The Double Edged Sword Of PE

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robjeremy

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Penis Enlargement has been a Double Edged sword for me. I'm quite a bit bigger now then when I met my wife. As of late I have been bottoming out really good and she just goes crazy like I have never seen before.

It makes me kind of sad because I know that she is not excited by who I naturally was but what I made myself out too be. I'm starting to think that she was a size queen before I knew her. The bigger it gets the more she likes it. Except for anal that is she wont do that anymore>:(

What are you thoughts on this?
 
What does her 'going crazy' when you bottom out have to do with her feelings for you now or previously? You've gotten bigger so you're stimulating a different part of her, bringing a different reaction. This is a usually a good thing. Just because it never happened for her with you, doesn't mean it ever happened for her with someone else either. You might try talking to her about it before assuming something based on guesswork and causing harm to your relationship.

As for no anal, once again communication and patience. It's not like you overnight sprouted a 3 inch bigger dick and it's completely new to her, unless anal sex was only a once every six month type of occurrence to begin with. You have to take it slow and let her get used to your growth.
 
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Think of it this way. You love your wife as she is.

If your wife lost 40 pounds, assuming she is overweight... Or if she got a boob job, assuming she's small chested. Or whatever might add to what she is already. Would it change anything? You'd just get more of what you like.

My GF does yoga. I am so glad she does it. she has no idea I do Pe, yet she tells me how much she likes how I fuck her. I couldn't have done it with my old dick. A longer dick just gives you so much more to work with even when you aren't going for deep.

I'd say just hit it good and be glad she won't be looking for anything else anywhere else.
 
I think men have become paranoid thanks to these companies trying to make money off our insecurities. 99.9% of women seem to want a man and their penis is not the big deciding factor. Like these guys said, your wife is just experiencing something better about you. My wife still loved me when I lost a ton of weight and dropped to almost 110 pounds due to stress and lack of food. She enjoys me even more at a healthy 140. But you have to talk. 9 times out of 10, it's not what we think. Don't dwell on it, discuss it. As I said, you may be surprised.
 
AdmiralLongDong;329118 said:
Think of it this way. You love your wife as she is.

If your wife lost 40 pounds, assuming she is overweight... Or if she got a boob job, assuming she's small chested. Or whatever might add to what she is already. Would it change anything? You'd just get more of what you like.

My GF does yoga. I am so glad she does it. she has no idea I do Pe, yet she tells me how much she likes how I fuck her. I couldn't have done it with my old dick. A longer dick just gives you so much more to work with even when you aren't going for deep.

I'd say just hit it good and be glad she won't be looking for anything else anywhere else.
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I really like your posts man, you have good perspectives. Sending you some good karma brah.
 
Ya I hear what you are saying just sometimes I feel down that only now am I really pleasing her and not as God made me.

Ya the anal thing is only like once or twice a year if I'm lucky, but after last time she said no more my head is too big!
 
This line of thought will eventually destroy your relationship...listen to what these guys are saying or you may find yourself alone with a big dick.
 
Rob,

A good sexual relationship has to do with communication--that's what these guys are telling you. I'm sure with your gains from P.E., you feel much better about yourself. Your wife has surely picked up on that. It's how YOU feel about YOURSELF that makes a difference in a relationship.

Don't look this gift horse in the mouth. Get out of your head and just enjoy it.
 
Before Penis Enlargement I never really measured my girth but my length was about 4.5 and I'm guessing girth was about 4.5 as well.

Now I'm 6.35 from the top (I used to measure from the side) my girth is 4.95 to 5 depending on how hot I am and My Head is 5.25.

Pretty big change for myself and her.

She never supported my Penis Enlargement and now I have to do it in secret. I need to get my head strait for sure I don't want to mess up my marriage.

Thanks for the advice

-Rob
 
I do my P.E. in secret. I do it for myself. But the Mrs. benefits from it. She would be aghast if she new I continue to get a longer, thicker dick from my P.E. effort. I am doing this for myself. Yet she benefits from it. Perhaps some day she will realize it. For now, she thinks that my dick is growing like our noses and ears--from aging. So be it!!

:P
 
hahaha thats great.

I think women see it as a lack of confidence in yourself, and they are typically turned off by that.

Lack of confidence or not, they benefit from it, so they should shut up about it :)
 
longhorns87;329232 said:
hahaha thats great.

I think women see it as a lack of confidence in yourself, and they are typically turned off by that.

Lack of confidence or not, they benefit from it, so they should shut up about it :)
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I don't know about that, would they see going to the gym as a lack of self confidence?

As to the original question. OP, if you went to the gym and your GF started squeezing your muscles and wanted to fuck more often, would you be insulted? I see no difference in the two!
 
^^ Maybe so.

I bodybuild too (not necessarily competing yearround but I live the lifestyle. Diet/training) and I have been called out on it as being insecure, so perhaps so.
 
I think it really boils down to the woman's insecurities more than anything else. The think if you make your body better that some other woman might find out and want to fuck you.
 
robjeremy;329311 said:
I think it really boils down to the woman's insecurities more than anything else. The think if you make your body better that some other woman might find out and want to fuck you.
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Stange as it may be, some women will become envious of youe pe as if it were another woman.
 
Well women also want a man's time and Penis Enlargement to most women seems like a waste of time. My wife finally realized it was important to me and stopped getting on to me.
 
It does sound like there is a little jealousy involved here. I think most women want as much quality time with their man as they can get. P.E., working out at the gym, etc. does take time and some women probably see this as a kind of competition. But once they understand that we are improving our dicks and our bodies (and minds) in general, it should certainly relieve their anxiety. After all, if we feel better about ourselves and our bodies (and our penises), our relationship (sexual and otherwise) with our partners can only benefit from this.
 
So true... As much as it seems your woman has a misunderstanding of this "Penis Enlargement" stuff, maybe there's a reason for her feelings. Perhaps she doesn't feel like she's getting the quality time. Who knows. Since cutting back on school and stretching things out a bit, I've had a lot more time with my family and my wife seems less protective of my free time.
 
I would understand how that would bug a person your wife/girlfriend is saying size dosen't matter I don't care how big it is and then yours gets bigger over time and she is like oh I really like this you would think wow what was wrong before or like working out I work out like crazy now and gotten in better shape and girls check me out like crazy and even me my girlfriend said she never thought she would have a 9 inch boyfriend and I got thicker and she noticed the difference and make a comment on how she liked it it happens to anyone as even DLD says just go with it be proud of your penis you only got one
 
I would understand how that would bug a person your wife/girlfriend is saying size dosen't matter I don't care how big it is and then yours gets bigger over time and she is like oh I really like this you would think wow what was wrong before or like working out I work out like crazy now and gotten in better shape and girls check me out like crazy and even me my girlfriend said she never thought she would have a 9 inch boyfriend and I got thicker and she noticed the difference and make a comment on how she liked it it happens to anyone as DLD says just go with it be proud of your penis you only got one, my fav quote is well fuck you go join another site take some time to invest in your penis people. Its so very true DLD is a Penis Enlargement God he created the exercises that work and make your penis bigger and stronger and it will build your confidence.
 
AxeMaster911;329384 said:
my fav quote is well fuck you go join another site take some time to invest in your penis people. Its so very true DLD is a Penis Enlargement God he created the exercises that work and make your penis bigger and stronger and it will build your confidence.
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I remember that quote. I thought people would see it in a bad way after I said it but I am not one to hold back an opinion whether it is on the forum or in a world interview.
 
I like it very down to the point people need to fuckin wake up and realize if they want something them done they have to do it themselves and yes it may take time but its worth it other then what genetics give us if we want more we have to push ourselves plus other sites seem to be more scam less results so they would be stupid to move elsewhere I have been promoting your site and exercises like crazy
 
AxeMaster911;329427 said:
I have been promoting your site and exercises like crazy
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Thanks and I wish more would. This site, and others like it, are truly revolutionary and a growth in new members will only bring us to greater successes in exercises and understanding.
 
Having a bigger dick does make me feel good so I think that's the bottom line. It makes me feel good so I'll not let anyone else get me worried.

thanks
 
yes that is a good point but I have a big dick and this friend of my girlfriend says he his 9 inches and girls either say he is really big or really small no in between and he is wanting to screw my gf the second we break up, my gf doesn't care I don't think but this guy wants to compete with me over cock size wow he doesn't have mattersofsize and doesn't know I am already 9 inches he is a prick, has this ever happened to anyone a guy trying to compete with you over penis size
 
AxeMaster911;329578 said:
yes that is a good point but I have a big dick and this friend of my girlfriend says he his 9 inches and girls either say he is really big or really small no in between and he is wanting to screw my gf the second we break up, my gf doesn't care I don't think but this guy wants to compete with me over cock size wow he doesn't have mattersofsize and doesn't know I am already 9 inches he is a prick, has this ever happened to anyone a guy trying to compete with you over penis size
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Kick his ass?
 
AxeMaster911;329578 said:
yes that is a good point but I have a big dick and this friend of my girlfriend says he his 9 inches and girls either say he is really big or really small no in between and he is wanting to screw my gf the second we break up, my gf doesn't care I don't think but this guy wants to compete with me over cock size wow he doesn't have mattersofsize and doesn't know I am already 9 inches he is a prick, has this ever happened to anyone a guy trying to compete with you over penis size
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Lol no.

I hear that all the time though. People claiming they have a 10 inch dick. I knew one guy that did and I had talked to this girl that messed around with him and said it was no bigger than 6..lol
 
It seems that guys that claim they have a 10 inch dick when they are really much smaller are setting themselves up for failure and obviously have low self esteem.

I mean if some shallow whore actually sleeps with him just because she thinks he will have a big dick and it turns out to be a lie, she will just laugh at him and tell her friends he has a little pee pee.
 
Alpha Effusion;329609 said:
I mean if some shallow whore actually sleeps with him just because she thinks he will have a big dick and it turns out to be a lie, she will just laugh at him and tell her friends he has a little pee pee.
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The guy might be saying HA HA thinking he just got some bitch to fuck him for her shallow ways.
 
No, I would guess that he is more than likely not 9 inches.

I really didn't have a clue on the correct way to measure and true size until I came to this site.

I was one of those guys measuring from teh side sticking the ruler into my groin :)
 
AxeMaster911;329578 said:
yes that is a good point but I have a big dick and this friend of my girlfriend says he his 9 inches and girls either say he is really big or really small no in between and he is wanting to screw my gf the second we break up, my gf doesn't care I don't think but this guy wants to compete with me over cock size wow he doesn't have mattersofsize and doesn't know I am already 9 inches he is a prick, has this ever happened to anyone a guy trying to compete with you over penis size
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What a loser. The guy is more than likely much smaller than he claims. I only think this because his methods for competing with you make him look very insecure.
 
Listen up man,

You have absolutely NO reason to be saddened by this. You should be doing Penis Enlargement for yourself first and foremost before anything and anyone. You are embarking a quest to improve your own life. This is the same as hitting the gym to lose weight/get muscle and stacking and making a lot of money. If your lady or any lady is not with you trying to better your life then you need to find another one who is. It's all about how YOU feel about YOU. That's all that matters. All that she fell in love w/ the old you stuff has no bearings on reality. This is life. Keep up the good work and keep it moving.
 
Man,I soon hope I will have issues like this with women,since right now I have no social life whatsoever as I want to make my goals with Penis Enlargement (due to insecurities). Just to be around women again would be nice. Sorry ,I just had to get that out. Anyway AxeMaster911, dude your HUGE!! ...So I would'nt even think about being worried. If I had your size I would be ecstatic right now, but of course continue for more for myself!!
 
penisbuilder;329772 said:
Man,I soon hope I will have issues like this with women,since right now I have no social life whatsoever as I want to make my goals with Penis Enlargement (due to insecurities). Just to be around women again would be nice. Sorry ,I just had to get that out. Anyway AxeMaster911, dude your HUGE!! ...So I would'nt even think about being worried. If I had your size I would be ecstatic right now, but of course continue for more for myself!!
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No problem bro, fear in fear out. if you afraid of girl, to approach and talk to her, you can handle that fear in matter of minutes, in security of your own home, and never fear again .. check it http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49196
 
It took my girl 5 months to say something but hearing it is incredible.
 
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