foreskin

hey folkes

I am just 4 weeks away from my circumcision. I am 20 and the reason why I decided to do it is because my foreskin is a little bit narrow, so it hurt when pulling it back and just works right behind the top of the penis, not all the way down...moreover my frenulum is kind of short, although I had it allready cut, it still pulls the top of my penis down when I pull the skin back...so I want to remove it definatly

and then, accidently I found the 4skin restoration forum and was floored

usually people say if youre cut: hygiene is betther, it looks betther, the ladies like it and some even report from a greater endurance during sex - a lot of people reportet me all the benefits and how happy they are and I thought hey baby, why to wait....

but here?! people claim the opposite! you wont feel as much without frenulum and foreskin as before when having sex (this would be fatal!!), moreover it is uncomfortable when wearing clothes (I thought you would get used to it) and here, people also report about psychical problems without foreskin, about feeling as a half man and stuff

I really do not know what to believe now? is sex worse without foreskin? do you feel less? should I try to just stretch it? I thought a circisium has just advantages??

hehe you don't wana know what you just started with that question ;P

No on the real side, there are people for and against it. we got people here that take the one side very hard and some that take the other hard. The only thing i can realy say to this is that getting cut at an older age is acompenied with a lot more risks then when you're jung. If i were you i would realy give it a good thought and look if you realy need it. I mean i know that you're problem can be solved without surgery speaking from personal experiance. I mean an operation is an operation and is always acompanied with posible problems. I realy wouldn't go by things others say in this isue, rather go after you're own feeling and what you think is right for you.
But if you wan't info on that look for a thread From Supra about Forskin restoration smell. That thread has about 7 pages of pros and cons on you're isue

I already spoke to him in a PM so I'll be good today!

what would you recommend me? I mean okay, the foreskin itself is just a lil to tight and with a lot of work (and pain) stretching will be possible

but the frenulum is also to short (allready cut, but still to short) so what are the possibilities here? I mean, the only thing I can do (since stretching is not possible as I have been told) is to have it removed....

but here men also claim that the frenulum is like the female klitoris therefore something like a feeling-centre

but what shall I do? I cant let it like it is...1. the cut frenulum looks ugly 2. it still hurts when having sex and it gets stretched....?!!

kong1971 said:

I already spoke to him in a PM so I'll be good today!

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Aww.. I enjoy your speaches about FR. :D

Nemesis, I also am going through a lot of work to stretch, because I was circumcised. It can get you down knowing it was taken from you.. but I look at the bright side knowing I can at least get some of it back. And yes, the frenulum is where... pretty much all of any sexual feeling I get is from, everything else just feels like regular skin from anywhere else on the body.

In the end you have to make the decision yourself, but I'd recommend stretching.

just get it cut if sex is hurting you

Regardless of what body part it is, I would try anything humanly possible to fix it before resorting to surgically removing it, be it an eye, a nose or an earlobe. It just blows me away how casually that part of the male body is just lopped off and tossed in the can. Would you have your nose removed to fix a boil, or your toe removed to cure an ingrown toenail? Then why have your dick chopped off to fix a short fren? Its insane, and we are so brainwashed that it somehow makes sense to some people.

After our second son was born, my wife began to have female problems. There is a term for it, but I forget. It basically boiled down to her bleeding all the time and having horrible cramps...like two to three weeks out of the month. It got so bad, finally, that she begged to have a hysterectomy. She would cry, have all kinds of mood swings, horrible pain. Why won't they do it? she'd ask me. The doctors refused to do it for years and instead treated her with a hundred different pills. They finally did the hyst after she came up with precancer cells, and we were terrified that she would be full of cancer when they did the operation cause they waited so long.

My point?

My wife went through 3 years of hell before they'd cut on her BECAUSE SHE'S FEMALE!!!

A guy tells his doc it burns when he pees and they cut off his dick right then and there!

You tell me there ain't something fucked up with that!

That skin you got down there is a treasure to alot of us restorers. I hate to see you throw it away without exhausting every option to fix your problem non-surgically.

It sounds like you have what's called frenulum breve. I found this at some site called male-initiation.

FRENULOPLASTY

Though a full circumcision will often leave the frenulum breve little or nothing to pull on it is an inaccurate treatment for this condition. Western medicine offers the "frenuloplasty". Similar to an incision, from a surgical point of view, this is an insignificant operation. It takes around twenty minutes surgery and about an hour with the preparation. It is performed as an outpatient.

For some reason practicing surgeons and urologists usually describe the operation as an elongation of the frenulum, this is very misleading, it leaves the impression that you will receive a longer frenulum. Somehow, by elongating they mean spreading it out, and I presume when you spread a frenulum which is too short it disappears - The frenuloplasty does NOT elongate the frenulum, it sews the frenulum into the shaft skin.

The frenuloplasty is performed by cutting a small series of either z or y shaped cuts, which when stitched together will form a single line, or a row of 5 or 6 small horizontal lines, (both are barely visible). It takes about 2 weeks for the stitching to heal and 4 weeks before the area becomes fully functional again. This is called a z-plasty or y-plasty. (Any Urologist reading this is more than welcome to provide a better description - for example: Does the z plasty lead to horizontal scars and the y plasty to vertical?).

The operation which leaves one scar as a single line would be visually superior to the 5 or 6 horizontal lines, though possibly one vertical scar might present problems with stretching in old age.

For those who wish the simplest available option, please find a urologist who is practiced in performing the frenuloplasty.

I feel that i should post on this as this was the reason i was directed to this site.I had the same problem as you, but my doctor gave me 2 options exercises as are shown/described here or surgery. I said ill take the exercises which he was glad to hear as he wanted to record my progress as what is stated above for adults is true. I don't know if i was obsesed with trying to fix it for my job or what but i had this problem disolved within 2 weeks(might have went overboard on the exercising tho) and my problem is solved.

What my doctor didn't tell me as that this site was also used to enlarge the member, (why im still here) now i have only been here for a month and had to take 10 days off do to girth buising but am back at it and although i havn't noticed any enlargement yet i have noticed the definition and veinyness to my happy little camper. So i would say give this a try(i emphicized on the girth more over then the length but that is the best way to stretch it) so i would say give it a try and then if you do not get any progress go for the surgery.

And if your wondering why my doctor perscribed this, I'm canadian and were a little goofy up here eh.

Just the opposite of goofy, I would say. Everyone knows Canada has one of the best medical systems in the world! This is awesome! We're actually getting referals, DLD!!! :D

Come to MOS, folks! Grow your dick, restore your foreskin and see one of the biggest dicks in the world! WOOT!

so stretching the frenulum to get it longer is possible? because every information I do have says this is not possible (also from doctors) it says just foreskin stretching is possible

I dont want to have it cut, but what is my option if it hurts when having sex?

I don't know why a doctor would tell you you can't stretch it unless he needs to make a few bucks for some new golf clubs or something. You could stretch a bar of iron with your bare hands if you pulled on it long enough (millions years or so?) Your fren is made of skin, dude! Just take your time and work on it.