You're Too Short!

[Mr Pump]

Ok this sucks. I'm 29 and most of my life I've been called HOT!!, Gorgeous, Really Cute, blah blah.

Well I'm 5'6 so I'm short. It's so hard to get a woman that's not grossly overweight, very depressive/insecure, attractive. Those small skinny girls with the nice little curves, even the just decent looking ones all want TALL GUYS.

So on the net chicks dig my pictures. I look buff, tan, sort of bad boy'ish and have a knack to strike up conversation. They really love me online until they ask how tall I am. Oh damn! All of the sudden all of that "you're so cute, you have a wonderful personality, you seem like a girls dream" all goes down the tubes. The better looking they are the more they want taller guys. And I'm not just talking "taller than me", I'm talking "taller than me in heels and then some".

So these petite minature women shouldn't mind a guy who's 4-6" taller right? Oh please, I'm not 6'? What a crime! They can't smell my armpits while standing next to me. If they could, well I'm wearing AXE deodorant so they might rape me. Unfortunately in their heels they are closer to my level. No AXE raping for me.

"but I just like tall guys" "tall guys make me feel petite" "tall guys make me feel safe" "tall guys are like teddy bears" "I like to look up at my man" "I don't know why I like tall guys but I do!" ... you know what that sounds like to me, a 16 yr old talking. Come on!

Now we're blasted with all these "research findings" all over major news stations .... 'tall guys make more money' 'tall guys are more likely to marry and have kids' 'tall guys dominate the dating sector' 'tall guys seen as more attractive' 'women don't look down their noses at short men'.

It really sucks, it's so hard to get a decent looking woman. I am on Myspace looking for local girls. It's funny that I've had 200+ page views and hardly any response. I'll email girls and tell them I'm new here and looking for friends and stuff and I rarily get anything back. One chick even told me to have better success I should remove my height out of the profile. Wtf!

I've completely dropped off penis enlargement simply because I'm just tired of being with girls that I'm not even attracted to. I get the leftovers, the ones guys call fat, crazy, or have all kinds of kids with different dads, or are lazy and broke, or can't get a date themselves. I seriously haven't dated anyone I was really attracted to in years. I just get desperate because I'm shot down by anyone I'm remotely attracted to. And no I don't go after only model looking women.

Any short dudes out there having the same issues? If you're tall, be happy about yourself because you have a unique quality that is attractive in itself.

 

[prince Albert]

Try getting out in the real world to meet women,height never stopped me getting the type of women i go for,i'm only 5'8,i no plenty of short blokes who are very successful with picking up women they are confident and good patter merchants.

 

[Mr Pump]

Thanks for responding. Ok Myspace was just an example. I do get out... in fact I'm pretty outgoing and social and go to the bars, clubs, malls, etc. I have lots of friends and I'm not shy and not a loud mouth. I talk to women, flirt with women just like any other guy. So it's not like I'm some hermit sitting around on the net trying to meet women. That's just one avenue.

 

[JesterX]

yeah im 5' 5" and dont have much experience but if your a fairly decent looking dude you should be able to get a decent girl alot of girls will like you even if you are short they just wont admit it because its not 'Socially Acceptable' and if you have alot of confidence and hold your head up high you appear taller because of your confidence.

The few girls ive had experience with were about 2-3" taller than me and they didnt mind my height these girls were both the shy types though but once you got to know them they would open up and turn out be great chics. So you can maybe go for the shyer ones im not saying that their more likely to not care but this has been my experience.

I really like the look of short chics though i dont really like the tall ones unless their really hot and have a great personality if i could find a chic that was 4' 11" id be in heaven i just love the shorties.

Its sucks though when you think about it 4-5" isnt really that much is it.

 

[Mr Pump]

I get the "you're really hot, you'd be perfect if you was 5'10+!". I mean I'm really cut, very little body fat so I'm not overweight. I'm not going to say if I'm hot or not, alot of girls say I am but that's where it stays.

I've dated taller girls but they were really insecure and overweight. I've actually never dated a petite girl. They've always shot me down. Like i said I get stuck with the friend that she knows isn't all that attractive. They'll say oh you two would make a good couple! What the hell ever.

Yes I'd like to date shoerter girls too. Here's the problem ... girls are getting taller! As they get taller they want taller guys. And the shorties want taller guys so they'll fit in. It's a mess

 

[The BTC Killer]

The BTC Killer is 5' 4" and I have been very selective and only bedded women that belong in penthouse magazine, and a few playboy magazine spreads. I'm not sure if height is a real issue for many women over the age of a rational maturation. I use my good looks and wit, and every woman, that's EVERY woman I have pursued, I have had full success. My friend who is only 5' 2" has had sex with over 50 hotties, and several meaningful relationships. Besides, an 8"x6" penis looks very impressive on gentlemen of our stature.

 

[prince Albert]

:clap: :clap: :clap: :bouncings

 

[joe_smith]

I'm only 5'5'' and I've dated many hot women. A lot of the women were ever taller than me. For example I've dated a woman that was 6'. I think it has to do with confidence and the way you present yourself. Just keep searching you will find a good one. Don't let it get you down.

 

[jubei]

hey mr pump.
I'm 6" so im in no postition to tell you how things are with reguard to your height.
I am however 22yo and im going bald.
I shave my head because of it but i actually prefer how i look with a shaved head now.
When i first noticed i was loosing my hair, i was very distraught to say the least. I saw a physchologist (spelling) and that fixed my problem. She basically made me realise that I need to look at my good points and not let one silly little problem get me down. IF someone has a problem with your hair or height or penis etc, dont associate with them, find other people that are bigger than that (no pun intended ;p)
I broke up with my gf because she demanded i dont shave my head, it was my hair or her she said. If she wansnt comfortable with something that i feel so strongly about then she can hit the highway, i want nothing to do with someone like that.

It seems that your down because your getting all of the fat/ugly etc girls, when you think that your better than that.
Perhaps you should just forget about your height and find someone that loves you for you and that you love them for them.
It seems that because your down in the dumps your in a very negative frame of mind. Look at tom cruise. I think hes about 5"7 or 5"8, hes a huge hollywood star, look at the list of names that hes been with.
You will find the girl your after my friend, and she will make you very happy for who YOU are.

 

[Kal-el]

Good post Mr. Pump. I am really self-conscience about my height.Being only 5'3'' almost every girl I'm with is taller than me. That's why I really despise going out, or hanging out in social situations. I guess that's most of the reason why I'm into pe.

 

[hopful]

look I'm in da same club I'm 5'7-8' and I have never had any Problems with girls that are eye level or smaller. But i got a friend whos about 5'0ish and he's having "problems finding a girl" i got quite a few female friends and they tell me " Oh he's to small, i want a guy who's at least same size as me". and that realy sucks.... (but I think it's his fault in some way, and I'm gonna tell ya why later down.)
My advice would be, try and find a girl that's same size or smaller ( I think their much more sexy when their smaller then me "

And belive me, things always look bigger when you look up. So if You're good at talking, go to myplace or what wherever, take you're size out of you're profile and only talk to girls that are under the 5'5 range.
The first Impresion is always the most important. If you get into a good chat with a girl who is smaller then you on the net, it's quite unlikely she'll say no to you after she notices that she likes you and you tell her that you are bigger then her.

Another important thing is, when you go out with you're mates. Take good care that you arn't the smallest in the group! The first impresion "mostly just the first look" is very important. And you just look smaller if all the guys with you are half a head bigger than you! I have noticed that Girls just naturaly turn off the smallest guy in the group. If I go out with my mates, and I am the smallest in the group, I have a realy fucking hard time up to no chance to meet a decent girl while standing with them.
But If I go alone or with other mates that are the same size as me, or the best time is when I am one of the biggest, then I nearly never have a Problem to get a girl.
I don't know why it's like that, I guess it's just plain instinct in the girls and a kind of natural davinism ( the best survive )

But this is kinda of plain and normal in Life. It's always the choice of the best pick! You can watch it everywhere. If You as a normal good looking bloke go to the clubs with 4 same size other blocks that go to the gym and have a nice body, who do you guess will be picked last? Same in school, even if the chubby kid is better at a sport then 3 - 4 other thin guys of his class, who is going to be picked last?

Anyway, sorry for my bad english but I'm in a rush.

So remember, it's not all about YOU'RE body SIZE! But much much more IT's about how you Present it!

Good Luck and best wishes! And think about it! Be smart.

 

[mattersofsize05]

hey im 5'11 and i still face some of the problems people smaller then me face...so im in the same boat even tho im percieved as above average in height...? i think girls just base big as 6ft and more

 

[iwant8inches]

Just don't think about it the next time you go out to socialize. If it's not on your mind then you can be yourself, calm, cool, collected, and thus reserved to approach any woman you desire to approach.

 

[drew21]

I have the opposite problem. I'm a little over 6'6" and the girls always look at me like Im some kind of oaf. When I sitting down or far away girls will approach me, but as soon as I stand next to them and dwarf them, its all over. I basically have just learned to accept my height since there is nothing I can do about.

 

[bIgjOe]

Goddamn picky bitches.

 

[iwant8inches]

Goddamn picky bitches.

lol...yeah, but we can't expect every chick to like us. We find shit wrong with women all the time, but it's more likely that when we approach a girl they know what's up and most put up some kind of defense mechanism when we feel insecure about something. We need to just fuck it all to hell and just do what we want to do whether we succeed or fail. Fuck it.

 

[drew21]

Yeah but I would never turn a girl down for being too tall or too short.

 

[bigsack]

My shorter friends tend to date short/petite girls. For instance one friend is about 5'8" and has a gf who is 4'10" and maybe 90 lbs. The other is about 5'7" and his gf is around 5'0, maybe 110. Since they're so small, their boyfriends appear large by comparison. Not every girl wants a 6'+ boyfriend. There's a match for everybody out there.

I can't speak from personal experience though, I'm 6'2" and girls love my height. I'm also a bit unfair to girls myself, I'll never date a girl over 5'7". It's just a matter of physical attraction.

 

[iwant8inches]

Yeah but I would never turn a girl down for being too tall or too short.

Hell yeah. Really short or really tall chicks actually turn me on come to think of it! rofl

 

[KiNgA dA ThRoNe]

yea im 5 ' 11 and maybe a hair under 6 ft and im still considered small to a large amount of girls i know and talk to...i dont know what they expect with the average man at about 5'8 so i asked them what they considered to be avrage and they said 6 ft...!!! these are 25 year old women here to mind you...and they considered 6'4 the ideal height...so just some input

 

[drew21]

Wow where do you live that girls like tall guys? Maybe you could send a few of them my way.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Hey Mr. Pump...Don't know whether this will be any help, but I'll throw my 2 cents in. Maybe you might want to take a look at what KIND of woman you've been pursuing, not just appearance-wise, but attitude-wise. I'm not a short guy (I'm 6' tall) but five years ago I broke my back in a couple of places and gained an assload of weight. But I kept, and even improved, my attitude and sense of humor. My wife and I had broken up a few years before that and I'd done a fair amount of dating, and believe me; I sure as hell ran into more than my fair share of nutballs. But I also ran into much more than my fair share of gorgeous women. Here I was, turning 40, getting a little grey around the edges, broke back and gettiin' fat as fuck. And I still met ( and loved ) lots of damn good lookin women. How? Attitude...and volume. Gotta keep the 'tude going and you just gotta keep your meeting and dating volume high and, (and this might be the most important part) you've got to be extremely willing to say goodbye. Talk to every pretty gal you come across and if the chemistry ain't there...move along. And don't be impatient and never, ever appear even close to "needy" the more confidence you exude (not conceit) the more the gals will find you attractive. Believe me, if I, a close cousin to Sasquatch, can actually have my choice of companions then anybody can. Don't look for a woman you might make fit you, look for the woman who already does fit you and then grow from there. She's out there ya just gotta find her. Good luck!

 

[drew21]

very good post maxameyes. unless you like dating girls who are dumb as rocks, most will find personality just, if not more, importatnt than looks.

 

[KiNgA dA ThRoNe]

yes wouldnt we all like to think that way but very untrue ....each day that goes by the world becomes more obsessed with looks then personality or other features not related to looks..? If you venture back a little in history you can see that this was true never or barely was you with someone cause they were handsomely good lood lookin or amazing beautifully alone... most of the time it was for financial reasons or ties to other people in the business world or rarely they were forces to be with that person by their parents... but i see more and more that people are becoming even more focused on looks then anything another human being can offer... We are wanting more and more perfection in the other gender by what these magazine and tv and etc. feed us that is normal... and not to mention the obesity rate is at a historic high that just makes things worse... so what im tryna say it would great to say " Yea well she should like you for who you and not what look like or anythin other than that " but drasticly not the case in this time ( most of the time , there are some people out there that feel that personality is the key to another persons happiness , but tht number dwindles rapidly as time goes by ) as i was saying it would be great to be judge or personality alone but sadly thats not the case for the majority of people living in this time

thanks if this helped you out at all

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Not untrue, not untrue at all. My personal experience is complete refutation of that premise. And I'm hardly a Pierce Brosnan look-alike! Let me refresh the point I was trying to make and that the king actually reinforces: Physical beauty is a strong attractant, yes. Physical compatibility is a strong motivation for continuing or deepening a primarily physical relationship, yes. Physicality is a viable replacement for intellectual, mental, emotional, spiritual compatibility, no. Perhaps someone searching for primarily physical attributes in a partner meets others who are also searching for primarily physical attributes in a partner. And if neither can consider a human being as something more than their surface appearance then this leaves little or no room for true growth. Each and every one of us has something to offer. Just what you might have to offer, in what type of quality, and in what kinds of quantities might have a lot to say about the type of people in general and women in particular you might meet. Cultivate the traits in yourself that you'd like to admire in your partner. Engage in the types of activities you'd like to share with your love. Become the kind of person that a woman like that would be attracted to. This is where the "VOLUME" part comes in. Meet, greet, invite, tease, please, dump, pursue, screw as many women as you can and you will find one with whom you will fit perfectly. Like everything else in life worth achieving it takes time, it takes effort, it takes patience and strangely; it takes a certain amount of detacHydromaxent. The less you focus on some uncertain and undefined future event and the more you focus on the here and now, the more you work to attain self-growth and improvement and the better you answer the question of what you have to offer in relation to what you expect from a woman the better and more focused and more surprising results you'll ultimately enjoy. I didn't believe either...till it happened to me.

 

[KiNgA dA ThRoNe]

yes i disagree whole heartedly that its fucked up that this perception that people use these days to base on who they will and wont have relations with of the opposite sex... I was trying to say that as time goes on I believe it will only get worse as a whole not the select few

 

[bigcatlionII]

People are fighting hundred of thousands of years of evolution here; women prefer the tall guys that are strong providers and men prefer curvy women that could produce kids.
I am 5'8 and fairly stocky, muscular build and yet, there is not a day that goes by that I wish that I was taller. I am goodlooking too. I just look at the other guya that are taller and most of them are not combly looking at all. There are a few exceptions out there, tall, buff, goodlooking guys; at least I meet 2 out of the 3 qualities. Most tall guys only meet 1 out of the three. Just be thankful you have your health and no type of handicap. Also, a fat wallet lined with a lot of green will make you feel like 7ft.

 

[Girthius]

I have an uncle who is 5ft 6.He is so full of life, and his energy is tremendous.He has so much charisma,drive,confidence, and a winning positive attitude!He is truly a delight to be around!So when I see him on occasion, I don't see a man at 5ft 6, I see a giant of a man.It's all what you have within you, and the way you look at life.You can feel cheated with your height, or you can develop what's inside you, and become a beacon of inspiration for all that come into contact with you!We all have the ability to become the giant!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Spektrum]

If a woman will not date you because you're not her 'ideal' height, then the bitch isn't worth it. All of the women I have dated have wanted me to be taller(I'm 5'8"), except two. The only two worth dating I might add. The rest were stuck up, self centered hoes.

I guess we men need to realize 95% of these bitches out here are not worth it. Find one in the 5% that is.

 

[swolejah]

I'm also 5'6"....

There excersizes to make your muscles bigger, penis bigger... but is there for your height?????! Doubt it....

 

[Cleaner13]

Im probably not the best one to be giving any kind of insite on this situation, Im 6' but if it makes you feel any better Im the 3rd shortest of my group of friends which includes roughly 12 guys.
the next two following are 5'10 and 5'9
My grand parents are both 4'10", my families Italian (as are all of my friends) and its not really normal to grow tall
my sister is 4'11"

from my experience I can tell you this, women like what they like, theres no magical thing you can do to change your height or overall looks etc. I think instead of trying to adapt to women that what a certain look, you should just date around until you find women that want your look. Women are nothing special they are just women, why should you change to suit them? They arent God or any higher being, so who are they to say they prefer you a certain way...

Your best bet is to find what your good features are, the most talked about ones from the girls, and expose them. Sooner or later you will find someone that isnt shallow, and will be attracted to you for what you offer and not longing for what you dont have. My shorter friend mentioned above is a great dancer, he dances with tons of girls at clubs etc... Hes a good looking guy, but hes fairly shy as english is his second language with Italian being first, I think his shyness lies in his insecurity to his height, however when dancing is involved he rules the floor and that insecurity is out the window..

My girlfriends best friend is 4"10 and her boyfriend is like 6'2" do you have any idea how rediculous they look together?
I think the reason girls want taller guys is because they are insecure.
Anyways

Good luck with anything you really choose to do, but just remember you cant change who you are and why would you want to?

 

[loco]

I've been outta the dating game for a long time, because I am married. But let me tell ya like MAXAMEYES says it's all about volume and attitude. looks have little to do with it. heck I wouldn't say I'm ugly as sin or 10 on any scale but somewhere in the middle. I mean nobody wants a mut that they may roll over to and want to smack themselves and think *what on earth was I thinking*. Yet at the same time everyone one of us like certain kinds of women. some like tall some like short, believe it not some don't like the super attractive because they say the lack "quality and attitude" they are looking for. Being 6'2" I have seldom heard anything about height towards me, but none of my friends seem to have an issue with it. and one of my good friends is all of 5'4" and has never had a issue with the ladies.

oh yeah and short chicks love tall guys because they say it makes them feel more secure/safe.

my advice here would be simple go meet them in person and not this whole online thing. In person they get to actually grasp you for you in person. And we all know women suck at estimating size, I'd bet height would be in the same realm.

 

[franz]

I can´t help you regarding the height, but trying another deodorant might help. Most women I met don´t really like the musk-ox smell of AXE. It´s more a mens thing. Really.

 

[darkseid1998]

Hi Mr Pump,

I am an Asian guy who is 5'3" tall and I also get a lot of crap from women in the big cities. I find that it is not something wrong with me but something wrong with THEM!! I travel a lot and never seen women as bitchy as the ones in New York City who want it all- 6' tall, muscular, wealthy, Caucasian men (yes, they all want the Caucasian men even the black, Latina, or Asian women). I am able to date a foreign woman in another country or another state and hit it off with her within a week of being there but I couldn't get a date here in this dumpster of a city I live in (unless they are tourists).
In fact, there are more divorces in big cities than in the smaller towns which shows they can't even get along with their "dream guy"- the tall, wealthy guy they hooked up with! The same girl that rejected me and tried to hook me up with her elephant friend got divorced a year later. I of course was not interested in her friend so I never called her for a second meeting. (Not necessarily a date because it is just an introduction from her snobby friend).
As a matter of fact, i use ALL my vacation time to travel and I am never home. I also would say i date 3 times a year because I only have 3 vacation weeks. I also try to go out on weekends and I am by no means a wallflower and I can dance but I get booed from the dancefloor because I am hated here for my race and height where I get applauded in other places.
By the way, what city do you live in? I think it is the women in that city that have gone buggers. There are more accepting women out in the world, you just have to travel to meet them.

darkseid

 

[st19cm]

I have an uncle who is 5ft 6.He is so full of life, and his energy is tremendous.He has so much charisma,drive,confidence, and a winning positive attitude!He is truly a delight to be around!So when I see him on occasion, I don't see a man at 5ft 6, I see a giant of a man.It's all what you have within you, and the way you look at life.You can feel cheated with your height, or you can develop what's inside you, and become a beacon of inspiration for all that come into contact with you!We all have the ability to become the giant!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is relevant to my situation. I am (like a lot of you) 5ft 6in and when I was moving and shaking (many years ago), I was only 132 lbs soaking wet. The woman with whom I fell in love and married is 5ft 2in and weighed slilghtly less than me (packed it in the right places). Long story short, she admitted that her original attraction to me was a subconcious preference to men similar to the stature of her father. In other words, this was simply a natural attraction, not a peer-related one. So, maybe you just haven't run across this type of lady yet. I wish you this.

I have since asked her about whether she would like a tall or muscle-bound man, but she says that there is no attration on either score. So I asked about her preference for the hang of a man. She said (if you can believe this) that she had no such thoughts or cared how hung a guy was. She did admit, however, that once we made love that my being hung was an unexpected benefit. So, you see how dishonest they are on that topic? I wonder if that sealed the deal?

 

[Slevin]

People are saying that women are attracted to taller men because they make them feel secure...
Now, you can't change your height, but what if you get friggen ripped (6 pack and everything) I mean, not freakishly ripped... lol.

Shouldn't that increase your odds (and eliminate the security excuse)?

I knew a boxer who was noticably shorter than me (im 5'10") and just by looking at him I knew he could beat the living sh*t out of me.

 

[Slevin]

Actually, while I was in Spain this summer, I knew this girl (like almost my height) that had sex with a guy that was pretty short (5'6-7" or less). So this means she was taller than him. And she was a stocky build, too.

The facts:
he was black
he was ripped (not freakishly, more like moderate rippage lol)
(and he probly had a big penis lol)

Come to your own conclusions.

 

[MakeItHappen]

bah! you think you've got problems! im 5 10 and my gf is taller than me... it makes me feel like she might like me more if i was taller...<

 

[goal8*6nick]

well..there is a way to get taller!!!!!!!google it!there are some pills and strech exercises and devices!!!!!everything can be changed in life!!!but i believe its time to accept ourselves!!!find the way to attract women!its 80% appeariance and 20 % the style and behaviour ..i know....but you can try it harder!you got nothing to loose!dont stop pe!see this as an advantage!you are short yes i agree!!but ...if you are 5' 6" and have 8.5 " inch cock..imagine how it looks to the girls!!!take care of your diet and go to a gym!!!once you have nice body and 8.5" you could be able to have the "air" to meet beautiful girl!just be cool and dont show your insecurities!!!instead...try to bring out and mention their insecurities!!!

 

[10inchadvantage]

After about 6'5" girls start finding guys in the "unattractive" height catagory. Too tall is not a good thing for girls.

 

[drew21]

After about 6'5" girls start finding guys in the "unattractive" height catagory. Too tall is not a good thing for girls.

Yeah, being a 6'7" guy I would say there is a range. Just like anything under 5'10" would be an unattractive height. Girls like to talk about how tall I am and compare themselves to me. Its an easy way to meet girls, but I think they get a little intimidated about dating someone so tall.

 

[Painful Pleasur]

bro i'm with you on that. i've had girls do the same thing to me. they love me and shit until they find out how tall i am. "you're too short" wtf does height have to do with anything? why does it matter? seriously when is that going to ever matter? are they going get theri midol stuck on a high shelf and need a man who is 6ft 3in to grab it for them? what the fuck! what is their problem? someone said it's because they dont want their kids to be short. what the fuck. when they tell you you're too short, tell them their tits are too big or something

 

[TheFlame19]

I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.

 

[longstretch]

I'm 5'9, so I'd say near average, but a bit below. I'm in quite good shape, and am fairly attractive and I get a fair amount of female attention

I'm going to give some pointers:

1 - Go to the gym - if you're really insecure about your height, just increase your 'sex appeal' in other areas of your body: ie - pe, and lift weights. This isn't vital, but will boost your own self-image which helps you in point #2

2 - Be confident - there are millions of women out there, so don't get bent out of shape if the majority don't like you, there are many fish in the sea

3 - Meet many women - something I've noticed is that when the amount of women that I know/meet is low, my confidence shrinks, my opportunity shrinks, and I am not as attractive (personality wise), however when there are many women that I am meeting/getting to know I become more confident, more humorous, friendly and outgoing, which makes me more attractive. Variety is the spice of life.

4 - Don't care so much - some tall girl won't date you because you're shorter then she is: you could flip it around and say that she is too tall, in the end if she's that shallow - she's not worth it. Same with short girls who are only looking for tall guys to date - to me a shallow girl is not worth the time or the effort.

You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.

 

[10inchadvantage]

You my friend are a genius. I'm a fresHydromaxan in college. My major is nursing and at my college they group like majors together in the classes at an attempt to keep more students motivated and in college. In some classes I'm the only guy. I've noticed a big increase in my confidence. I'm usually an introvert but I've noticed that lately I tell more jokes and I am more talkative. I think any short guy should follow your advice b/c I'm 5'4 or 5'5 and I still have a lot of girls flirt with me.

Those are some great odds, man. Just be glad you're not in engineering!

 

[TheFlame19]

Haha,

Thanks for agreeing with me man. When I walk through the nursing faculty at my university it is crazy how many girls look my way, it's just because the odds there are so good. This strongly agrees with my point that meeting many women helps you 'do better'.

 

[aeroth]

Well I see the problem because when I was in high school/middle school I was the 2nd shortest guy in my class (yes luckily there was another guy shorter) but at the same time I guess it's because I didn't care or maybe cause we were so young it didn't matter about height, but I dated WAY more during this time of my life.


Now I'm about 6'2" and I do have a serious relationship but it's the first I've had in at least 6 years. I think height isn't as big of a deal girls can sense it's a sore spot for you and it kills your confidence. If you can shake it off with humor do so...if a girl says "oh your to short" just tell her she doesn't have to lay down for you to please her orally....and hell if she tries to slap you she'll probably swing to high so you're golden.


All jesting aside though just try to be happy with who you are and whatever girl sees that and wants to be a part of that happiness will be better than any "model" 5'10" girl in the world...

 

[Long Duck Dong]

Theres a difference between what women say they want. Then, what they react to!!!

 

[alwaystrying]

Yep, I'd say most women say ideal height of a guy is 5'11" to 6'2" which is a very thin spectrum considering all of the other height possibilities. I'm 5'9" so I fall out of that spectrum, but hey, fuck it. Don't ever let a woman get you down. Seriously. I know it's natural to have some concern, but life is good no matter what as long as you are you. I know I know this won't get you to be the stud of the earth, but believe me true happiness is within, everyone's got issues. Take one of my best friends, 6'1", built, good lookin dude. We've shared many chicks and he's got somewhat of a small wang, and he's even told me he's got issues about it cuz all the women expect him to be packin serious heat, and he's not. I'd venture to guess he's 5 or maybe 6 inches long and thin, prob below 5" in girth, and here I am, wishhing I was 3 inches taller but bigger in the pants. That's life. Just remember life is a gift, be grateful. Keep pushin.