A girl at work.......

[REDZULU2003]

I'm going to have to get the story on here soon sometime .. dunno when but will do.

Me and the girl are much better freinds now, we talk and work better together.

 

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Okay so at the moment their is a girl at work who I like but dont want to make a move in her yet, if at all but want to find out if she's interested in me but useing methods that aint so direct like asking her ''do you like me''.

The Workplace:

We both work in a Care home for Disabled Adults and work on the same shifts sometimes.

The Girls attitude in general:

She is a bossy person but hardworking, sweet and caring.

Other details about her:

Shes 32 years old, around 5 ft 6 inches tall and has a nice build with a nice tan and short brown hair.

How I normally react to her:

I NEVER have a conversation with this girl because in the past she always bossed me around so I started ignoreing this and she stopped, so it became a tried and tested method to stop the bossy'ness. I do say goodmorning to her and general chit chat about the job when needed but otherwise I do not talk with her. So she and I dont speak much to eachother. I can be sharp and blunt with her I feel, a defensive reaction IMHO from when she did boss me around.

Her attitude to me:

She is alright with me. She seems to speak to me in a more soft nicer tone than the other male carers in the building and she NEVER tells me what to do anymore. Its sorta like she's nervous around me.....I dunno.

So really what I want to know is how do I tell or find out if she likes me ... I'm rusty at this game and have only had two serious relationships with everyother female encounter being with a whore.

This girl isn't an easy target either as she strikes me as someone who wouldnt be an easy catch.

Any advice, tips, feedback to what I've said would be superb

Speak with her a few times than you normally do and then invite her on a date. Invite her for two dates and make your intentions known to her on the second date. What will be will be.

 

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Okay so at the moment their is a girl at work who I like but dont want to make a move in her yet, if at all but want to find out if she's interested in me but useing methods that aint so direct like asking her ''do you like me''.

The Workplace:

We both work in a Care home for Disabled Adults and work on the same shifts sometimes.

The Girls attitude in general:

She is a bossy person but hardworking, sweet and caring.

Other details about her:

Shes 32 years old, around 5 ft 6 inches tall and has a nice build with a nice tan and short brown hair.

How I normally react to her:

I NEVER have a conversation with this girl because in the past she always bossed me around so I started ignoreing this and she stopped, so it became a tried and tested method to stop the bossy'ness. I do say goodmorning to her and general chit chat about the job when needed but otherwise I do not talk with her. So she and I dont speak much to eachother. I can be sharp and blunt with her I feel, a defensive reaction IMHO from when she did boss me around.

Her attitude to me:

She is alright with me. She seems to speak to me in a more soft nicer tone than the other male carers in the building and she NEVER tells me what to do anymore. Its sorta like she's nervous around me.....I dunno.

So really what I want to know is how do I tell or find out if she likes me ... I'm rusty at this game and have only had two serious relationships with everyother female encounter being with a whore.

This girl isn't an easy target either as she strikes me as someone who wouldnt be an easy catch.

Any advice, tips, feedback to what I've said would be superb

1. If you plan to ever quit the job right before you leave give her a note with your phone number shortly saying you want to go on a date like movie or whatever you like
2. Risk making your job very awkward from now (if she says no) on just ask her if she wants to go on a date
3. Ask other co workers if she's single when she's not around

What is do, just write my phone number on paper like step 1 asking for a date at the end of a work day and if she calls or texts make the first date immediately as possible jump right into kissing but be slow with stuff past that just open up the intimacy close that uncomfortableness with kissing/hugging watch a movie. If she says no act like it never happened and avoid her at work as much as possible but politely