Anxiety causing weak EQ

How do I get rid of this. Thanks in advance.

LiLNiJa;440336 said:

How do I get rid of this. Thanks in advance.

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more info would be good.

is this happening all the time? or only when your having sex?

Thanks for the quick reply.

Mostly when I'm with a hot chick.

I quit watching �naked people movies� and stopped edging for about a week. I have spontaneous boners all day.

Its the anxiety when I'm with a hot chick that makes me feel numb.

I was thinking about taking cialis but I really don't have a physical problem. It's 100% mental.

LiLNiJa;440340 said:

Thanks for the quick reply.

Mostly when I'm with a hot chick.

I quit watching �naked people movies� and stopped edging for about a week. I have spontaneous boners all day.

Its the anxiety when I'm with a hot chick that makes me feel numb.

I was thinking about taking cialis but I really don't have a physical problem. It's 100% mental.

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np. im always wanting to help if i can.

Your exactly right, its all in your head.
i start by saying you need to calm the fucc down aha, i get anxiety from something different but i know what it feels like.

i cant stress enough how calm you have to be, anything that can trigger that tight chest feeling you have to dispose out of your mind.
but this is all i can say about being with a chicc.

enjoy being with the girl your about to fucc thats what pussies all about, be calm,take it slow, and replace those thoughts in your head with positive ones.
think how good your gonna give it to this chicc, and if your not a pussy eater maybe its time to reconsider... work her whole body kiss her all over,make her gush rivers before youve even got your dicc wet... just doing all this is guaranteed to get you hard.

but as i said its all in your head, you gotta find a way not to have those thoughts in your head thats causing the anxiety.
if all else fails i suppose you could try the pills... but it may not fully work cuz you might replace one fear with another.

Intimate situations can be difficult, we don't know what they are thinking so we manufacture it. Try to relax and spend time on her, pleasure her and put your erections out of your mind. Satisfy her and her joy will fuel your erections, believe me. An erection is kind of like an internet connection. When there is a clear line from your computer to the ISP things run smooth and fast, but when there is a ton of people on the network (in this analogy, your thoughts) and things can slow to a standstill. It is important to leave a clear line from the brain to the penis, any negative or contradicting thoughts will clog the line and make erections difficult. When you spend time on her you are not thinking about the erection and it will naturally happen.

Thanks for the tips guys. Focusing more on foreplay rather then worrying about performance should do the trick.

I've been lurking around here for a while and noticed some great gains in just about 3 months! The only regret I have is not finding this site about five years ago.

So I have heard of negative things about supplements like Viagra and Cialis. I was told that if I consistently use supplements like these then in time my body would require them to get a quality erection. Is there any truth to this or am I getting the run around?

Viagra and Cialis do not cause dependancies, I have friends who use it in exactly the case where they will need to perform with someone who they may feel they will have performance anxiety. I use it since i have ED brought on by anti depressants ( Celexa for generalized anxiety disorder), any thought will make mr happy go limp , including if i have gas or something. if u are going to take something, I would use 10 mg of cialis, since it gives u a 24+ hr window( it only lasts 24 with me, they say its 36 but whatevs), make sure u have some nasal decongestant ( the 4 hr nasal spray works better than the 12 hour afrin).. u might also get lower back pain , flushing, or u might feel a bit ickym but in my experiance thats when taking more than 10 mg of cialis or more than 50 mg of viagra.. butttt, if you wana make a good first impression I def recomend talking to yer doc.. U might be able to get a free sample from the manufacturer's website as well, they got coupons and whatnot..

Thanks for the advice.

Well see the thing is I recently broke up with my fiancee of 5 years, so I'm not really accustomed to dating new girls. I met this extremely hot female not too long ago and she texts me all the time taking about how she's really into me. She even mentioned introducing me to her girlfriends for a threesome. Now I get serious panic attracts thinking about this. You think 50 mg is enough?

2 things that help me in this situation are a valium and a viagra. Anxiety is off and erection is on.

smoke weed=anxiety gone

Well my doctor said that he will not prescribe me Viagra. He started talking about how I don't fall into the age group and then he wanted to get my hormone level checked ect. ect. Is there anything over-the-counter I could take to help?

Marijuana gives me extreme paranoia. That shit is just going to make things worse for me.