Damn!! Just got caught!

[b1nzen48]

I'm sitting here looking at a voyeur site in the middle of a jelqing session when my wife walks in the door and sees me. She knows I'm growing and into Penis Enlargement but doesn't say much about it. I was stunned and I just said ''you caught me in the middle of my exercises''! I still don't know what to think but maybe she will want to talk more openly about it now. I wonder if she thinks I was jacking off or what!! This may be a touchy subject at first and I could use some advice on how to handle it. She also knew that I was producing the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Power Assist[/words] and what it was for and at the time she just said ''do people really believe that shit works''.So at the time I just left it alone, but I know she's enjoying sex more, she just hasn't said anything.

 

[oopapercutoo]

Wow, that sucks. Sorry to hear that... Anywho, the best way to go about it is to sit her down and be up front with her. Tell her that you Penis Enlargement and tell her that it does indeed work, and that you're doing it so that she can enjoy sex more.

 

[bigtyivier]

code red: bogey bogey

 

[crazyed27]

Hey man I sometimes do my exercies right in front of my girlfriend, all she does is ask from time to time " Does that shit hurt???" Shes cool with it. Maybe your wife will do the same!!!

 

[9cyclops9]

I hear a lot about responses from women like that. "I can't believe people think that stuff works." I think it's because women like to have that one control over us. They know how easy it is to make a man insecure about his size, and they enjoy having that power. So when you tell them you're doing something about it they get defensive and say crap like "I can't believe you think that works" so they can make you doubt. They hope that they can discourage you from doing it anymore. They want you to think "Yeah, she's right. This doesn't really work." Now they can go ahead and keep that control over you. It really pisses me off that some women are this selfish. They should be supportive of you trying to improve yourself. If they were to discover some exercise that made their tits bigger and not sag, I think men would be ecstatic about it! But women get jealous and defensive. I don't get it.

Not saying that this is the way your wife is, b1nzen48. Just a lot of women in general.

John

 

[Dario]

Have a sit-down with her. Try to get her to be supportive.

 

[b1nzen48]

Thank you guys. After thinking about it ,it may not be as bad as I think. She found my pump last summer and didn't ask about it. She knows about [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and that I'm a member and as mentioned before, she knows all about the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]Power Assist[/words]. I guess my biggest fear is that I really don't know what she thinks about NPenis Enlargement. I'll just have to talk through it with her and explain that Penis Enlargement isn't just for sexual reasons, but also crucial as a defense against ED, prostate problems including cancer, and it will ensure an active sex life into our retirement years. She knows what her Dad went through with prostate surgery as well as my Dad.

 

[nystrongstroke2]

some women have insecurities about pe,because they feel what if it does work--will he go out and show the world.I take it she maybe one of em,because u stated she feels its bigger--but asks u a question like people really beleive that pe works. Let her know ur doing it for urself and her,that u enjoy the way pe makes u feel.

 

[Sunburnt Yetti]

my girl was supportive, she even helped me do some jelqin!
but once she saw that i was committed and that it actually worked she resented it a bit. She kept saying "its big enough as it is why do it more" when i know its a ok size (6.9x4.6NBEL) its not what i want. she wudent drop this subject.
i think that its just a females fear of being replaced. Setrotypically the bigger the cock the nicer looking the woman. i think that worried her. oh well my cock she can fuck off!
:blahblah:
Sunburnt Yetti

 

[DLD]

Originally posted by b1nzen48
I'm sitting here looking at a voyeur site in the middle of a jelqing session when my wife walks in the door and sees me.

:gluedtosc

 

[ctmwm]

make sure she knows you werent jerking off. She might feel slighted or hurt. This is VERY important!!! Trust me on this.

 

[penguinsfan]

I think you've gotten some pretty good advice from the field. Talk to her. If she has accepted your Penis Enlargement activities, she'll likely understand. Tell her specifically what you were working on and explain the science behind it. If you're sincere, things are good between you, and you explain everything, she'll probably accept the fact that you were Penis Enlargementing and not wanking.

 

[bigbutnottoo]

Originally posted by ctmwm
make sure she knows you werent jerking off. She might feel slighted or hurt. This is VERY important!!! Trust me on this.

I understand what you mean, but it is perfectly normal to masturbate. She probably does also. I dont know why it would hurt someone. And I may be mistaken, but I think people in relationships are just as likely or even more likely to masturbate than single people.

 

[SlamInTheLamb]

Haha, seems like a good time to get it all out in the open.

I can't talk though...my wife was clearing out some cupboards this morning and found my homemade 'ring of power'. She asked me what it was and I told her it was a homemade copper wrist band which is supposed to give you increased energy, then proceeded to put it on my wrist. She just commented that I must have too much time on my hands, hehe

 

[Super]

I would have just asked my wife to come gimmie some head or something to keep me motivated or something.

 

[Anon]

I'm in a long term relationship (1.5 years so far), and I still jerk off (only on rest days though ). My girlfriend likes the thought of me doing it over her... dirty minx...

 

[bfd21]

I came right out and told my wife, she is a little freaked out , cause she thinks it hurts me, and wonders what my motives are. She said i don't need it, etc. etc. I told her it was as much for me as it was her, I wear my ROP everynight to bed, we have sex everynight before bed, I sometimes jerk off for her, while she takes care of herself. She is real understanding about Penis Enlargement.

Just talk to your girl and tell her it is for you self confidence and her satisfaction and no other reason Good luck

:zzboner:

 

[TheExecutioner]

I remember when i Got caught Wanking by my folks one time Not Good!!

 

[ctmwm]

Originally posted by bigbutnottoo
I understand what you mean, but it is perfectly normal to masturbate. She probably does also. I dont know why it would hurt someone. And I may be mistaken, but I think people in relationships are just as likely or even more likely to masturbate than single people.

I meant just that she wasnt involved with the masturation if thats what she though it was. She might feel slighted or sad.

My better half likes when I do it for her. Heck she even BE's me while I'm doing it ! Now thats hot AND understanding!! Man I love her.

 

[ivan]

Funnily enough my MRS discovered my ROP yesterday! I haven't worn it at night for fear of being found out but yesterday she got a bit amorous at lunchtime. I reacted a bit when she tried to stick her hands down my pants which made her more determined. There was nothing I could do accept giggle as she suddenly felt something and got this real puzzled suspicious look. When I told her what it was and what it's supposed to do she proceeded to unzip me for a closer look. It must have really turned her on as she gave me a wonderful bj there and then in the kitchen and virtually dragged me upstairs to give her one! She now thinks it's cool as it bunches everything out front which she reckons is a great visual turn on, and keeps asking if I'm wearing my "ring" ... which of course I can now do in comfort!

Funny things ... women!

Ivan

 

[penguinsfan]

Hey ctmwm, are you involved with your ex, or is this another woman?

 

[penguinsfan]

Originally posted by ivan
Funnily enough my MRS discovered my ROP yesterday! I haven't worn it at night for fear of being found out but yesterday she got a bit amorous at lunchtime. I reacted a bit when she tried to stick her hands down my pants which made her more determined. There was nothing I could do accept giggle as she suddenly felt something and got this real puzzled suspicious look. When I told her what it was and what it's supposed to do she proceeded to unzip me for a closer look. It must have really turned her on as she gave me a wonderful bj there and then in the kitchen and virtually dragged me upstairs to give her one! She now thinks it's cool as it bunches everything out front which she reckons is a great visual turn on, and keeps asking if I'm wearing my "ring" ... which of course I can now do in comfort!

:clap: The Ring of Power is a great thing.

 

[ctmwm]

Originally posted by penguinsfan
Hey ctmwm, are you involved with your ex, or is this another woman?

I'll never go back to the ex, My now wife of 3+ years is just incredible. Ya know, I tell everyone that if I was to be able to assemble the perfect mate/wife This girl is it! She's really an incredible lady. Its ALWAYS better the second time around!! Wounds do heal but it takes time.

And to top it off it REAL FUN rubbing it into the ex, how great my life is. And my now wife dresses to the nines all the time. And she is build like a brick shit house!!!

EX........ EAT MY Short hairs left on the bathroom floor!!!
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

 

[penguinsfan]

I'll never go back to the ex, My now wife of 3+ years is just incredible.

:clap:

I got the impresion from our previous discussions that your ex would really act flirtatious at times and seemed to express regret that your relationship had ended. I was urging you to never give in, but I had no idea you had remarried. Congrats to moving ahead and finding happiness.