You know what sucks sometimes. And i know there are alot of guys out there with this problem. We're giving it our all to get a nice big dick and learning about sex and such and some wives just don't have any interest. I had that problem for awhile, it sucked. I was wishing for the day i lost my labido. Until i realized that's never gonna happen. So i told my wife we are doing it al least 3 to 4 times a month or I'm out the door. I'm 25 with no kids we should be enjoying each other! Now, I love her with all my heart but i just couldn't live life so frustrated all the time. Don't mind me I'm just ranting.
Wives that don't care about having sex
She is 26. I don't know what her problem is but it surely pisses me off. Especially when i REALLY go out of my way to make her have that extra special week or even month. It's like she doesn't even see I'm trying to be nice. We do have sex, but it's only when i intiate and we only do two positions and if i ask for her to go on top it's a huge attitude. I've atually said fuct i don't even want to do it and went in the bathroom and finished myself. I don't get it and i know i'm not the only one out there with this problem. I 've talked to more than one other guy with the same issue. I've been hearing this ad on the radio that always makes me laugh. It's for a tv special about "How to trick your husband into being more romantic". I always laugh to myself and think , me and that woman who has that problem should switch spouses. 
beardick;276656 said:She is 26. I don't know what her problem is but it surely pisses me off. Especially when i REALLY go out of my way to make her have that extra special week or even month. It's like she doesn't even see I'm trying to be nice. We do have sex, but it's only when i intiate and we only do two positions and if i ask for her to go on top it's a huge attitude. I've atually said fuct i don't even want to do it and went in the bathroom and finished myself. I don't get it and i know i'm not the only one out there with this problem. I 've talked to more than one other guy with the same issue. I've been hearing this ad on the radio that always makes me laugh. It's for a tv special about "How to trick your husband into being more romantic". I always laugh to myself and think , me and that woman who has that problem should switch spouses.
It's a long shot, but maybe you could try to lick her pussy, more foreplay. Try doing something athletic together maybe.
Uh, i already do that. I love foreplay it's just as fun as sex. And, she has said I'm good at it. Actually everytime we do have sex she has a orgasm, we just don't have sex often. And, we work out together everyday. We run, weight train, practice krav maga, and do yoga. We are together doing stuff from the time we get home from work. We are VERY active people. I think she just doesn't really care about sex. Which in turn is why she never intiates or shows alot of sexual affection.
Uh, i already do that. I love foreplay it's just as fun as sex. And, she has said I'm good at it. Actually everytime we do have sex she has a orgasm, we just don't have sex often. And, we work out together everyday. We run, weight train, practice krav maga, and do yoga. We are together doing stuff from the time we get home from work. We are VERY active people. I think she just doesn't really care about sex. Which in turn is why she never intiates or shows alot of sexual affection.
Just stay with her man. be slow,..we went throught that a few years ago. for us it was just reality setting in that we were just us and nothing more. it gets better. life isnt a fairtale as some women think. just stick in there and treat her good no matter what. as hard as it gets sometimes...just go easy with her and DO NOT force the issue...trust me haha! time will take care of it. stay strong for her. a good massage a few times a week will have her wanting you like you wouldnt belive!
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Ask her to talk to her doctor. If the problem is truly not you, but sex drive in general, something must be a little wrong. If she insists it's not you and she refuses to try and remedy it in any way then I would question her commitment to your marriage and start thinking about potential exit plans if she won't come around in time.
We are alot better now, than we were a few months ago. Like i said in my first post "I had that problem for awhile, it sucked". I was just trying to have a short conversation on the topic. And so far it's gone good, everyone is trying to help. I think 3lee is on the right track that's what i've been doing. The good thing is, she wants to spend time with me and it's usually her idea to do stuff together. Which is great. Maybe she does have a libido issue. I think she does but every time i bring that up it starts a fight with her saying all i want is sex. Which isn't true. I love her and I really work hard on our psychological and spiritual relationship. But, i am human and I need to be sexually satisfied. I would just like to have a healthy sex life. It would be nice to have that feeling a woman wants you "sexually" . Like i said we do have sex it's just really boring because she doesn't put anything into it. We have the same talk all the time on how all she has to do is be a slight bit more into it and maybe let me know she wants me. She ALWAYS drops the ball. It's like having a best friend who's a girl that you have sex with every now and then.
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Why'd you marry her?
Well last night we had sex, not the greatest but it got the job done. Her favorite position too, on her back and only on her back. Kinda boring. By the way if you use Mozilla's Firefox it has a built in spell check. It a very nice browser and is also free to download at mozilla.com. I recommend trying it.
Robo-Monkey;277048 said:
Hey i was in a hurry when I posted, It seams like every time any site changes something gets screwed up. guess I'll have to take a day or two and download a program that should be part of this site.:s>
ps don't send the waaaambluance, it's already here.
pps page not found I hate that msg.
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There isn't much out there for a womans low sex drive, as far as drugs etc go......but now there is something on the horizon that will boost both a man and womans sex drive.It's known as PT-141.It can be acquired from the Chinese.This new drug is the first actual drug that can make a woman's libido go sky high.There are loads of women out there that suffer from this.
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Girthius;277218 said:
I've heard that some have some degree of success with some things out there. It's worth a shot. Perhaps even therapy or counseling could restore some drive.
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beardick;276638 said:
What's happening here is your wife has less than 50% interest level in you. She may never have had interest in you or her interest level dropped because you did or did not do something which lowered her interest level.
A wife that has high interest level want's to have sex with her husband.
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Robo-Monkey;277305 said:
Don't give SWM any more ideas for videos!
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