Have you tried it on your parteners? How did it work (if you have)?
Yes, just the one longterm S.O. -- but I think between that and prior experience and other people's online reviews of it, I can give you a
lot of insight ..
Every chick is built a little different, the size of their clits and labia, the arrangement of them (distance from the pubic bone etc), the way those sit either in a generally straight line, or curve away sharply compared to the pubic bone, the sensitivity of all their parts .. outside and inside - including the gspot and sometimes aspot, whether they're 115 lbs or
415 lbs, the angle of all of these and whether the inside of the public bone has a sharp dropoff or not (for keeping it in place better) .. and the chick's awareness and participation in her own erotic elevations (some chicks apparently need a Hitachi Magic Wand .. with themselves doing all the orchestration.. to get off, ... while others -and I've seen all of these- can orgasm just by
thinking about orgasming, or having a light kisses on their nipples, or even squirt everywhere the moment you put your head in.) Without the chick having some advanced self-knowledge, all of that can be very random.
The chick's Erotic Awareness (or lack thereof) is an enormous factor that can effect most of the rest of the variables. If they don't know their own bodies and have either done nothing about it or have always relied on powerful vibes to make up for their lack of awareness, that crap is going to roll downhill onto everyone. I'd call that Erotic-Blunting, instead of Erotic-Awareness. (Guys can cause the same thing by being over-porned, or by getting themselves off so quickly that they detrain themselves from being able to last a long time.) But you can take one of those blunted chicks and teach them how to notice radically lower levels of elevation, like fingertips tickled up their thighs, or the expectations from just sensing you smell the back of their neck, etc .. and now, instead of being obtuse to everything that's not plugged into a wall, they're a loaded gun trembling and ready to pop .. with all of their same original parts in their same original places - being my point. The only difference being the way they engage their minds and imagination and feel what their body is saying.
With a normal phallic
vibrator being used by the chick on herself, the chick can biofeedback the right position and speed and pressure .. so if anything is going to do it for them that probably will. A device like the We-Vibe4 is designed to fit as many chicks as possible, and if the chick applies control pressure to it with her fingers it's going to act like a normal
vibrator for anyone no problem, but when 'inserted and sitting there on its own' .. there are apparently chicks whose bodies aren't made in a way that coincides enough (or that aren't physically skinny enough?) for it to hit all the right spots and do its thing. And if it doesn't fit them right it's also going to be more likely to slip out.
My chick is not one of those. This We-Vibe stays put and blows her head off.
Funnier too cos she was thinking it was 'too dinky' to do much.
Umm, .. Wrong!
It's interesting when in place. It's realllly innocuous. I'd have to describe it as looking like a little purple slice of lemon that could go on a glass of tea (and even then just 'the rind')... except that it's not on a tea glass, it's gripping your chick (if she's made right for it) by her clit ..
and by her gspot ..
and also contacting an enormous amount of the u-spot (the upper lips etc) while it's at it.
Getting yourself in her (vag) at the same time as the vibe is something you (and she) get the hang of. If you full-stroke you're going to dislodge it ... works better to go in pretty deep and then kindof 'tantric' her while the vibe does the heavy lifting. Plus it's going to do less 'damage' to you probably vibing against your base than vibing against your glans. If you're vibe-sensitive ..and you try to full stroke ..I'd bet you won't do that for very long.
I mentioned that it's got a surprising amount of 'balls' for its size, .. if anything it might need even lower settings. For a chick who's aware of her body - and knows how to squirt (gspot sensitivity/inner muscle tone) - this thing is a Beast. The 'Wave Mode' on lowest setting almost seems to turn off it goes so low for a second, so it's -capable- of going lower ... just most of the modes aren't programmed for superlow. Which reminds me of some of the reviews I'd read about it .. for every chick who it didn't -quite- work for .. there was another chick who it'd slap around like she owed it money .. and then her boyfriend drops the remote while it's turned to High and she's coming (pun) out of her skin yelling OMG in seven languages..
The remote is cool but it can be iffy. In private it's easy to deal with, you can keep count of what mode and intensity settings it's on, and if it seems to not have done what you told it to on the first try you can hear the vibe or feel of the vibe to double check. All that's great in private, home run. If you're going to try to use it in public it might make way more sense to pick a mode and an intensity that you know will 1) do it for her no question, or 2) tease her to where she's climbing the walls but not quite getting off yet. [evil laugh].
Of course you can mess around with it randomly and just go by her reactions ... eyeballs rolling way back in her head and shuddering breaths are a good sign
but out in public the '10 feet' or whatever you're supposed to get from the remote ... when the vibe is mostly covered up in standing or sitting chick, legs closed, clothed, etc .. maybe you get two feet, maybe not even that. Clicking the remote underneath a table will still work ok, but it won't always 'hear' what you tell it .. and you won't be able to tell when it doesn't.
Again though ... lol ... the eyes rolling all the way back in her head is a hint that it's doing ok!
The vibe and the remote stay paired-up for 45 minutes. During that time you can turn the vibe off and on from the remote. If you wait longer than 45 minutes between inputs they will go to sleep and then you (or her) will need to click the 'button-bump' on the vibe again to turn it back on. This takes some of the sneaky-bastard power out of your hands .. so keep up with the time.
Can't think of what I'm forgetting.
Again, IMO the use of any per se 'lube' is an error. The device can't hit all the right spots if it's slipping out, and with her juicing everywhere and squirming .. all of that is already trying to stack the deck against it. Just use a bit of fingering and some spit to get it into place. If she already likes it you might not even have to do as much as that.
And again can only recommend the '4'. The 2 and the 3 are made differently, and the 2 doesn't even have a remote. Hope that helps .. Post your results here if you get into it!
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