I don't know if this will sound stupid or superstitious to you guys but I've always believed that masturbating is an evil act which attracts negativity into ones life. I believe a man who doesn't masturbate is more progressive with his life when compared to a man that masturbate. What are your thoughts on this.
Masturbating causes setback in life.
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huge-girth;647193 said:
Well masturbation is ok as long as we have self control,Sometimes can help us to release the stress..i have felt that,but yeah can be lame sometimes ......I think progression is a state of mind if a man is motivated n things are working out for him hed have the willpower to continue his journey..
shortdick;647215 said:
I agree with shortdick here. It has a lot to do about how you think, act, and react in life. Be it positive or negative is your choice. If you be negative you'll attract negative.
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Truth. Over masterbation can cause depression as well due to a loss of hormones like serotonin.
Well, thanks so much for the comments but I will like to know if masturbating once a day is over masturbation. I'm a very horny person and I just started using the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sg[/words] [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words]. I always have an erection and some times I need to masturbate to enable the erection go away. Is masturbating once a day bad? Or I have to limit it? I have stopped watching adult entertainment for now.
once a day should be fine. Unless your immune system/body is weak and you wanna improve strengthen your body.huge-girth;647227 said:
huge-girth;647193 said:
I am assuming you mean evil is meant to be a sinful act and I have questioned this same thing in my own religion (Roman Catholic). As far as the bible is concerned nothing is said about masturbation, let alone it being evil or sinful. I think the issues of religion come into play with a very short verse said in the new testament. in Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." and this is meant in the respect of coveting. So from here we need to establish what lust means and how it pertains to masturbation. If one masturbates using pornographic material this would fall into a lustful nature. But now we need to establish what pornography is. Since there was no phonographic material around when the Bible was created we need to make some suppositions. In my mind pornography is the depiction of sexual acts of intercourse and anal sex. I also relate Lust to the act of looking upon someone without their knowledge. So, for me, seeing the naked body is in no way pornographic as long as the actor or actress is presenting it as viewable. And if we see Lust as being one of the 7 deadly sins we need to understand that this is related to the redundancy of these sins, not the word itself. So lust, pride, slothfulness, etc. is more about allowing these things get out of control rather than it being a sin because you are proud or lustful. (Romans 6:19) "I'm speaking in a human way because of the weakness of your corrupt nature. Clearly, you once offered all the parts of your body as slaves to sexual perversion and disobedience. This led you to live disobedient lives. Now, in the same way, offer all the parts of your body as slaves that do what God approves of. This leads you to live holy lives." I think, in understanding these two versus above we can see that the Bible is preaching overindulgence rather than normal human desire. I believe masturbation to be a normal part of humanity. The material used to excite oneself needs to fall into the pornographic definition for that to be evil or sinful. I see nudity as a perfectly normal thing to excite yourself with as long as it does not violate ones personal definition of pornography.
doublelongdaddy;647229 said:
You are the right, the bible didn't say anything about Masturbation. I can feel a certain amount of relief after reading all the comments.
huge-girth;647237 said:
There are many preachers, priests, ministers, rabbis, etc. that make up their own versions of the word of our Lord and twist the meaning to fit their agenda. It is best to know the bible yourself and know the meanings from your own perspective. We do not have a God that detests nudity, why would God make anything that was not worthy of praise?
I'm not a church goer and I don't feel scared to question some things or attitude of some pastors or preachers. I now have the relief I seek. I just masturbated few minutes ago lol.
I will have to check it now
So if I'm masturbating with thoughts of a particular hot chick in my mind, is that considered as a sin?
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I think we are sinning when we are not gaining...
shortdick;647360 said:
I think this is the worst sin of all
Threak-X;647285 said:
On that verse I believe it was misinterpreted from the original Hebrew text. "Onanism is allegedly founded here. Catholic theologians, lacking any authority for their extreme position on birth control, have taken this ancient story of Onan, distorted its meaning by declaring that God slew Onan for his "coitus interruptus", and inflated this interpretation into a whole system of social hygiene for the 20th Century. If this event has any moral at all, it is that every man who refuses to marry his brother's widow and have a child by her should be killed. That, of course, is what happened to Onan. His willful disobedience to his father, his shameful disregard of the rights of his deceased older brother, his heartless fraud perpetrated against Tamar who desperately desired a child, and his selfish greed in hoping to have a bigger estate himself by cheating Tamar ... that was his sin. He was condemned, not just for spilling his seed, but for doing it in order to avoid his marital responsibility. This has nothing to do with masturbation (`onanism'). It was selfish greed. Why is it that such sins are not punished by death today? This sin of Onan required the fatal judgment of God because it could have thwarted the proper foundation of the Messianic family, and was therefore a threat to God's purpose of redeeming mankind. There can be no doubt, that if a similar threat existed today, the judgment of God would be executed in such a manner as to remove it."
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Back in the day i used to jack too but most men may believe that Masturbation is for losers..but now i do enjoy doing it specially because i can grab a bigger penis..BM n shooting great combo¡¡
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i believe that if you believe it is bad for you.... it is going to be bad for you. i believe this with everything.
i don't see masturbation as a bad thing, but alot of religions likes to take control of everything pleasureable. sex. masturbation. drugs. alcohol. partying. etc. im not against religion. but i do as DLD said believe that there is alot of people interpreting it to their own agenda.
i don't see masturbation as a bad thing, but alot of religions likes to take control of everything pleasureable. sex. masturbation. drugs. alcohol. partying. etc. im not against religion. but i do as DLD said believe that there is alot of people interpreting it to their own agenda.
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Aimingforthetop;647431 said:
yup,agree 100 %.Almost everything that you enjoy is a sin...people need to stop believing in these kind of things.Masturbation is a natural thing and its healthy,youre not going to hell for doing it.You;re not going to hell at all because it doesnt exist..but thats another story
Aimingforthetop;647431 said:
I actually got confused by religion.
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ChilDsh;647464 said:yup,agree 100 %.Almost everything that you enjoy is a sin...people need to stop believing in these kind of things.Masturbation is a natural thing and its healthy,youre not going to hell for doing it.You;re not going to hell at all because it doesnt exist..but thats another story
maybe remorse about the enjoyable things...masturbation is a great pleasure
huge-girth;647470 said:
Religion does not have to pay a part in your love for God and the desire to do the right thing. Many religions are responsible for spreading mistruths to justify their beliefs and, basically, guilt people into following their doctrine. Like I said, I am a hard core Roman Catholic but my church is my mind and the relationship I have with the Holy Family.
shortdick;647487 said:
Yeah, self servicing is great
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I believe after having a vision during meditation (and a heck of a lot of drugs)
That we are all one!
Basicly there was an entity (call it god call it what you like)
And it was everything and it could do everything.
However. It was the only thing.
Now im not talking about a guy sitting alone in a room.
No im talking about the concept. That without anything else.
You cannot move.
You can move 1000000000000 miles in any direction. But when everything around you is is non existent. You will still stand in non existance: you haven't moved.
So what does a limitless being create?
A world around it? Why?. It will never have a new experience as everything is created by itself.
Concepts came up here.
There has to be limits.
Thats why we became mortals.
There has to be feelings.
There have to be imbalance.
I believe that we are all just leaves of the same tree. We might perceive us self as an individual. But in reality we are all one and the same.
We are an all knowing entity experiencing itself in a different bodies at the same time.
Now this is the time where most new religions would tell you to donate x amount of money (between 50 dollars and all your belongings)
But the truth is. I never got a note about recruiting people. I didn't get a divine job either (no killing people. And no saving people
)
And i don't know what the meaning of life is either.
And i didn't feel like i was invited to the other side to see these visions. I felt alot more like i went through some weird ass meditation found a portal to places i really wasn't supposed to go.
And that i was taking a sneak peak through the key hole more than getting an introduction.
For me. I concluded by my self that lifes purest concept is experiences.
I want my life to be a book worth reading.
I wanna be good to people. And i want to inspire people. And i want to be known as the guy who fought so hard for what he believed in. That even when he should have died he would still stand only due to my pure will.
I want this! More than i actually want to succeed.
Im terrified about being a success. What the fuck should i do if i archived all my goals.
It would be boring as fuck!! And i would turn into the new charlie sheen.
Lots of drugs and chicks and no common sense.
I love my life. Every aspect of it. Im a pro lifer. But im also pro death. I look forward to the day i say goodbye. Not in a depressed way.
Its just a natural part of life
That we are all one!
Basicly there was an entity (call it god call it what you like)
And it was everything and it could do everything.
However. It was the only thing.
Now im not talking about a guy sitting alone in a room.
No im talking about the concept. That without anything else.
You cannot move.
You can move 1000000000000 miles in any direction. But when everything around you is is non existent. You will still stand in non existance: you haven't moved.
So what does a limitless being create?
A world around it? Why?. It will never have a new experience as everything is created by itself.
Concepts came up here.
There has to be limits.
Thats why we became mortals.
There has to be feelings.
There have to be imbalance.
I believe that we are all just leaves of the same tree. We might perceive us self as an individual. But in reality we are all one and the same.
We are an all knowing entity experiencing itself in a different bodies at the same time.
Now this is the time where most new religions would tell you to donate x amount of money (between 50 dollars and all your belongings)
But the truth is. I never got a note about recruiting people. I didn't get a divine job either (no killing people. And no saving people
) And i don't know what the meaning of life is either.
And i didn't feel like i was invited to the other side to see these visions. I felt alot more like i went through some weird ass meditation found a portal to places i really wasn't supposed to go.
And that i was taking a sneak peak through the key hole more than getting an introduction.
For me. I concluded by my self that lifes purest concept is experiences.
I want my life to be a book worth reading.
I wanna be good to people. And i want to inspire people. And i want to be known as the guy who fought so hard for what he believed in. That even when he should have died he would still stand only due to my pure will.
I want this! More than i actually want to succeed.
Im terrified about being a success. What the fuck should i do if i archived all my goals.
It would be boring as fuck!! And i would turn into the new charlie sheen.
Lots of drugs and chicks and no common sense.
I love my life. Every aspect of it. Im a pro lifer. But im also pro death. I look forward to the day i say goodbye. Not in a depressed way.
Its just a natural part of life
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We all going to leave this world sooner or later....
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I'm not gonna tell you what's evil for you, but I will tell you about myself.
Masturbation in general and adult entertainment in specific causes me to introvert. I get in my head and think instead of act and I gradually get depressed. It's kind of cyclic. I've been off of adult entertainment/beating off for 33 days now and I can say I'm more extroverted, better at talking to women, more comfortable and more confident. I also need less sleep, somehow. I used to be exhausted unless I got several nights of 8hr sleep in a row. Now I can do 6.5-7 and be more alert than I was on 8. So that's cool.
Is it easy? NO. A few times I've seriously contemplated pulling up some adult entertainment and giving myself that sweet release that I felt I desperately needed. I stuck it out because I want to see more of where this road goes. Supposedly it gets easier at a certain point. I'll let you know
Masturbation in general and adult entertainment in specific causes me to introvert. I get in my head and think instead of act and I gradually get depressed. It's kind of cyclic. I've been off of adult entertainment/beating off for 33 days now and I can say I'm more extroverted, better at talking to women, more comfortable and more confident. I also need less sleep, somehow. I used to be exhausted unless I got several nights of 8hr sleep in a row. Now I can do 6.5-7 and be more alert than I was on 8. So that's cool.
Is it easy? NO. A few times I've seriously contemplated pulling up some adult entertainment and giving myself that sweet release that I felt I desperately needed. I stuck it out because I want to see more of where this road goes. Supposedly it gets easier at a certain point. I'll let you know
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When God made man and woman. He made man more powerful. But Gods wife was not happy so he he gave man he third leg. When blood flows from the brain to the third leg the mind gets depleted. This way girls control our lives. And when we do mastrubation we have premature ejaculation and then cannot satisfy the girl. A girl can get so many orgasms and can take many in one time.
We have to learn the art to use our tool.
We have to learn the art to use our tool.
I agree, once a day is fine. Twice a week is much more preferable for me.
You ask....so lets go....
I agree with this. I feel more clear in my head, and my thought patterns are more positive when I do not masturbate all the time. I also believe if you masturbate to much, you drain yourself of your sexual energy (ejaclations drains you), and if you add adult entertainment watching to this, this is even worse. You can get depressed, when you drain you brain on Dopamine all the time. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that's supposed to work for us so we accomplish goals in real life. But If we already for example, have all those beutiful woman on the the screen (Watching: adult entertainment; Your brain can't separate girls/woman on a screen and in real life). Only masturbation, also taps into this reward system in the brain, and drains you if you overuse it.
Then: Why would the brain make you do anything I real life. It's the same with overusage of smartphone and social media. Your brain gets depleted. Have you seen people that can't take their eyes of the screen and they are stuck in the "doomscrolling". Negativity stimulates the brain really good, that's why people gets stuck in the negativity on social media and so on...
Definition of doomscrolling:
After you have "doomscrolled" you are depleted. You feel empty in your brain and you get so tired. I believe it's the same with to much masturbation and to much adult entertainment watching.
You can recover from this, but if you do this all the time, I think you can get into a state where you do not want to do anything, or accomplish anything in real life.
I did an experiment of NoFap for 3 weeks. At the end of the last week I could not focus on anything, my energy was not focused, it was defused and I was really stressed out/anxiety. I also experienced my perception of women changed for the better, when I did not use adult entertainment as a masturbation aid. But there was a time before this happened, where I was extremely present to the moment and super focused. So a balanced way of approaching masturbation is probably for the best.
I have also realized that when I do not masturbate my primal instincts come back as well. It can be bad in some situations. One time I just stared at a womans breasts for no reson at all, I could not stop it. So some masturbation in today's society is good, to not appear like a creep, if you have a tendency to become extremely horny.
You ask....so lets go....
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that's supposed to work for us so we accomplish goals in real life. But If we already for example, have all those beutiful woman on the the screen (Watching: adult entertainment; Your brain can't separate girls/woman on a screen and in real life). Only masturbation, also taps into this reward system in the brain, and drains you if you overuse it.
Then: Why would the brain make you do anything I real life. It's the same with overusage of smartphone and social media. Your brain gets depleted. Have you seen people that can't take their eyes of the screen and they are stuck in the "doomscrolling". Negativity stimulates the brain really good, that's why people gets stuck in the negativity on social media and so on...
Definition of doomscrolling:
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After you have "doomscrolled" you are depleted. You feel empty in your brain and you get so tired. I believe it's the same with to much masturbation and to much adult entertainment watching.
You can recover from this, but if you do this all the time, I think you can get into a state where you do not want to do anything, or accomplish anything in real life.
I did an experiment of NoFap for 3 weeks. At the end of the last week I could not focus on anything, my energy was not focused, it was defused and I was really stressed out/anxiety. I also experienced my perception of women changed for the better, when I did not use adult entertainment as a masturbation aid. But there was a time before this happened, where I was extremely present to the moment and super focused. So a balanced way of approaching masturbation is probably for the best.
I have also realized that when I do not masturbate my primal instincts come back as well. It can be bad in some situations. One time I just stared at a womans breasts for no reson at all, I could not stop it. So some masturbation in today's society is good, to not appear like a creep, if you have a tendency to become extremely horny.
For me, masturbating daily is draining one's life force but masturbating once or twice a week is fine. If I don't masturbate at all, I will likely do something stupid like carrying an escort. So masturbation when done properly helps to keep the balance. If men weren't able to masturbate, women will walk over us and ruin us completely.
Probably true. There are men that chase women their entire life, they forget themselves in the process. I think this is a true statement for these men. It's sad to see...
Balance is important.
A lot of men spend their time chasing women. It is very common with men who don't masturbate.
Haven't thought about it from that perspective before. Sounds like it would be correct.
3 weeks with no masturbation, and I thought I would almost explode, just by seeing a beautiful woman.
If I abstain for that long, I will start calling my toxic exes on the phone. Once or twice a week is what I will be doing.
It was a good experience for me. I know where my limit is at.