Is this true?(Man's POV needed)

Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight!

1. The best position for his enjoyment

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them full control.

This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your man’s “hidden” zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently!

Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Give him a hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes – like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys.

Developing a good rhytHydromax that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

5. Please your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event.

Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches.

This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

Okay guys here it is there are threads and posts about how you can please your lady what I want to know is will these tips please my man and can you add any of your own? We women want to know what you guys want just as much as you want to know what we want.

This can easily pertain to guys too!

If I had any single contribution to make it would be about rhytHydromax. Learning to take notice of your partners responses to the "things" you do and adjusting your actions to match.
Like you mentioned; don't just start off with a dive for the forbidden zone-one; thing I tell my Ol' Lady is that an orgasm that is teased out from deep within is ultimately much more satisfying (and attainable) than a hurried cumshot "forced in on" a guy, (or gal).

Matching not only motion, but pressure, friction, licking or biting, stroking or smacking; knowing when to slow down and when to speed up, are all important elements of rhytHydromax.
There's no single "method" to follow or develop other than a receptive and perceptive attitude in bed...or the couch, kitchen table, back seat...and on and on and on.
And a sincere desire to provide your guy (or gal) the best, most attentive lovin' of their lives, agin and agin.

It takes some practice and an unhurried approach but when you get the "fit & rhytHydromax" just right, man oh man are the results damn well worth it.
I say; any time you got the time, take the time.

I wouldn't take the first one for granted.
Yes, doggy-style can be amazing (and I must admit it is one of the positions that can make me come faster), but it may not be one of the most comfortable ones. It all depends on the height difference in the couple. If you are considerably shorter or taller than your partner, it may pose a problem.
On the other hand, if your ass is too meaty (nothing wrong with that =P) and the guy isn't too gifted, it may get in the way when he tries to reach your breasts of your clit, since he will have to bend over, thus losing in the penetration angle.

Personally, one of the hottest positions for me is when I'm sitting and she's riding me, face to face, so I can get her breasts all over my face, I can kiss her, I can grab her ass, I can reach her boobs... I'm a sucker for this one =P

So, all in all, when it comes to the sexual position, don't take doggy as a guarantee that it'll blow your partner's mind (or load, for that matter).

Maybe it would surprise him more if you would just take the reins and show him that you can fuck him sili without his help, e. g., just tell him to lay down and not move a muscle, while you do all the motion. If you keep at it for a moment, you'll tease him so much more. Personally, I find it amazing when she takes command and gives me pleasure without me having to do anything. It's amazing.

As for the rest, except for the incense part (I'm not sure guys love sweet scents as much as women do), I guess the article gives good advice.

Oh, just one more thing. A handjob is probably one of the most difficult things for a woman to master. Remember that guys have years of experience and each one likes to be touched differently. So if you're going for a manual treat, be sure to practice often. I'm sure he won't mind =D

Just my 2 cents here. I hope they come in handy.

Cheers

I'd say that you have very much got it right FI. Those are very good tips.
I think men embarrass very easily and that a woman with a very obvious plan to get laid can be a bit intimidating, and that even goes for one's regular partner. (Or is that only me? ;o) If my wife seems to be planning for a night of sex I can be a bit inclined to shy away. She puts it down to my liking to be in control. I think there is some truth in that, but being absolutely honest, I think that despite knowing on a conscious level that I have nothing to worry about, I still have some sub-conscious nervousness about my old foe; performance anxiety. You see, in my youth, I was sure my cock was on the small side and that girls would be a bit underwhelmed by it. My nervousness about this, plus my hyper sex drive, made me a premature ejaculator. It took me years to get over the premature ejaculation thing, but I think there is still an echo of worry about it (and cock inadequacy) still lurking in the back of my mind.
My advice to any girl who wants to turn her man on is to first of all make the most of your assets and tease him a little. Particularly if you can find out what his fancies and fetishes are. Is he a tit man, or does he like your butt? (for instance, I particularly like pretty feet, and a girl who knows this can really get me excited by waving her nicely pedicured tootsies my way.) So don't forget to dress or undress to tease him. For married couples: Remember that he chose you, and although you might have aged, in his mind's eye he still sees you as the sexy girl you were when you met, so all you really have to role play is your sexy self.

Thanks for the imput guys. I'll keep all that in mind. I didn't write the 5 tips it was an article I read and being I have a inside track to what men think I thought I'd run it by you all. I find that a little strip tease and a good ���� go along way. I do agree that it is best not to rush to the end to let the anticipation build and knowing your partner goes along way to complete satisfaction for both parties. Any other suggestions are greatly appreciated.

Tie one of his hands, leaving him only one hand free. The "frustration" of not being able to control you or to totally caress your body is one hell of a tease. Not to mention you're in control of most of the situation. You can guide his free hand to wherever you please. Plus, if you make him orgasm all on your own, without him being able to control the pace, how deep he goes, etc., I'm sure you'll make him very happy =P

1. I do like doggy style, but I wouldn't call it "the best position." During sex I prefer to switch positions a couple times so I get to enjoy her body in many different ways.

2. This I'd agree with. Women seem scared to touch a man's body with their hands, but I enjoy it a lot when a girl runs her hands all over me (shows she likes my body!).

3. Never had this done for me really.

4. True

5. I suppose this may be true for most guys, I don't care too much for fellacio. It may be because I'm uncut, but a blow job is often hyperstimulating for me. This leads to a loss of erection and then the girl gives off this confused and hurt "wtf don't I turn you on?" vibe. Which leads me to my next point.

The author missed the biggest ones for me:

6. Every man is different. If he doesn't respond in the same way the last guy did, or in the way outlined by some magazine article, don't freak out. Just try something else or just ask what he wants.

7. Share control. Some guys are masters of their orgasm, most aren't. If you grind away on his dick with no concern for his feedback, he'll likely blow his load. Blowing a load early/unintentionally is never fun. Which leads me to the next point which is...

8. Not all male orgasms are created equal. They all feel good physically, but an orgasm that is cultivated over the course of a half hour and slllooooowwly pushed over the edge is about 1000% better than being brought to an accidental orgasm in 5 minutes. So don't think 'well at least he got his orgasm.' That said...

9. A man's orgasm is his responsibility (as is a woman's in my experience). You can only "give him" such a good orgasm. A man who knows how to pace himself, is in touch with his pubic muscles and knows how to kegal himself to the best orgasm ever is what's most important in the realm of male orgasm.

By the way are any other women going to read these comments? I can definitely relate to all the comments posted here so far. I think it would be really good for women to see candid responses from many guys on this subject (feeds into #6). Posting these replies on a women's forum or blog would be cool.

For me personally, only point 5 applies.
Homelesswombat's points above are also worth noting.

I consider that a woman putting a man's orgasm as first priority is a gesture of affection, consideration, pity, respect, or whatever. The woman's orgasms have to be priority one most of the time though and then a man's orgasm will be the most intense and meaningful it can be.

I appreciated the gesture of being taken out to a beach on the Merced River in The Valley by the grocery store manager and having her spread her hair over my cock so the tourists couldn't see and then sucking me off one time. I had bought a half gallon of ice cream and she had raised her eyebrows and taken me into the women's dorm where I proved to be the last fucker lying down so she was appreciative. I also liked the free pastry and coffee at the Ahwanee. Do the woman's thing first, then squirt.

Doggy might hit her cervix with these big dick guys. Be careful.

Never pull your knees up with these guys, either.

Keep you knees together, or if you sit on him, make him get his knees together first, or you're gonna get punctured.

We hear stuff like,"I don't like to feel something all the way up in my stomach", and,"Why do you want to move?". Personally I only had one female pull her knees up, and then she said,"Never again". Sometimes I wish I was soft like Ron Jeremy. Just do what makes her feel good, then squirt.

Oh, so true...

pnoewbe;359660 said:

I consider that a woman putting a man's orgasm as first priority is a gesture of affection, consideration, pity, respect, or whatever. The woman's orgasms have to be priority one most of the time though and then a man's orgasm will be the most intense and meaningful it can be.

I appreciated the gesture of being taken out to a beach on the Merced River in The Valley by the grocery store manager and having her spread her hair over my cock so the tourists couldn't see and then sucking me off one time. I had bought a half gallon of ice cream and she had raised her eyebrows and taken me into the women's dorm where I proved to be the last fucker lying down so she was appreciative. I also liked the free pastry and coffee at the Ahwanee. Do the woman's thing first, then squirt.

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I think that if each person is focused on pleasing the other person then both persons will be equally satisfied.

Not a penis in the whole White Tiger massage dvd...nor could we suppose the woman is dominating or inconsiderate or that a man is losing anything. The whole audience is men, it appears.

I don't think of it as politics, but as politics, it's more like it would be bad to leave out or not develop something that seems like the current thing to do now.

It might get to seeming like politics if the woman passed her hangup along. "Do you have to move?", or,"I don't like to have my breasts touched". I know how the White Tiger masseur, Don Delamoire, would view that--as tension talking and setting agenda. Then there is a politics of respecting those politics but there may then also be a politics of no second date.

pnoewbe;360677 said:

Not a penis in the whole White Tiger massage dvd...nor could we suppose the woman is dominating or inconsiderate or that a man is losing anything. The whole audience is men, it appears.

I don't think of it as politics, but as politics, it's more like it would be bad to leave out or not develop something that seems like the current thing to do now.

It might get to seeming like politics if the woman passed her hangup along. "Do you have to move?", or,"I don't like to have my breasts touched". I know how the White Tiger masseur, Don Delamoire, would view that--as tension talking and setting agenda. Then there is a politics of respecting those politics but there may then also be a politics of no second date.

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LOL Seriously I consider my self a fairly intelligent human being but I gotta tell you all that politics of politics and politics, well it's got my poor head spinning. Please translate

HA! I just got done readin' a few of this guys posts from tonight and I think he took the brown acid.

Max that's not very nice

FemaleInfluence;360694 said:

Max that's not very nice

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And yet, not entirely untrue.

HaHa

From my perspective the most important thing that a woman can do is be enthusiastic and participative. Don't just be willing and obliging. Be a partner, be creative... read up (not in Cosmo) about how to do different things like generate multiple orgasms for your guy or things out of the ordinary. Look for and buy a sex toy and introduce it some night when the situation is conducive. You don't need to be ������������ but leaning that way can be fun. Just step out side the "comfort zone" a bit. Some guys like large labia. Investigate a labia pump. Pump your self up a bit before. The effect is temporary, unless you are dedicated to change. I imagine he would notice even a little change. Shave your pubes if you don't. Dye your pubes red or blond or brunette or green.

Just be involved in being creative.

wscottc60;369259 said:

From my perspective the most important thing that a woman can do is be enthusiastic and participative. Don't just be willing and obliging. Be a partner, be creative... read up (not in Cosmo) about how to do different things like generate multiple orgasms for your guy or things out of the ordinary. Look for and buy a sex toy and introduce it some night when the situation is conducive. You don't need to be ������������ but leaning that way can be fun. Just step out side the "comfort zone" a bit. Some guys like large labia. Investigate a labia pump. Pump your self up a bit before. The effect is temporary, unless you are dedicated to change. I imagine he would notice even a little change. Shave your pubes if you don't. Dye your pubes red or blond or brunette or green.

Just be involved in being creative.

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Green pussy hair my scare the shit out of me...MOLDY CROTCH