For the married men.....

thewife said:

Does she know that you Penis Enlargement? How does she handle that?

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Yes she knows... she thinks that i'm big enough and gets worried that it'll hurt too much if i get bigger, but i explained to her how much better it has been for her since i went from 5" girth to 6"... My length is long enough that if i go in hard too soon it's painfull for her. I just ease in with about half and wait 'til she asks for more.

She doesn't really object so i don't think she wants me to stop.

My fantacy threesome includes a very hot girl...so I know we would be picky. For me the bigger the boobs the better....my hubby is an ass man, so this chick will have to be damn near perfect

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They're out there though... just make sure he has viagra if you do plan on trying it out. Men just can't go as long as women and with two women... twice to work.

I can't believe you had a threesome w. her best friend. I can't IMAGINE that. My BF and hubby are like sis and bro - so it would be really, really weird to cross that line. Plus, she's a prude - she'd never do it ....

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Actually, my wife's best friend is like my girlfriend... they actually discussed her moving in with us in our spare room. She's the only woman that my wife will allow me to have sex with anytime without her knowledge.

thewife said:

Does she know that you Penis Enlargement? How does she handle that?
My BF and hubby are like sis and bro - so it would be really, really weird to cross that line. Plus, she's a prude - she'd never do it Thanks again.....

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Hey thewife does your husband know about your...Oh, you mean Best Friend (BF) not Boy Friend (also BF). :s

I would with another woman. Men? Mmm, no + if he was bigger than me i'd go frigin nuts.

sikdogg said:

It's always interesting that guys have no problems with an FMF but object to a MFM... They want their cake but deprive their spouse of a similar experience. We feel that the whole experience is about both people enjoying the pleasures of sex, not just one...


You are like most women and are more open and have less hang-ups than most guys.


MMFF wouldn't work for most guys, but MFMF or MFFM does. Putting the two "M's" together suggests that the men will be interacting with each other.

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You hit it right on the head with that post. In the sexual side of the relationship men are generally selfish not to mention insecure. They can't imagine another man with their wife/girlfriend because they automatically see the other man as a threat to their own "alpha" status. Turn the equation around as FMF and they just cant wait. Total double standard. If you're a truly secure man you get to lead a dream life like sikdogg.

I really don't know if he would go for MFMF...never talked about that. And truthfully I never thought about it either. I always pictured FMF. And that is what we always talked about. I really don't know how comfortable I'd be with some strange man being in my bed. A woman just seems different and more pleasurable to me. I think being with a woman has always been a deep down fantacy for me....so in many ways the woman is more for me than him. He knows that.....and teases me about it all the time. BUT it would have to be one fine ass woman.......so it will probably never happen.

nobody said:

You hit it right on the head with that post. In the sexual side of the relationship men are generally selfish not to mention insecure. They can't imagine another man with their wife/girlfriend because they automatically see the other man as a threat to their own "alpha" status. Turn the equation around as FMF and they just cant wait. Total double standard. If you're a truly secure man you get to lead a dream life like sikdogg.

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thewife said:

If you don't mind me asking AlreadyPackin' - how long have you been married?

I don't think my hubby could watch another guy with me either. Especially if I was enjoying it.....and then what would be the point .

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We're still cooling off out of the oven. Just 9 months for us. She definitely wouldn't go for a threesome in either configuration. Nor would I. I am usually the only straight guy in the room who doesn't give a damn about two women making out. I just can't see what the big deal is. I don't like to uphold double standards anyway.

sikdogg--I see what you mean. I should have said supposed to be the ultimate expression of love. From a moral standpoint, you really shouldn't be having sex with someone you don't love, and from a responsibility stance, the same holds true. But having fun usually overrides both. I was very choosy about who I messed around with before I was married, but as I got more jaded and saw how being on the right side didn't necessarily mean squat, I loosened up a bit. I've still only ever had one 1-night stand, though, and I wish I hadn't messed with her. Should have went with the redhead.
I agree with you 1,000% on what you said about love. That's one area where my sticking to my principles helps me out. I don't change my views on being gay just because my uncle is, and I still love my wife even when she's throwing projectiles at me.

Hi thewife,

I know this post is a little old, but better late than never

I have had the FMF experience, actually on a much deeper level than the norm...my wife and I had joked (less and less seriously) for years about her having a "sister wife", not just for the sex by any means. As time went by, we realized that we were serious about the prospect, at which point I pointed out that I'd been attracted to her best friend since we met (I met them both around the same time). We talked to our friend, and she was open to dating me. The actual sexual experiences started out wonderfully, easily some of the hottest experiences I've ever had, not just because of the gender configuration (though I can't say I'd be interested in MFM, as, like your hubby, the only thing I'd get from it is watching some other guy with my wife and no "double team" action myself, as opposed to the FMF experience) but because of the emotional connection we had/were developing. Things got more serious, and she moved in with us. We all loved each other very deeply, but eventually it got out to my first wife's family and they put HUGE pressure on her to leave (we are relatively young, all in our 20's)...things got a bit rocky, and now, I am sad to say that I have lost her over all this. < My only consolation is that her best friend and I are still in love and want to stay together now. Though we still love each other and still act as family, we couldn't stay married in the face of the pressures and trust issues that the pressures produced.

Sorry, that went a bit longer than I'd expected. As for the purely sexual side of it, the only time I ever felt jealousy issues was when my first wife seemed to completely forget I was there (she is horrible at multitasking which I think is critical for this sort of encounter so that no one feels left out). Both of them seemed perfectly fine with sharing me, and I can say that I was able to go longer (we're talking typically 3-4 hour sessions w/o much break) with both of them there because seeing them both always roused me for more

If you and your hubby can find a way to realize the fantasy, it can be very worthwhile...just make sure you're clear about the rules of engagement and emotional expectations later. I wish you luck!

(btw, if, after time passes, my first wife would be willing to try again, we'd both welcome her back )