Ok, I've got to admit that it bothers me a little bit when I think about a girl that I'm interested in being with more than twenty guys, and two girls for that matter. The things is she says that if she doesn't have at least eight inches she can't get off. So according to her every lover she has had except for I believe she said 7 were in that range. Now, to my next point. I don't care. It doesn't matter to me, for one reason and one reason only, I have an ever growing penis. I am taking my dick and playing with it for 45 minutes to an hour to make it bigger, so that I will know that I am the biggest the woman I marry has been with. I'm satisified knowing that I will be where I want to be. I have faith and I believe in Penis Enlargement and the guys on this board. Ohh, and when I say I'm interested in her I don't mean in a sex way, read the sig if you're wondering what I mean, she's a cool girl who has lost her direction and I'm very good friends with her, she just so happened to say that to me one night and I was like HAHA...she says I'm 8.5 almost nine, which if you check the progress page, I'm nowhere close. Take this as you want. What a girl says doesn't matter, dick size ain't the most important thing in the world, it happens to matter to me more than it will to my future wife, but hey I'm a little odd and I'm ok with that. So fellas take some time out and go find a few women to talk to, get to know them and find out that hey it's more than just what you can get out of it or how much dick you can put in it. Become a whole person, have goals and work to achieve them, let nothing stand in the way of progress or growth. Holla
 
millionman said:
Ok, I've got to admit that it bothers me a little bit when I think about a girl that I'm interested in being with more than twenty guys, and two girls for that matter. The things is she says that if she doesn't have at least eight inches she can't get off. So according to her every lover she has had except for I believe she said 7 were in that range.

The Thompson Twins had a hit in the 80's called LIES:D
 
Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies.

Yeah man don't worry about it. Good post.
 
millionman said:
Ok, I've got to admit that it bothers me a little bit when I think about a girl that I'm interested in being with more than twenty guys, and two girls for that matter.

I don't mean to pry, but why are you interested in a girl with that kind of history?
 
I was in love with a girl who had a history like that too.

You can't really control who you fall for, you just do. Her history DID bother me a lot, at first. But after a while I stopped giving too much of a shit about it.

It wasn't really her history, it was the fact that she still kept in touch with (and hung out with) some exes while she was with me. I hated her for it, and she refused to change, even for me...who she supposedly "loved". I never would have done that to her. It was that that finally made me dump her.

The thing is, I still think about her all the time and miss her. Life sucks.

Chicks with a lot of baggage are really difficult to maintain a relationship with. It might be a good thing, but it's mostly gonna cause resentment and jealousy.
 
Godsize said:
I was in love with a girl who had a history like that too.

You can't really control who you fall for, you just do. Her history DID bother me a lot, at first. But after a while I stopped giving too much of a shit about it.

It wasn't really her history, it was the fact that she still kept in touch with (and hung out with) some exes while she was with me. I hated her for it, and she refused to change, even for me...who she supposedly "loved". I never would have done that to her. It was that that finally made me dump her.

The thing is, I still think about her all the time and miss her. Life sucks.

Chicks with a lot of baggage are really difficult to maintain a relationship with. It might be a good thing, but it's mostly gonna cause resentment and jealousy.

x2...had the exact same experience...still feel the same way you do..life does suck..u jus gotta find sum1 else n move on with your life
 
Godsize said:
I was in love with a girl who had a history like that too.

You can't really control who you fall for, you just do. Her history DID bother me a lot, at first...

That's exactly why I wouldn't get involved with such a woman. I know I have a jealous nature, so even if I liked the girl initially, I would avoid a relationship since it could only end in a world of hurt for me.
 
my sons mother had a history before we met....and at first it was cool to hear about her exploits and some of them down right turned me on...but once we got more serious and feelings really started to grow....it got a little hard to deal with but i persevered....you have to realize what ever she did was before you and what counts is what she does while she is with you...if she is loyal to you that should be all that matters...i know it's hard thinking that so many possess what you have come to love...but you have to be confident in your relationship and know there is a reason that you guys are now together
 
A girl I fucked:

Girl says,
"How long is it"?

Me,
"about 8 and 1/2 inches".

Girl says,
"that can't be because my last boyfriend was 10 inches and you are bigger then him"

Me,
"Ok, I'm really 12 inches"!

I've got plenty of comments like that with an 8 NBP x 6.5 cock... DLD is very corrrect when he says "lies"...

Regularwhiteguy
 
First of all..

Who the hell wants to get w/a girl who has fucked 20 diff. guys, shes probably lose as shit, Most women dont even have that many dicks in her in a LIFETIME.
 
How so? I've been with a girl who has been married for 12 years, and she was having sex with her husband 1-2 times per day. I know that's not quite the norm, but just to illustrate a point. That is almost 10,000 times a guy has pounded her pussy. So 20 one-nighters (of which maybe a few long-term relationships) would make her more loose?
 
Stay away from girls with emotional baggage, unless its a one off shag.
You cant help for the people you fall for but you can sure as hell Act Away from these emotions rather than act upon them, i fit means more hurt in the future.
 
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millionman said:
So fellas take some time out and go find a few women to talk to, get to know them and find out that hey it's more than just what you can get out of it or how much dick you can put in it. Become a whole person, have goals and work to achieve them, let nothing stand in the way of progress or growth. Holla

I like the whole "lonely, obsessive Penis Enlargement:er" implication here. Yeah, just because we happen to be trying to (and being successful at) enlarging our dicks, we can't possibly realise that women like anything about us other than our big dicks. I had 20+ women before even becoming involved in Penis Enlargement. They didn't complain 'cause Iäm one funny sum'bitch. And intelligent to boot :s

wdis3 said:
Who the hell wants to get w/a girl who has fucked 20 diff. guys, shes probably lose as shit.

Considering that she's probably only been with guys who are smaller than the average Penis Enlargement:er that sounds quite unlikely. And I've been with women who could easily take a 6" girth (with a good wramup) and still be tight a shell the next day.

TheExecutioner said:
Stay away from girls with emotional baggage, unless its a one off shag.

Does this go for women as well? Because there are obviously men out there with "emotional baggage". A few in this thread even.
 
twins172_up said:
you have to realize what ever she did was before you and what counts is what she does while she is with you...if she is loyal to you that should be all that matters...
I'm glad things worked out for you, but for me, past is prologue. If a girl I'm interested in had spring-loaded thighs in the past, how little would it take for the same behavior to take place in the future. I'd always be looking at her through the prism of bad sexual behavior that she's shown herself capable of.
 
Ahh, I never said I had fallen for her. She's an interesting person, and no I would never sleep with her. I am trying to get her to let me take pics of the booty and post them on the forum. The biggest reason I talk to her, one I work with her at the bar I bounce at, and two she needs a friend. She's wicked cool, and she's a sweet person, she happens to have some screwed up stuff relationship wise in the past. She made some mistakes, and as her friend I accept that. The post was sort of to point out that yes girls don't know what they are talking about, but who cares, get on with it. You'll be bigger than the last guy in a few months, or heck you may be already. I'm to the point where it's not going to bother me, I'm making progress, and that's what matters most. I'm going back to school in the fall, right now I am focused on getting my business going, preparing for meetings, and training clients. There are things we have to accomplish before we can set up a life with someone else, and that's where I am. Tired of being broke. I got love for all the ladies, but I have no interest in any of them. Holla
 
Who the hell wants to be with a MAN who has been with 20++ people?? ;) Double standards guys.
 
I kind of had a thing for a girl something like this. It didn't work out. I thought maybe she had changed her ways, but I think the trashiness is forever instilled in her. I'm not saying your friend is trashy, but this other girl could definitely be summed up that way. For whatever reasons behind them, most women are never going to radically change their sexual behavior, in my opinion.
 
It's so odd/sad seeing guys talk like this. A woman that loves sex can still be a loyal and trustworthy partner. A woman that has had a fun past doesn't make her trash. It could just mean that she is very horny.
 
AC'sGirl said:
I have given him a 1 year time limit. If he doesn't let me onboard, he is history. I think he is a lil afraid of me. :D


I ll get that tally waker in gear for Him! He better not puss out on this one!
 
It's a once in a life time opportunity. After me the poor boy will have to go back to the real world. It can only go down from there. :s

But damn does that man have a beautiful cock....... :P
 
Do you guys actually expect them to remain virgins until the magical day that you decide to have sex with them? Women like sex as much as men do. They maybe do not know how to accurately judge size because, for the most part, they don't care as long as it is big enough to get them off. After 10 years of marriage, I am finally starting to get some maturity about this issue. Who cares if she had 20 lovers before you? She's with you, and if she decides to keep you around, you must be doing something right!
 
kong1971 said:
Do you guys actually expect them to remain virgins until the magical day that you decide to have sex with them? Women like sex as much as men do. They maybe do not know how to accurately judge size because, for the most part, they don't care as long as it is big enough to get them off. After 10 years of marriage, I am finally starting to get some maturity about this issue. Who cares if she had 20 lovers before you? She's with you, and if she decides to keep you around, you must be doing something right!
:clap: :)
 
I'm not saying that I expect a woman to remain a virgin till marriage, I'm not. I had my wild times, and I've changed my view point and grown as an adult. There are women who are saving themselves for one man, and some of them are absolutely beautiful women, but they are waiting for that one man to spend the rest of theirr lives with and to them I say congratulations, and to the men as well. It's hard because the body and mind enjoy pleasure to such an extent that sometimes it can lead to that being the one and only desire of the heart, and that can be applied to food, sex, alcohol, driving fast cars, buying stuff, etc. A woman should not face judgement from me or anyone else for her sexual past, or of her past in general, that's what happens when this life is over, and I'm not qualified to pass judgement on anyone. Holla
 
Yeah, I do my best to not think on the subject, could cause problems.....I happen to be close to some of them, and it's hard to be "good". It does make it easier to see women as human beings, as opposed to simply wanting sex, and to get to know them for who they are. Some guys would call that wussy, but I enjoy being the good guy/hero. I know what I stand for, and these women respect that and I have their confidence and trust which means a lot to me. Holla
 
stillwantmore said:
Who the hell wants to be with a MAN who has been with 20++ people?? ;) Double standards guys.

Amen SWM, this really is bullshit. It swings both ways, but I think that women are being put down here. In general, a "ladie's man" with a reputation for sleeping around is generally looked on as being desirable, while a woman who does is considered a slut. Really sad IMHO ... such as on the recent "Bachelor" show, the guy admitted to having one night stands....but most of the girls still wanted him. Yet, one of the girls spoke candidly about the number & type of lovers she'd had, and the other <i>girls</i> dogged her out about it, implying that she was a slut. I think the number was 30 or so. She was maybe 28, IIRC - if she became sexually active at 18, that would mean 3 different partners per year on average. I'm sorry, but I just don't consider that being a slut.


I tend to believe that this is a big reason most women lie about their experiences. Sex is arguably the greatest pleasure we can have in this life - it's foolish to think that once a woman discovers this pleasure she wouldn't want to engage in it at every opportunity ;-)

wesb
 
regularwhiteguy said:
A girl I fucked:

Girl says,
"How long is it"?

Me,
"about 8 and 1/2 inches".

Girl says,
"that can't be because my last boyfriend was 10 inches and you are bigger then him"

Me,
"Ok, I'm really 12 inches"!

When it comes to woman and penis size 6 inches is 9 inches. When it comes to men these exaggerations are taken to heart. A perpetual web of lies and delusions. In the end men are convinced they are 3" longer than they really are and woman start seeing rulers as yard sticks.
 
Good....we do have some modern thinking men here. :)

If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s
 
millionman said:
Yeah, I do my best to not think on the subject, could cause problems.....I happen to be close to some of them, and it's hard to be "good". It does make it easier to see women as human beings, as opposed to simply wanting sex, and to get to know them for who they are. Some guys would call that wussy, but I enjoy being the good guy/hero. I know what I stand for, and these women respect that and I have their confidence and trust which means a lot to me. Holla

being the good guy/hero is alright to a certain extent,as long as you dont think any of that transfers into you getting laid.
alot of times youll find out that youve been an emotional tampon and were never getting anywhere near her panties.

youre one of her girlfriends,if you want nothing with her than no problem.
otherwise just draggin your balls through a field of razor wire would be shorter and less painful :D
 
AC'sGirl said:
Good....we do have some modern thinking men here. :)

If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s

very true.although i would hope most women would value themselves more than to spread it around like some sort of airborne virus rofl
 
Poonologist....You're right, as you call it an emotional tampon. Sure if that's how you see it. When it comes down to it I have no interest in simply having sex with a girl just to have sex with someone. It's real easy for me to hook up with chicks, I've done that already, and it wasn't very fulfilling, cause what I'm after is much more than that. And truly is there anything wrong with being a girl's friend. I don't have a problem with it, and some of these girls would like to either jump in bed with me or go out....and I'm just not in a position right now where I can have a girlfriend or would want anything physical. Sex means something to me, and it has a lot of value in a relationship, there are too many people screwing each other up by saying ohh it's just a friend thing, happened to two of my closest friends, one wanted more and one wanted it the way it was, ended that friendship to say the least. It complicates things, and I don't need my life being anymore complicated than it is. And as I will continue to say, what's wrong with being patient and waiting on the Lord who has your best interests at heart. Holla
 
poonologist said:
very true.although i would hope most women would value themselves more than to spread it around like some sort of airborne virus rofl
Yeah...I agree with the above but I would just exchange the word "women" for "men" AGAIN...IT GOES BOTH WAYS!!!!
 
doublelongdaddy said:
When it comes to woman and penis size 6 inches is 9 inches. When it comes to men these exaggerations are taken to heart. A perpetual web of lies and delusions. In the end men are convinced they are 3" longer than they really are and woman start seeing rulers as yard sticks.
Hehe i always try to make me seem smaller then i am. ==)
 
AC'sGirl said:
It's so odd/sad seeing guys talk like this. A woman that loves sex can still be a loyal and trustworthy partner.
Can, yes, but I think the odds go down significantly. It goes beyond sex, too. How someone behaves in that area resonates in actions in other parts of life.


kong1971 said:
Who cares if she had 20 lovers before you? She's with you, and if she decides to keep you around, you must be doing something right!
I take a different view. If I decide to keep a woman around, one of the prices for admision is not having slept around in the past. That shows to me that she's doing something right.

AC'sGirl said:
I bet they would be a blast in bed :s rofl
Hey, everyone's a virgin at one time. I'd rather she learn with me than with a bunch of previous "tutors".

AC'sGirl said:
If a woman is single she should enjoy her single life doing what she desires. When she is in a committed relationship she should only be desiring her man. That goes for men as well. It's really that simple. :s
Actions have consequences, even if they're far in the future. A woman can use her body as she see's fit, but she has no authority how others view her, including men she might want a long-term relationship with, because of those uses.
 
Might I assume that you try to refrain from having sex with anyone other than a serious relationship? If so then your points will be much more credible. If this is one of those...men can do it but women can't deals....well then.....rofl
 
AC'sGirl said:
Might I assume that you try to refrain from having sex with anyone other than a serious relationship? If so then your points will be much more credible. If this is one of those...men can do it but women can't deals....well then.....rofl
I've had one sexual partner in the past, who I was in a long-term relationship to that point. I thought the term would be much longer, but she had other ideas.
 
I understand....I am just getting out of a 6 year relationship and would never thought about cheating. I appreciate what you are saying. The guys dogging on women that have slept around, but think it is OK for them to do it...that's what bugs me.
 
I dated a gal once who simply wouldn't tell me how many guys she had slept with. I had seen a few by looking through her photo albums, but was led to believe that that was only the tip of the iceberg. Needless to say, that relationship did not last long.
 
ok,well i never actually myself said its ok for guys to bed women and not the other way around.
id prefer to not get into a women and men equality issue cause to me it almost sounded like it was goin that way.lol

look,i personally have friends that sleep around a whole lot and whereas i dont respect their choice of it,i respect their right to do that.

the whole issue is that alot of men have a problem being with someone that 20 or so guys have been up in.
its part of the past maybe or just societies conditioning that women should accept that men sleep around a fair amount.

there are women that would never be with a guy that is a dog and in light of that i think its just part of some human nature that some of us have problems sharing our partners,be it a happening of the past or present.just my thoughts
 
I knew a girl like the ones being described here, She was always with a new guy, she'd date him for a few weeks, screw his brains out then dump him. She was a really beautiful woman and guys just fell for her. She even came on to me several times but I wasn't having any of that. Problem is she really had it bad for me for the reason that I wouldn't go out with her. (And I'm not the best looking guy in the room for sure) She even tried to get me drunk on night and had me over her house; one of her 'boyfriends'
came over (I think he was jealous) and I was able to slip out.

But the thing I noticed about her was that she was in love with being in love. What I mean is she was addicted to the excitement that comes with a new relationship. But after the excitement wore off...she needed to move on to a new relationship to get the excitement back. And yes, there are plenty of guys out there with baggage. I had to listen to all her escapades at work every day and a lot of the guys she dated were such losers. The funny thing was, the better looking the guy, the more baggage/problems he had. The same seems to be true of woman that I've met. If she's built like a adult entertainment star...watch out!
 
We all knew a girl like this or a guy that used to do that. So what? Why are we labeling people? All beautiful women are whores. All hot dudes are shallow players. If she is built like a adult entertainment star it just means that she has a great body. That's it. It has nothing to do with her personality. I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.
 
AC'sGirl said:
I was a lingerie model for many years and worked with many very beautiful women. Many of whom I consider my closest friends. None of these women are shallow, slutty, insecure women with baggage/problems.

This starting to sound like a late night CINEMAX adult movie...please go on:)
 
and one night while we were all drinking wine, Kelly suggests we all get into the hot tub. I can't I said...I don't have any panties on...... rofl
 
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