Question on staying power???

OK, my question is on staying power. Yes I would like to be bigger in length and girth, but for right now do not have the privacy to do this on a regular basis, but my bigger concern is making it last.
A little background: I do not get to have sex on a regular basis, it is infrequent to be truthful, so when I do I would like it to last longer than 5 minutes. So my question is, what can I do to make it last longer, seems like when I am having sex, it builds up quick and I can't hold it. Is there a pill that you can take or exercies? I have heard of kegals, but if you do these on a daily basis, does in increase your staying power quickly or does it take some time to build up.

Thank you

artymis said:

OK, my question is on staying power. Yes I would like to be bigger in length and girth, but for right now do not have the privacy to do this on a regular basis, but my bigger concern is making it last.
A little background: I do not get to have sex on a regular basis, it is infrequent to be truthful, so when I do I would like it to last longer than 5 minutes. So my question is, what can I do to make it last longer, seems like when I am having sex, it builds up quick and I can't hold it. Is there a pill that you can take or exercies? I have heard of kegals, but if you do these on a daily basis, does in increase your staying power quickly or does it take some time to build up.

Thank you

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Staying power is something best practiced with a partner that is available on a daily basis (or close) When we think about staying power on the level that a one night stand comes into our lives, it is difficult to give direction for this. If you have not had sex for a long time and the object of your lust pop's up all ready for action it is going to be hard to contain yourself.


Masturbation before a first date may help a bit, as would taking a medication like VIAGRA. But practicing staying power is usually more of an issue for a established relationship.

Kegels, Reverse Kegels, etc. will help with this as will general Penis Enlargement for desensitization but a one night stand throws some psychological wrenches in the whole "Staying Power" program.

Practicing Penis Enlargement will help with not being so sensitive, you may also practice some of the Pre-Mature Ejaculation routines found on the paysite but all and all it is experience and, in a large way, monogamy that determine our ability to last. Don't punish yourself and if the girl is worth it you may have opportunity to work on these issues with her. One night? Who gives a fuck!

think of baseball...

ithiel said:

think of baseball...

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...only think of all the teams consisting of hot naked ladies. mmmh take me out to the ballgame.

DLD, you mention about practicing with a partner. I've been with my girl for over a year now, but still not satisfied with my performance. We are very comfortable with eachother so im sure she will be open to anything. What are some things we can do to help my pre ejac?
P.S i plan on becoming a member soon, and donating some $ to the site. this site is one of the few reasons i even go on the net. great stuff

Castor said:

DLD, you mention about practicing with a partner. I've been with my girl for over a year now, but still not satisfied with my performance. We are very comfortable with eachother so im sure she will be open to anything. What are some things we can do to help my pre ejac?
P.S i plan on becoming a member soon, and donating some $ to the site. this site is one of the few reasons i even go on the net. great stuff

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It is you mind that prevents you from staying power...hell it is my mind. When we need the release, we feel the love, feel the sex, become so excited it is so hard to stop ourselves from delivering what we subconsciously believe to be the most ultimate satisfaction sexually. Thinking about baseball may work but it is only depriving you of the complete sexual completion you need. It is more a transverse projection of our own satisfaction that will help us remain erect for the duration, the duration that includes our partner.

Think of masturbation, we can last as long as we choose, we have that power but once another person is involved we create a self protected boundary that only allows for our own satisfaction. Think about her, as you are thrusting into her think about the love you feel, the amount of pleasure you want to give, the very essence of what sex is a 50/50 exchange of pleasure.

Love is such a discounted emotion in the sexual process...we separate sex from love with such ease but when they are combined it is difficult to deny our partner of the atonement they desire and deserve.