respect, both of herself and of me. If she lets herself get passed around like a roach at a Phish concert, how cheap must she consider both the act and romantic relationships in general?

 

[penguinsfan]

It's so odd/sad seeing guys talk like this. A woman that loves sex can still be a loyal and trustworthy partner. A woman that has had a fun past doesn't make her trash. It could just mean that she is very horny.

Well, the chick that I was referring to didn't learn anything from her experiences with assholes. She is with a much bigger asshole now.

As for your above comment, I see your point, but sex has consequences and that is just the reality of it. Humans are jealous creatures and they will often be unable to keep from questioning how they measure up to other partners and if their partner is truly faithful to them.

 

[penguinsfan]

The guys dogging on women that have slept around, but think it is OK for them to do it...that's what bugs me.

Believe me, I understand your frustration at the idea. It is hypocritical. However, I think it stems from the general tendency that men are out for sex and women are out for love. Therefore, it is out of place for a woman to seek a one-night stand or casual relationship.

I actually think the general stereotype here is true. Women are more geared towards relationships. Men are more geared towards a quick piece of ass. There are exceptions and people that think/live outside the norm. It doesn't mean they're bad people, but they do get hit with disapproval from society.

 

[kong1971]

I don't see how enjoying sex equates to lack of self respect. Maybe it is because of the way I was raised. My mom and dad were both kind of flower children, and I was raised in an enviroment that was open and honest about sex, so sex is not something dirty and shameful to me. I have had many sexual partners in my life. I was not a playa. I did and still have a lot of self-respect. My wife has had more than a couple lovers herself. I don't see what the big deal is. We are both good people. We were both very careful in choosing our partners. Neither of us have had any STDs. We have been married 10 years and neither of us have strayed. If you want a woman that has never been touched, never felt any emotion for another man and never desired to experience pleasure or love, then you can find her right on aisle 3 of your local adult entertainment shop. She comes in a big box that says Inflatable Annie.

 

[penguinsfan]

We are both good people. We were both very careful in choosing our partners. Neither of us have had any STDs. We have been married 10 years and neither of us have strayed.

Then you have done very well in your lives and have managed not to experience any of the negative consequences that often come with a LARGE NUMBER of partners. Personally, I would consider you the exception to the rule. Hats off to you. I know from getting to know you on this forum that you seem to have a good marriage and genuine feelings for your wife.

I do not need Inflatable Annie, just someone that has made good decisions with her circumstances and keeps the current relationship in the proper perspective.

 

[wants9]

Ditto what Penguinsfan said. Sex is the most intimate physical act there is, and it can become cheapened when it's given away. I'm happy for you that you and your wife have avoided those adverse repercussions, but I'd prefer to avoid the risk altogether.

 

[goodbutnotgreat]

It might be argued that a woman who sleeps around quite a bit is more likely to have certain undesirable personality traits in a man's experience as well. Anecdotal as it may be, the most promiscuous women I have known tended to have other character traits in common. Chiefly among these were unreliability, immaturity, and serious insecurity. Also, study after study has shown that women have the most satisfying sex in committed relationships with the same partner over a long period of time. Simple horniness doesn't really explain sleeping around a whole lot.

If I may be so bold as to suggest simple biology - men are apt to sleep around as we naturally desire to proliferate our genetics as far and wide as possible. It is in a woman's best interest to have a stable provider for her offspring, hence their natural preferance for relationships. Of course it's all much more complciated than that once you get into it, but the underlying structure is fairly concrete. Frankly I am not particularly impressed when I meet a woman that's really been around, political correctness and sensitivity be damned.

Just as it is their preferance to sleep with lots of men outside of committed relationships, it's my preferance to not want to have anything to do with them. There is also something to be said for the fact that women acting in this manner are somewhat frowned upon by society at large, and yet they still do so. To me it often is a sign of attention seeking or a person that somebody else described as 'in love with being in love.' The unquenchable desire for male adoration and frequent, shrill emotional episodes are both qualities that send me running, and you can bet that many a promiscuous woman manifests them in varying, but nonetheless annoying degrees. I'm really no moral prude, but in this day and age if I understand that an adult woman sleeps around a good deal, I don't hesitate that she's probably dealing with some issues I'd really rather have nothing to do with her. So far this hasn't been a problem, as the most attractive and intelligent women I've encountered tend to agree with me on the issue, at least so much as is reflected by their conduct. It's generally the 'looser' crowd that I find can't hold much of a conversation and don't take care of themselves.

 

[penguinsfan]

I think Swank nailed this one.

I'm not denying the double standard, but the biological aspects he brought up are very much relevant. Men and women typically think different on their views of promiscuity, because they typically have different ideas on their roles in life. It may not be politically correct and it may indeed be a double standard, but it is as undeniable as the law of gravity.