i need advise

Sex is an important part of any long-term relationship or marriage, I'm sure. Yes, no normal marriage will survive happily with a poor sex life, plain and simple. If this girl is someone you truly love, you might end up spending the rest of your life with her, perhaps. To be concerned about going the rest of your life without a blowjob would be a legitimate concern. So, if you love this girl, you've got to resolve this issue with her.

I don't know if I could do it. Oh, I would try to understand, suggest, etc., but I think no blowjobs would eventually kill any relationship for me. And that's not being pigheaded. For crying out loud, you ought to be able to set aside the minor things that may make you seem a little queasy at first...for someone you love. I mean, I wouldn't go down on the skank that hangs at the bus station, but I would have no trouble pleasuring a woman I cared about, regardless of taste, smell or whatever. To me, it just seems like she is being hypersensitive. To worry about whatever trace might be left from a drop or two of urine seems ridiculous to me. I guess I'm very sexually open and like the "whole package" with a woman and I couldn't be in a relationship where she did not make a real effort to accomadate that.

I'm not advising you to dump her, but you've got to consider how important to you this is, in the longterm. Try to talk it through and see if you can open her mind.

It's hard to believe but there are still women out there who don't do the oral thing. They don't do it for a wide variety of reasons that they come up with in their feeble little minds. They are also the ones who can't understand why they can't keep a man even though they are a good person. They probably also don't wear any clothes that it doesn't take a safe cracker to get into. Women let me give you a piece of advise that you can bank on. If you will take care of yourself, watch your weight just a little bit, dress nice for your man, give him the goods almost anytime he wants it and every once in a while try to suck the hide off it you won't have to worry where he is. Any ladies who want the majic formula to a long relationship with your man. I just gave it to you. It isn't brain surgery, men just want to be happy and these are the simple things that will do this. Men, is there anything better than seeing your member in your womans mouth. If there is I haven't seen it. I will be the first to admit that I wouldn't stay with a woman who didn't do oral. If that makes me a pig then I'm just a pig BUT I'm an honest pig. Kong has hit it pretty much dead on. Honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, integrety, respect, these are the things that will keep two people together when other relationships have long ago fallen. These are the most simple things in the world but they are also the hardest to find in our society. If anyone has ever really found these things in a relationship I can't see any reason why they would want to leave it.

55chevy said:

I will be the first to admit that I wouldn't stay with a woman who didn't do oral. If that makes me a pig then I'm just a pig BUT I'm an honest pig.

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I think our guy here should try and work things out with his girl. It sounds as if she has really made an impression on him with her other qualities and that is nothing to take lightly. However, when push comes to shove, I'm with you. If the situation could not be worked out then I too would leave a relationship (probably even a marriage...though that should be worked out ahead of time) if a woman just flat-out refused to perform oral. Now, I could understand if I was SO BIG I caused extreme discomfort, though I will have to Penis Enlargement for decades to get to that point. I could also understand if she later developed some jaw pain or mouth disorder that made the act very uncomfortable to perform. I'm not heartless--but I can tell you I would be very hurt if a woman did not see me as important enough to pleasure me with the act.

Look, I feel I'm entitled to a decent sex life if I invest myself in a relationship. I mean, we're not talking about golden showers, fisting, gag balls, scat fetishes. It's fucking oral for crying out loud. How much more mainstream can you get without going strict missionary-only? Again, we're entitled to a good sex life. If some chick thinks that makes you a pig because she's been brainwashed by some radical professor or activist telling her you're raping her "inner spirit" or some bullshit, then she's the one with the head problems not you.

IHaveAVagina, as women are welcome as much as anyone on this forum, you must also understand that it was not designed for you. This is a sexual forum primarily concerned with the sexual organs of men.

One has to have a brutal with themselves and everyone here to even become a member due to the nature of the material, and Kong in my opinion is the posterboy of what we need more of here.

In conclusion, Vagina you are absolutly entitled to your opinion, and your feminine input is welcomed, however simply saying that Kong is "a pig" for stating his does not sit well in a place like this where mutual support is very much desired, especially when an insult is directed at a well-liked vet like kong.

Again, no man is a "pig" for expecting oral stimulation from a woman he loves and is intimately involved with. That's just Judy Chicago bullshit. In fact, a woman that would flat-out refuse that for no understandable reason takes "selfish prude" to a new level.

Damn Skippy

I've been in this exact situation before; only difference was that we were sexually active. Anyways, I always felt it hard to just say "Suck my dick", so I figured if I go down on her...she'll go down on me. I love eating pussy..if it's clean and will do it pretty much whenever she wants it. Well, after about a year of being with her I suggested that we maybe do 69 or something because I had (and more importantly...We had) never done that and I was wanting to try it out. She immediately said "I don't suck dick" with a kinda mean tone. I quickly got the impression that she had A) never done it before and was scared or B) she had done it before and had bad experiences from it. I was like "damn, you'll let me stick my tounge up inside you and not ask for anything in return..not even sex (cause I like to eat pussy), but you won't even try it; you know I'm clean and I shave the whole package..so what's up" I made an analogy to my fingers (which she will suck on).. I was like think about it...I shower everyday and wear clean clothes and you won't give me head but you'll suck my fingers like a cock...and hands naturally have more germs etc on them from how much stuff we touch over a days time...even though I do frequently wash my hands in restroom and at meals but still..they get tons more exposure than my dick does. She was like "Uh, Uh, Uh". I never pressured her cause she was still letting me tap that ass and she was fine as hell but I never ate her out again..even when she asked me to.; I got kind of an attitude and said "No! I don't eat pussy" we broke up a few months later then I fucked her twin sister who did suck my dick ROFL. This all happened in High School pre-Penis Enlargement; I'd like for her to see me now :cool:

The Artist said:

I never pressured her cause she was still letting me tap that ass and she was fine as hell but I never ate her out again..even when she asked me to.; I got kind of an attitude and said "No! I don't eat pussy" we broke up a few months later then I fucked her twin sister who did suck my dick ROFL. This all happened in High School pre-Penis Enlargement; I'd like for her to see me now :cool:

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:clap: Fucking right, brother! Fucking right! Ain't nothing worse than an oral freeloader. Stop giving it to her if she won't do her part. Of course, like you, I love eating pussy and it would be torture for me to hold out like that. Good job on piping the sister.