Vaginas come in a wide variety of shapes & sizes. They can be tighter, deeper etc. genetically regardless of any sexual experience. I believe from my experience and from talking with many women, most can handle a good bit of girth but few can handle a lot of length. And both factors contribute, the thicker the penis the less length they can take. Yes, there are some "cow pussies" and "size queens" but not many women can take all of a real NBP 8 x 6. And fewer still can handle 9 x 7 or larger. I think that a lot of erotic stories are pure bullshit, like the tight young chick who's never had a big dick taking a 10 incher all the way to the balls. Even most adult entertainment actresses can't take a huge dick, I've read that some refuse to work with anyone over 8". I've seen several clips of Mandingo, and only in one did I see a chick who could take him all the way. Yes, there are exceptions, and some women who get into really stretching themselves with fisting or using extreme toys. But on average I think about 7" - 8" length and 6+" girth is the upper limit if you want to be able to "bury the bone."