Ever get tired of women

I'm curious if there are other here who just get tired of dealing with the opposite sex. I've reached a point where I've got other things going on in life that I am just tired of dealing with women. It's gotten to where I'd love to have a relationship but the women that I'm meeting things just don't seem to workout. Maybe I'm making mistakes, but I've always been the same each and every time. I guess maybe I'm more frustrated than anything else.

Here's the thing, for years I was the "ladies man" meaning I could talk to any girl at any point and get a phone number, multiple dates, and eventually the girl and I would spend considerable amounts of time together. Now, it seems that I can still land the number and 1-2 dates usually but then the relationship stage never seems to happen anymore. I'm not concerned about it being a problem with me, but maybe there is. I've always wondered if you wanted a relationship is a a woman could sense that, at the same time I'm not even sure that's what I'm looking for. Anyway, as it is at this point I'm kind of laying back and seeing what can develop over the next few months.

Im married and yes im tired of the same women sex wise. She is also of me. not tired as in grossed out or anything like that but. just its hard to explain. after 13 years of great marriage, we have talked a bit of maybey finding a friend with benifits and just having some fun... But in your case, i still see what you mean. i dont know what to tell ya.

It always seemed that sometimes when I worked hardest at a relationship, it just fell flat. Then I started to focus on myself and my relationship with myself--just getting to know who I was and getting more comfortable with who I was. It was usually during these times that my relationship with the opposite sex grew and became more intense. This happened out of the blue--kind of a gift that I wasn't searching for. And that has always been true for me. When I would try too hard to get something, it just never came my way.

So I guess what I'm saying is that you just work on yourself to make yourself a better human being and let the rest just happen--that is, if it's meant to happen.

Usually I would agree with you, but the reality is that I've had tons of "me" time since my last relationship. I dealt with a lot of character issues and I faced a lot of the root causes of my insecurities. Now it's just one of those things that I really would like to have, but the hard part about it is (I guess) the reality that where I am right now just won't really allow me to have what I'm looking for. I'm finishing a degree, working full time, and trying to keep everything in perspective. In so many ways I feel like I'm ready to have a special relationship with a woman, but at the same time in other ways I know that I can't stand up to that kind of commitment at this point and time.

millionman said:

Usually I would agree with you, but the reality is that I've had tons of "me" time since my last relationship. I dealt with a lot of character issues and I faced a lot of the root causes of my insecurities. Now it's just one of those things that I really would like to have, but the hard part about it is (I guess) the reality that where I am right now just won't really allow me to have what I'm looking for. I'm finishing a degree, working full time, and trying to keep everything in perspective. In so many ways I feel like I'm ready to have a special relationship with a woman, but at the same time in other ways I know that I can't stand up to that kind of commitment at this point and time.

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That's o.k. It will all come together at the right time and place. She will be on the prowl and so will you. Don't worry.

millionman;275334 said:

I'm curious if there are other here who just get tired of dealing with the opposite sex. I've reached a point where I've got other things going on in life that I am just tired of dealing with women. It's gotten to where I'd love to have a relationship but the women that I'm meeting things just don't seem to workout. Maybe I'm making mistakes, but I've always been the same each and every time. I guess maybe I'm more frustrated than anything else.

Here's the thing, for years I was the "ladies man" meaning I could talk to any girl at any point and get a phone number, multiple dates, and eventually the girl and I would spend considerable amounts of time together. Now, it seems that I can still land the number and 1-2 dates usually but then the relationship stage never seems to happen anymore. I'm not concerned about it being a problem with me, but maybe there is. I've always wondered if you wanted a relationship is a a woman could sense that, at the same time I'm not even sure that's what I'm looking for. Anyway, as it is at this point I'm kind of laying back and seeing what can develop over the next few months.

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Are you saying that you only go on a couple dates with women then, nothing further than that? If so, I may be able to help or be more specific in your meaning.

Reminds me of an old runnin' mate of mine, once said: "Women !!! (he'd been divorced three times, incidently) If they weren't all soft and warm on the inside, there'd be a fukkin' season on 'em, just like deer!"

Hey 1,000,000Man...yer only 22, as a guy twice that (yeah, yeah, and a little change) my heartiest recommendation is to just roll with it. Enjoy life as it happens and never waste yer time tryin' to figure women out: Because they themselves rarely know what the fuck they're doing, let alone why they done it!

I have an uncle who says something similar to that, but his goes more like "if it weren't for pussy there'd be a bounty on ALL women." I agree with your assertion MAX, it's not a matter of being what they want or understanding them it's just a matter of living life and being who YOU are. I've gotten away from dating just any ol' girl just because I could, as I've found that to be a horrible waste of my time and money. In the end I feel that if you meet someone and things seem to flow naturally then it's a good thing, but if it's WORK and I mean like it's a second or third job to be with someone then it's just not worth it and in the end is not going to work out regardless of what you do.

I've had some interesting experiences with women, and in some ways I could say that I'm jaded. The reality of the matter is that girls my age, and slightly older, really have no clue as to what they want for THEMSELVES, much less what they want from another person, so it's a matter of them being flighty and selfish in the end because they don't know who they are. It's really got nothing to do with you as a man at that point and I don't think any offense should be taken. I will say that I see more and more people getting together just to have "someone" and that "someone" really could be an "anyone" situation because it's about having someone to comfort you, and to "care" for you, and really it's more about having someone act as an emotional tampon than it is anything else. I say take the time to be who you really WANT to be, who you've always dreamt of being and then walk in that manner. I'm taking huge leaps forward in life at the moment because I'm not focused on what I don't have or what I am missing, as I am focused on being better for ME. It's working out well so far. We'll see where it takes me.

im going to try living my life like that

haha great words actually that is quite possible i guess guys like you that are so experienced you came to a conclusion, where you know a lot about them and they became nothing hahah

If a woman didn't have a pussy, I wouldn't ever talk to one

dhj;633692 said:

If a woman didn't have a pussy, I wouldn't ever talk to one

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WISDOM haha

Maybe you are putting too much pressure on it, but to be honest this is a mystery to me too. Because on one hand I have a friend good looking dude, and girls only want to fuck him but then they don't date him. He couldn't get a girlfriend to save his life. But me fuck they start talking about relationships the same frigging day, which sucks cause all I want right now is sex no relations.

But yeah laying back is probably the best thing you can do, once you genuinely stop caring about getting a girlfriend women will start poppin out of the woodwork. Always happens to me either when I have a busy semester and I don't want anything or when I have a girlfriend, its unfair its like if they could smell it.

dhj;633692 said:

If a woman didn't have a pussy, I wouldn't ever talk to one

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Respect!

dhj;633692 said:

If a woman didn't have a pussy, I wouldn't ever talk to one

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Damn, then all the women would be running around with cocks, it would be mayhem!