A Check on Size

I just got done responding to a member about his size and I started to think how most of us have a very strange view of size. It seems no matter how big we are we still see it as something it is not. I also think many guys get it in their heads that a 7 or 8" penis is normal...this is simply not true. This is a stigma that is created by ���� and sexual supplements. A normal penis at 5.5" erect is never used as the size to judge against, nor does anyone want to be normal. At just an inch over this measurement, a size that is about 20% bigger many men would still see as normal or even small.

I think this way of thinking hurts your growth on so many levels. I think that penis enlargement needs to have a time of acceptance of what we have, a very honest, real view on our size and a understanding that we are not less of a man because of our size. Penis enlargement is the betterment of ourselves but in no way should it be a negative thing. The negativity happens when we obsess so much on our size, what it looks like, what she thinks, how it looks according to our body, how we see ourselves in the mirror, etc. In many cases people end up hating their penis and it is this negativity that keeps us centered on unfounded thoughts and keeps the gains from happening.

With acceptance and self love comes the ability to make ourselves better. When we sit in a constant loop of self-loathing it makes any movement impossible.

Take the time to look at yourself in the mirror, whether it is comfortable or not. Let yourself see what you really are. Let yourself sit with the emotions, don't try to escape them. Look at yourself and remember that everyday you are making a perfect creation a little bit better.

DLD,

man, soo much wisdom in these lines, thank you so much

brilliant words

Great post, Mike. I think most of us are guilty of losing sight of what the typical penis size is, I know I have. In a way, it has benefits in keeping us motivated to keep Penis Enlargementing, but it's negative if it legitimately depresses you. I need to find something 6x5 to hold up to my erection whenever I'm having a 'small' day.

Easy to say when you're almost twice the size of 'average'

DLD, I agree with you 100% and some of your post has the same tone as my reply in Royce's Depth of pussy thread.

The bottom line is, "why do we really want a bigger dick?" To make ourselves or someone else happy? Or to impress? Of course since we're (mostly) American's, we want to be the biggest and the fastest (not relating to sex).

With that said, I'd like to thank you for hosting this forum and for your real world experiences with Penis Enlargement.

-Cephus-

by the way, that 5.5 number i keep hearing - is that bone pressed or non-pressed length?

No one really knows the true average penis size, but I go with 5.5 non-bonepressed as a good guess. I figure it couldn't be much higher, but possibly a little lower.

Great post, DLD. Thanks for the reality check. I'm grateful that my P.E. experience has been a positive, uplifting experience.

Great post DLD. I think creating a positive mindset and being comfortable with our bodies is the way to be, and our whole lives not just our Penis Enlargement will benefit from this.

I know many of my post seem to say penis enlargement is negative and this is not what I am trying to get across. My main goal is to say yes penis enlargement is a reality but read the "psychological fine print" before signing your life away. This is only an attempt to let men know that there is a way to get a bigger penis and if they practice "mental penis enlargement" they will accomplish their goals with a healthy mental attitude. While we are working on the physical aspects of our penis why can't we correct problems we had way before pe?

What a fantastic post .. makes so much sense and made me feel better

wise words indeed. thanks dld!!!!

true, tru, so very true!