You're Too Short!

10inchadvantage said:
After about 6'5" girls start finding guys in the "unattractive" height catagory. Too tall is not a good thing for girls.
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Yeah, being a 6'7" guy I would say there is a range. Just like anything under 5'10" would be an unattractive height. Girls like to talk about how tall I am and compare themselves to me. Its an easy way to meet girls, but I think they get a little intimidated about dating someone so tall.
 
bro i'm with you on that. i've had girls do the same thing to me. they love me and shit until they find out how tall i am. "you're too short" wtf does height have to do with anything? why does it matter? seriously when is that going to ever matter? are they going get theri midol stuck on a high shelf and need a man who is 6ft 3in to grab it for them? what the fuck! what is their problem? someone said it's because they dont want their kids to be short. what the fuck. when they tell you you're too short, tell them their tits are too big or something
 
I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention ;)

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea ;)

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.
 
TheFlame19 said:
I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention ;)

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea ;)

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.
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You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.
 
longstretch said:
You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.
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Those are some great odds, man. Just be glad you're not in engineering!
 
Haha,

Thanks for agreeing with me man. When I walk through the nursing faculty at my university it is crazy how many girls look my way, it's just because the odds there are so good. This strongly agrees with my point that meeting many women helps you 'do better'.
 
Well I see the problem because when I was in high school/middle school I was the 2nd shortest guy in my class (yes luckily there was another guy shorter) but at the same time I guess it's because I didn't care or maybe cause we were so young it didn't matter about height, but I dated WAY more during this time of my life.


Now I'm about 6'2" and I do have a serious relationship but it's the first I've had in at least 6 years. I think height isn't as big of a deal girls can sense it's a sore spot for you and it kills your confidence. If you can shake it off with humor do so...if a girl says "oh your to short" just tell her she doesn't have to lay down for you to please her orally....and hell if she tries to slap you she'll probably swing to high so you're golden.


All jesting aside though just try to be happy with who you are and whatever girl sees that and wants to be a part of that happiness will be better than any "model" 5'10" girl in the world...
 
Yep, I'd say most women say ideal height of a guy is 5'11" to 6'2" which is a very thin spectrum considering all of the other height possibilities. I'm 5'9" so I fall out of that spectrum, but hey, fuck it. Don't ever let a woman get you down. Seriously. I know it's natural to have some concern, but life is good no matter what as long as you are you. I know I know this won't get you to be the stud of the earth, but believe me true happiness is within, everyone's got issues. Take one of my best friends, 6'1", built, good lookin dude. We've shared many chicks and he's got somewhat of a small wang, and he's even told me he's got issues about it cuz all the women expect him to be packin serious heat, and he's not. I'd venture to guess he's 5 or maybe 6 inches long and thin, prob below 5" in girth, and here I am, wishhing I was 3 inches taller but bigger in the pants. That's life. Just remember life is a gift, be grateful. Keep pushin.
 
Mr Pump said:
Ok this sucks. I'm 29 and most of my life I've been called HOT!!, Gorgeous, Really Cute, blah blah.

Well I'm 5'6 so I'm short. It's so hard to get a woman that's not grossly overweight, very depressive/insecure, attractive. Those small skinny girls with the nice little curves, even the just decent looking ones all want TALL GUYS.

So on the net chicks dig my pictures. I look buff, tan, sort of bad boy'ish and have a knack to strike up conversation. They really love me online until they ask how tall I am. Oh damn! All of the sudden all of that "you're so cute, you have a wonderful personality, you seem like a girls dream" all goes down the tubes. The better looking they are the more they want taller guys. And I'm not just talking "taller than me", I'm talking "taller than me in heels and then some".

So these petite minature women shouldn't mind a guy who's 4-6" taller right? Oh please, I'm not 6'? What a crime! They can't smell my armpits while standing next to me. If they could, well I'm wearing AXE deodorant so they might rape me. Unfortunately in their heels they are closer to my level. No AXE raping for me.

"but I just like tall guys" "tall guys make me feel petite" "tall guys make me feel safe" "tall guys are like teddy bears" "I like to look up at my man" "I don't know why I like tall guys but I do!" ... you know what that sounds like to me, a 16 yr old talking. Come on!

Now we're blasted with all these "research findings" all over major news stations .... 'tall guys make more money' 'tall guys are more likely to marry and have kids' 'tall guys dominate the dating sector' 'tall guys seen as more attractive' 'women don't look down their noses at short men'.

It really sucks, it's so hard to get a decent looking woman. I am on Myspace looking for local girls. It's funny that I've had 200+ page views and hardly any response. I'll email girls and tell them I'm new here and looking for friends and stuff and I rarily get anything back. One chick even told me to have better success I should remove my height out of the profile. Wtf!

I've completely dropped off penis enlargement simply because I'm just tired of being with girls that I'm not even attracted to. I get the leftovers, the ones guys call fat, crazy, or have all kinds of kids with different dads, or are lazy and broke, or can't get a date themselves. I seriously haven't dated anyone I was really attracted to in years. I just get desperate because I'm shot down by anyone I'm remotely attracted to. And no I don't go after only model looking women.

Any short dudes out there having the same issues? If you're tall, be happy about yourself because you have a unique quality that is attractive in itself.
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Even if you are not as tall as you would.love to be, compensate yourself by taking your penis to 8 x 7 in size. A bigger penis is the most important than the height.
 
It’s not because your short, I’m 5’5 and I’ve dated or fucked nothing but hot women, I got high standards and I’ve never fucked an overweight woman or even someone ugly, my resume of women is top notch women, strippers, models, my ex of 3 years modeled for Stuff magazine and I have pictures to prove what I say , it’s not because your short… your selling yourself short…. Women like attention , start giving hot women attention and watch 3 or 4 out of 10 give you a shot
 
Shotta609 said:
It’s not because your short, I’m 5’5 and I’ve dated or fucked nothing but hot women, I got high standards and I’ve never fucked an overweight woman or even someone ugly, my resume of women is top notch women, strippers, models, my ex of 3 years modeled for Stuff magazine and I have pictures to prove what I say , it’s not because your short… your selling yourself short…. Women like attention , start giving hot women attention and watch 3 or 4 out of 10 give you a shot
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Great motivation thank you so much
 
Shotta609 said:
It’s not because your short, I’m 5’5 and I’ve dated or fucked nothing but hot women, I got high standards and I’ve never fucked an overweight woman or even someone ugly, my resume of women is top notch women, strippers, models, my ex of 3 years modeled for Stuff magazine and I have pictures to prove what I say , it’s not because your short… your selling yourself short…. Women like attention , start giving hot women attention and watch 3 or 4 out of 10 give you a shot
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You know the game and how to play it.
 
huge-girth said:
You know the game and how to play it.
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If you know the female's emotional and psychological state, if you talk to them properly, I can say you can gain 9 out of 10 who will gladly give you the shot you need. Be on the lookout for the crazy ones.
 
Shotta609 said:
It’s not because your short, I’m 5’5 and I’ve dated or fucked nothing but hot women, I got high standards and I’ve never fucked an overweight woman or even someone ugly, my resume of women is top notch women, strippers, models, my ex of 3 years modeled for Stuff magazine and I have pictures to prove what I say , it’s not because your short… your selling yourself short…. Women like attention , start giving hot women attention and watch 3 or 4 out of 10 give you a shot
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Great motivation thank you so much
oldandlively said:
If you know the female's emotional and psychological state, if you talk to them properly, I can say you can gain 9 out of 10 who will gladly give you the shot you need. Be on the lookout for the crazy ones.
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Excellent post! And it's completely true, we all need to have more confidence in ourselves
 
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