why women prefer girth

[tenalready]

The following information comes from the work of Masters & Johnsons and researches thereafter.
The human sexual response goes thru 4 phases; excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. In the plateau phase, females go through what is called "orgasmic plateau". This is the outer 1/3 of the vaginal wall becomes engorged with blood hence making it a tighter and more sensitive fit. Studies indicate that a woman cannot go thru the orgasm phase unless she first has orgasmic plateau.
Another interssting physiological change is that the inner 2/3 rd of the vaginal canal actually expands (balloons so to speak). So length is not really an issue because all your hitting is open space.
So in a nut shell...length is good for looks and girth is good for sex.

starting stats 6 in EL, 4.75 EG ( approx 2007)
current stats 7.25 EL, 5.25 EG (June 2009)

 

[REDZULU2003]

I would agree with you here but some women do like A-spot ''Cul de sac' orgasms, U-Spot orgasms which is the Skene's gland and easy to locate and hit .. its this which gets girls to ejaculate. You've also got the Rectouterine pouch and if your long enough, some woman apparently like the uterus touching and can get a uterus orgasm from it and literally piss everywhere so the very long guys can use it still but than again the amount of men that are actually anygood in bed you can count on ONE HAND and are as rare as hens teeth!! how do I know? well I dont sleep with men so dont fear, but from most of the women I have been with apart from the ones when I was much younger and shall we say ''fresh'' all comment that I'm like a sex god and so fantastic and make them so oragasmic I made the name Orgasmatron my nickname at one point when I when out with the lads pulling tail when I could.

The fact is that your technique counts allot and they wouldnt have made a song and dance about it if most other guys were good in bed on average and instead they are selfish pigs who dont want to truely explore a womens body ... they miss out.

Girth is important but I dont want people to misinterpret that and think I'm saying all get 7 inch girths because I aint. 6 inches girth is GREAT for most women and they will love it, thats very thick to them and great feeling from what I remember them telling me.

Girth spreads the pussy more and causes more friction and feeling of fullness for the women.

Do you have the study from where this info was gleamed from please?

 

[tenalready]

Thank you for that most informative reply. I never heard of the A or U spot....sounds interesting and I guess I am here to widen and extend my tool in order to explore these options. In so far as where I got the information.....it's text book information that can be found in any biological source under the heading " The Human Sexual Response".

 

[longerandlonger]

Hey Red, you should start giving out sex tips to men lol. I would say im an average performer, not had much experience. Does your size limit which orgasms you can give a girl? I am currently 6" NBP x 4.75", so the best 'spot' for me to aim for would be the G-spot right? As I dont have the length to hit the deeper places.

 

[REDZULU2003]

My size never limits me. You can reach most places on a girl depending how deep she is you can have an average sized length penis and hit the cervix, its different with each women but not nearly as deep like some think.

G-spot is easier to do with the fingers and in doggy position.

 

[longerandlonger]

Ive read loads of people and articles saying that G-spot is easier to find in the doggy position but I dont understand the science behind it. Surely the g-spot is located along the front wall of the vagina? Therefore as very few people have a down curvature to their penis, wouldnt the penis be hitting the back wall so to speak?

 

[b_sin]

great info here. I've heard of the A spot but never of the U spot

 

[REDZULU2003]

great info here. I've heard of the A spot but never of the U spot

I dont think most women have either I remember when I did care work and its mainly a female trade and I was chatting with some staff at break about sexual things like you do anyways they were going on about g-spots, so I started talking about A spots, U spots and Skene's gland etc rofl they were like :O and didnt know what to say or think. Thoughts imo were like this guy is very wise or very fucking weird. I did get interest when I was talking about it and they were like how do you hit that than tell us? so I did :s they were speachless because I, a man knew more about the female sexual organ than they did ... they learned how to have several different types of orgasms that day

The U-Spot is EASY to find mate, its almost sick .... easier to find than the G-Spot thats for sure and in a nutshell the U-spot is the sensitive skin around the uretha or pee hole and if you hit it at the right time, you can make a squirter out of anyone, its known in the medical world as SKENE'S GLAND or the FEMALE PROSTATE.

 

[tenalready]

Wow...I like your style...always thinking with your head....i mean "ahead" .

I will definetly explore these new female errogenous spots. Thanks Mate!rofl

 

[phaseshift]

so red how do we mess with this U-Spot and when is the right time

 

[REDZULU2003]

Hi, I shall copy what I said previous in this thread

U-spot is the sensitive skin around the uretha or pee hole and if you hit it at the right time, you can make a squirter out of anyone, its known in the medical world as SKENE'S GLAND or the FEMALE PROSTATE.

When is the right time you ask? well it depends on various variables out of my control incl but not limited to the womens arousal, your experience, your technique etc etc but I have found women very responsive to this in a shortime but obviously you wouldnt shoot down to the vagina once her knickers were off and if you did than its usually classed as rude or/and boyish, not the act of a man so makesure you work youway down to her vagina and tease her with lots of touching & kissing etc.

Once your down on it, keep teasing ... dont go in for the kill yet just keep getting her to beg you for it. Lick the inner lips and move your way around them slowly than towards the uretha and than to the U-spot and gently circle it with your tongue ... do whatever you fancy and go with the flow.

If she really likes that being played with and shes whats I call U-spotasmic than try with your free hand to rub her clit ... lube the fingers up beforehand with spit and gently stimuate that clit while still licking her U-spot.

She will MOAN like fuck by now so keep doing it and with the other free hand get that inside her vagina and find her g-spot .... better to have learned all three at seperate dates so not learning them all in one go hahaha but once you do this all at the sametime, which I have done ifnact, you will give her the best orgasms she will ever have as with patience and time because it takes awhile with women .. she will get a clitoral, Female prostate [U-spot, Skanes gland] & G-spot orgasms .. all at the SAMETIME ... can you imagine how that feels? how she would WORSHIP you forever! take it from me, women remember these things to the grave and forget big cocks, because once you master this shit she will be like ''Whats a big cock'' ... hope that helps.

ciao

 

[longerandlonger]

so you U-spot is sensitive skin around the urethra? So its outside the vagina and best 'hit' with your tongue whilst also finding her clit and g-spot with your fingers?

 

[DLD]

Both length and girth serve certain purposes. Both add pleasure to a sexual experience.

 

[Thunder9]

aha reds last post is GOLD