Looks matter or not?
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All I can say is that if you think you attract a girl by your looks in a way that she approaches you, you might be wrong.
Muscles are fine. They stare at them all the time and write little stories in the highschool graduation magazine when they never really interacted with you. On the other hand they are scared by muscles. In my environment muscles are not very common and I don't see muscular guys around girls. Bodybuilder are often introverts which causes some trouble in the dating area.
They also look at your bulge in the jogging pants when I am walking down the stairs and they are approaching from downstairs. Their face turns into a shocked state.
If you are a man you got to be the doer speaking in general terms. When you are the doer you don't need looks anymore. Personally I think that guys who sympathize with the idea that if they look good enough girls will approach them spend the most time in improving their looks.
Muscles are fine. They stare at them all the time and write little stories in the highschool graduation magazine when they never really interacted with you. On the other hand they are scared by muscles. In my environment muscles are not very common and I don't see muscular guys around girls. Bodybuilder are often introverts which causes some trouble in the dating area.
They also look at your bulge in the jogging pants when I am walking down the stairs and they are approaching from downstairs. Their face turns into a shocked state.
If you are a man you got to be the doer speaking in general terms. When you are the doer you don't need looks anymore. Personally I think that guys who sympathize with the idea that if they look good enough girls will approach them spend the most time in improving their looks.
LONGERDICK7+
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Is ok to look fine if a man got the looks,but being obsessed by his appearence can be boring and a waste of time imo.
Girls looking at the bulge lol yep they do haha
Girls looking at the bulge lol yep they do haha
Attraction can come in many ways and it is very hard to tell. I mean think of the things that attract you, do you think a woman would have any idea of what those might be? Just like you she would be guessing. One girl I dated thought dandruff was attractive! 
and since I had a dry scalp she loved me. Another girl found me attractive because of the way I think over any physical attribute. My first girl thought my poverty was attractive! It is a very strange place to guess. I find women with buck teeth with a space between their two front teeth! I find women who have big noses attractive. I bet some of the things I love in a woman are the very thing she hates. Projection and discernment usually fall flat in the face of reality.
and since I had a dry scalp she loved me. Another girl found me attractive because of the way I think over any physical attribute. My first girl thought my poverty was attractive! It is a very strange place to guess. I find women with buck teeth with a space between their two front teeth! I find women who have big noses attractive. I bet some of the things I love in a woman are the very thing she hates. Projection and discernment usually fall flat in the face of reality.