I agree! She's always been supportive, no matter what.....not just with PE, but every day shit...... But, if you commit to this.....you're starting a process, to change the one most intimate thing, and, in most cases anyway, the one thing that you and her only share basically........so, in my mind, there are only two scenarios..........either you half ass, and she never notices, which means, you really didn't gain.........or, hey.....women aren't stupid......they know, as a 40yr old man, it's not going to naturally grow!! So, if you go all in, and you do get substantial gains, and don't get caught red handed, or from your equipment........she WILL notice! If she doesn't, what's the point people!!!! I mean, how can a married man, have a 2" gain goal, and try to hide the process it will take to get there???? I've always wondered what the difference is with some people.......the difference between some of us, who have made substantial gains, and those that claim to have been doing PE for years, without gains at all.........I'm beginning to wonder, if that isn't the difference! I know how hard I've worked for the gains I've gotten, in the last 6 months, and I'm pretty confident, that there's no way I could've gotten them, without being transparent about the whole thing! There is no way, I could've kept up my aggressive routine, and kept it a secret!! So.....lol, I think from now on, when somebody asks, "how have you gained so much, in such a short time", I'm gonna just say, "I told my wife"! 😂 I'm not trying to discourage anybody, that for whatever reason, just absolutely can't share it.....I say get in what you can, when you can......but, I am ENCOURAGING most guys out there, that are hiding it, just cause they are too awkward about it, to discuss that shit!!! I promise, it will pay off, and I really believe, you will gain more faster!!! Hey......just my 2 cents........good luck brothers......we'll all get there, if we put in the work!!!!