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Hi guys
today I went to see an escort
I haven't had an erection and I don't understand what the problem is
afterward, she didn't want us to kiss or touch
She started sucking but I didn't get an erection?
I'm depressed
 
We just discussed about a similar issue at this post for Possible symptom(s)/advisement

It can be psychologically, but at the same time, it may be 90% physiologically. Being 90% physiologically, that is a lot of ground to cover. This means it starts with blood level measurement for testosterone. If you can get an erection through stimulation, that's a great start. Now, the question is, does it last? The secondary is does it comes and goes, or is this shyness? Shyness is an indicator of psychological. Most guys who have a hot escort will have their little guys doing salutes. Shyness may cause an erection issue, but it literally goes away the moment the blood goes into sexual boiling mode.
 
oldandlively said:
We just discussed about a similar issue at this post for Possible symptom(s)/advisement

It can be psychologically, but at the same time, it may be 90% physiologically. Being 90% physiologically, that is a lot of ground to cover. This means it starts with blood level measurement for testosterone. If you can get an erection through stimulation, that's a great start. Now, the question is, does it last? The secondary is does it comes and goes, or is this shyness? Shyness is an indicator of psychological. Most guys who have a hot escort will have their little guys doing salutes. Shyness may cause an erection issue, but it literally goes away the moment the blood goes into sexual boiling mode.
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I also think it's psychological
This is the first time my penis hasn't risen
I wasn't excited and I was a little angry with the escort
At the time I wasn't excited at all.
0 excitement
 
Good to know you've deduced the issue. If there was an emotion involvement with the escort prior to the sexual act, that would truly kill the mood. Commonly, when I got into arguments with my wife and she wanted make-up sex, the only way to get into the mood was reset my brain. Cold shower or just shower together, eat a bit of sweets to get the endorphin going, cuddle while stimulating the erogenous zones, then go for broke. Going from anger to excitement will take the minds of those who can fully isolate their emotions. Young virile bucks can do that with ease as their hormones are going wild to fertilize every walking female. Not so much for older men as we are more selective.
 
oldandlively said:
Good to know you've deduced the issue. If there was an emotion involvement with the escort prior to the sexual act, that would truly kill the mood. Commonly, when I got into arguments with my wife and she wanted make-up sex, the only way to get into the mood was reset my brain. Cold shower or just shower together, eat a bit of sweets to get the endorphin going, cuddle while stimulating the erogenous zones, then go for broke. Going from anger to excitement will take the minds of those who can fully isolate their emotions. Young virile bucks can do that with ease as their hormones are going wild to fertilize every walking female. Not so much for older men as we are more selective.
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I am 25 years old
and i'm in good health, but I was very disappointed with the escort because she wants me to have an erection only by sucking me while I have 0 arousal
 
Hamadouche said:
Hi guys
today I went to see an escort
I haven't had an erection and I don't understand what the problem is
afterward, she didn't want us to kiss or touch
She started sucking but I didn't get an erection?
I'm depressed
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This was probably because it was an escort, no feelings involved in the sex act?
 
Hamadouche said:
I am 25 years old and i'm in good health, but I was very disappointed with the escort because she wants me to have an erection only by sucking me while I have 0 arousal
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Yep. This is no frill sex act. If you can get an erection via stimulation without any issue, it's definitely emotional and psychological fronts. If you can't simply get an erection through pure stimulation, there's a secondary component to your sexual arousal requirements: stimuli of emotion and psychological beside physical stimuli.

Next time, perform a reset. A nice warm shower to freshen up without the sexual acts, with both of you caressing each other, can get the mood rolling regardless of the prior events. Otherwise, a bit of dilating mechanism, such as alcohols or foods, will get things heading the right way.
 
Hamadouche said:
yes she refuses foreplay, she told me that it's only for her husband
and I was disappointed so I had no desire for her
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That is the reason for no erection.
Personally I can not get erected if there is no feelings to the woman.
I can not just have sex, just for sake of having sex.


There need to be feelings involved.
 
squirt_inducer_man said:
That is the reason for no erection.
Personally I can not get erected if there is no feelings to the woman.
I can not just have sex, just for sake of having sex.


There need to be feelings involved.
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you reassure me my brother
I was so disgusted, and this fear of sex left me without an erection
 
oldandlively said:
Yep. This is no frill sex act. If you can get an erection via stimulation without any issue, it's definitely emotional and psychological fronts. If you can't simply get an erection through pure stimulation, there's a secondary component to your sexual arousal requirements: stimuli of emotion and psychological beside physical stimuli.

Next time, perform a reset. A nice warm shower to freshen up without the sexual acts, with both of you caressing each other, can get the mood rolling regardless of the prior events. Otherwise, a bit of dilating mechanism, such as alcohols or foods, will get things heading the right way.
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me if I'm not excited I can't get an erection
 
Hamadouche said:
you reassure me my brother
I was so disgusted, and this fear of sex left me without an erection
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Wait with sex for that special one.
It's better to get a woman you really love, and care about before you have sex.
Quality before quantity. Don't let lack of sex, drive you as a man.
 
thank you for the advice it must be a lack of desire and excitement
and also a little stress
 
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Hamadouche said:
thank you for the advice it must be a lack of desire and excitement
and also a little stress
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Believe me, I go through stress every single day and sometimes it becomes impossible to do any p. E or get an erection that I need. I found that through relaxation and meditation, I'm able to become what I wanted to do.
 
DLD said:
Believe me, I go through stress every single day and sometimes it becomes impossible to do any p. E or get an erection that I need. I found that through relaxation and meditation, I'm able to become what I wanted to do.
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What really stresses me out is showing my penis in its flaccid state.
it is too small and shrink
as if I have no gains in flaccid state
 
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The reason you didn’t get an erection is most likely because it was escort. There’s no emotion involved or true intimacy.

Get yourself a girlfriend leave the hookers to the junkies.
 
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