Banned.

[robjeremy]

My moderators are my moderators and if they make a decision it is in the interest of the forum. I will not put u with any banter between people, this forum is about support and men helping men. I CAN'T BE HERE ALL THE TIME and this is why I have moderators. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is about Penis Enlargement, support, ideas and discussion. When personal insults ensue I expect my moderators, fuck, I expect my members to stop the bullshit, be compassionate and move on. Bickering back and forth, throwing insults at one another (especially in a forum that deals with the most delicate male issue) is whacked!

This forum is all about you guys, the money I make has nothing to do with the free forums and if it ever turns into a pissing battle I have no problem with closing it. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is about men helping men. Swallow your pride, admit your insecurities, have respect with one another but please, do not hurt one another!

I don't think people take this site as seriously as they should. The free forums have been a Godsend to every poor guy with a urge to enlarge his penis outthere. I know I can not given my curent financial situation afford the members erea. but I tell you this If I won the lotto tomarow a big check would be heading DLD's way from me. I came here with a below average penis and now I'm on the high side of average and soon to be above average and I can not tell you how happy that has made me. It may not be a as big as some. but I'm very pleased. I think I speak for everyone here when I say if it came down to some clown getting this forum shut down because of his posts, A little street justice would be in order!!!!

DLD is right don't let the moderators have to step in. the members need to nip that shit in the bud before the mod's ever need to get involved. this forum is too important to too many people to let a few rotten apples spoil it.

 

[stridge]

There have been problems with and discussions about this before. Basically I support by the right to criticize pictures and measurements that seem fishy. Often it's just a matter of opinion over what even constitutes a bad picture in the first place, so it seems difficult to justify punishing posters for voicing an opinion.

While DLD is correct in stating that the place needs to have an element of civility and such, I believe that's mostly self-perpetuating as the kids and trolls get weeded out. For pictures and things that seem to be the root cause of the inflamitory incidents, however, there should be freedom to question dubious posts. This is the internet and as we've seen on this site there are plenty of frauds and weirdos that post either faked or stolen pics. This stuff deligitimizes Penis Enlargement and makes it seem like a joke, as well as at times giving naive or new guys unrealistic expectations. The total acceptance of crappy pictures and poorly supported claims are more harmful to the quality of the forum as a doubtful attitude towards some posting, in my opinion.

A lot of guys have advocated a 'zero tolerance' criticism policy in the past. I think that's really the wrong way to go. While the forum should be free of personal attacks and excessive bitching, it's not a self-help site where anything and everything is completely above question. There needs to be a level of BS detection, and in this case I don't think it should have come down to the fact that any moderators happened to disagree with what was being said as it was being done in an appropriate manner.

The fact is, clear and well measured ruler pics tracking gains are exceedingly rare and they should be encouraged. Not calling guys out when the post crappy documentation of gains tacitly encourages lower standards. I understand that it is difficult and intimidating to post pictures of your penis, so don't do it if you ahve reservations. But, the fact is, plenty of guys that do post pictures distort them or measure badly jsut to collect positive feedback, not to demonstrate their advancements in Penis Enlargement, use the pictures as reference, explain an exercise, etc. I would probably work harder at Penis Enlargement if I could see more well documented visual evidence of gains, but instead the usual grainy, out of proportion/focus pics with the ruler partially obscured remain the norm. So many guys claim extremely impressive gains of multiple inches but we rarely see the evidence - I think continuing to encourage a higher standard of quality for photos is one way to help correct this.

It's funny that guys on this website have proved to be regular McGuyvers when it comes to Penis Enlargement by rigging up all sorts of devices and creating elaborate theories and exercises, but the simple act of taking clear photos remains incredibly elusive. It should be acceptable to question photos and claims, but within reason. Without that ability this places risks devolving into that lpsg website. On the other hand, with too harsh of an environment for posting it risks moving towards something even worse - Thunder's.