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Over the past year, I've frequented 4 different Penis Enlargement forums, and I've encountered the same faux pas in all of them. Namely, guys asking a gal about the size(s) of her previous lover(s).
This inquiry can be fraught with disaster. First of all, you can't change her past, regardless of what it is (nor can she). Second, unless you are massive, the odds are that she may have had bigger (especially if she's had some "experience").
To hear that you were her biggest - assuming that she's being honest, which she may have learned not to be - you might get some ego-stroking (if you really need that). However, I think the risks outweigh any potential benefits.
You may in fact be the smallest she's had. Or, like what happened to an obsessive friend of mine, she may have had a lover much much bigger than you. Even worse is when she then tries to smooth it over, pitying you, trying to make you feel better.
A buddy of mine always asked this of his dates. He said he was "about 6 inches," though I have no way of verifying it. But most of the girls told him he was "average," a few even said "small." Yet he kept asking. Finally, one gal indicated to him the size of her biggest (& "best") lover with her hand over his glans. My buddy said he had to have been at least 9", according to her demonstration, and much wider. She admitted that he was the best sex she ever had, but he kept cheating on her so she dumped him.
If all this wasn't bad enough, he really fell for the girl over the next few months, yet had to keep struggling with this.
I asked my future wife the same stupid questions (when I was 6.5 x 5.2). She had 2 men before me (she was young when we met, and she dated the 1 guy for 3 years). She said I was thicker than both, but one was "about an inch longer" than me, but quite bent to the side. I guess it could've been worse. But it's a question that I would never ask any woman again - unless I was prepared for a painful answer.
Just enjoy the snatch in front of you, and don't ask about her past! (it can also make you look like an insecure little boy worrying about your peepee....or, worse, she might wonder why you're thinking of other men's cocks while she's spread out in front of you)....
This inquiry can be fraught with disaster. First of all, you can't change her past, regardless of what it is (nor can she). Second, unless you are massive, the odds are that she may have had bigger (especially if she's had some "experience").
To hear that you were her biggest - assuming that she's being honest, which she may have learned not to be - you might get some ego-stroking (if you really need that). However, I think the risks outweigh any potential benefits.
You may in fact be the smallest she's had. Or, like what happened to an obsessive friend of mine, she may have had a lover much much bigger than you. Even worse is when she then tries to smooth it over, pitying you, trying to make you feel better.
A buddy of mine always asked this of his dates. He said he was "about 6 inches," though I have no way of verifying it. But most of the girls told him he was "average," a few even said "small." Yet he kept asking. Finally, one gal indicated to him the size of her biggest (& "best") lover with her hand over his glans. My buddy said he had to have been at least 9", according to her demonstration, and much wider. She admitted that he was the best sex she ever had, but he kept cheating on her so she dumped him.
If all this wasn't bad enough, he really fell for the girl over the next few months, yet had to keep struggling with this.
I asked my future wife the same stupid questions (when I was 6.5 x 5.2). She had 2 men before me (she was young when we met, and she dated the 1 guy for 3 years). She said I was thicker than both, but one was "about an inch longer" than me, but quite bent to the side. I guess it could've been worse. But it's a question that I would never ask any woman again - unless I was prepared for a painful answer.
Just enjoy the snatch in front of you, and don't ask about her past! (it can also make you look like an insecure little boy worrying about your peepee....or, worse, she might wonder why you're thinking of other men's cocks while she's spread out in front of you)....
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