She Wants it Rough...REALLY Rough

[GOMER_PYLE]

I was video chatting with my woman the other night and we were talking about sex. What surprised me and made me uncomfortable was that she said she wanted me to rape her. Next time I see her, she wants me to be really rough and mean with her...to punish her basically. Is that shit normal? She wants me to squeeze her ass and tits really hard, not just aggressively. She wants me to pound her hard and deep as fast as I can while slapping her all over and pinning her down. She wants me to keep going and try to make her hurt even if she tells me to stop.

I can't remember all that she said but the main point is that she doesn't want it rough, she wants it damn near violent. Should I do it? Is this normal behavior? Hell, I'm wondering if I am capable of that kind of aggression. She seemed to get offended by the look on my face when she got through telling me what she wanted me to do to her. I guess I looked freaked out.

I mean, I can understand being aggressive and somewhat rough but she is wanting me to take it to a whole new level. Hmm...?

 

[MAXAMEYES]

She doesn't want to be ABUSED.
She wants to lose absolute control.

There's a very fine, yet very real difference.

And as she loses her control....you are to take over.
A situation like this is much less (usually) about "punisHydromaxent" THAN IT IS ACTUALLY ABOUT TRUST.

She doesn't want to just give you the pussy; she wants you to take it.
It's a fine line to walk but; you can be rough, you can be "punishing"....hell, you can even be brutal....without! Being "abusive".

Talk while you're fucking her, once the heat's up properly, of course. The dirtiest, nastiest, filthiest, most graphically descriptive shit that comes to mind.
My Ol' Lady LOVES the way I growl in her ear as I'm treating her like my li'l whore.

She doesn't want you to treat her BAD.....she wants you to make her YOURS.

Go slow and pay close attention!
And, good luck.

 

[GOMER_PYLE]

Ha ha alright man, thanks. That is one thing I've yet to do since losing my virginity...take absolute control and just make her mine. Thanks for putting that spin on what she said. I didn't realize that is what she meant but it makes perfect sense.

 

[Turnover]

Are you sure shes a REAL female? That sounds a little beyond sick, for a chick at least, I would decide if it was really a girl first and not some queer fantasy of some weirdo online. Sounds like a guy wants you to "grab 'her' butt and 'pound' it..." uh uh

 

[DLD]

Be careful, she may want to pin you with a rape charge!

 

[mano22]

I am a paranoid type so would record a convo with her beforehand and while i pound her too (just in case she calls rape or something. she probably wont but thats my paranoid self - lol). of course in the convo have a word to mean stop for real (like a code word in case you get a little too rough!)

I would love a chick to want me to do that!

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Oh..... where has the romance gone?

 

[DLD]

Oh..... where has the romance gone?

Right? The internet is responsible for so many desensitized freaks!

 

[DLD]

When we were kids the closest you could get to seeing sex was a magazine or a 8 mm tape...

 

[Turnover]

I remember once at a very young age a friend of mine and I climbed on the top of a building that was a shopping center. We walked over to this open cubby where someone had been living and there were dried up old pornos in there. Those were my earliest wacking days and my parents ended up finding them under my mattress. Bad hiding place hahah. And I remember the girls had long curly hair and furry bushes

 

[DLD]

I remember once at a very young age a friend of mine and I climbed on the top of a building that was a shopping center. We walked over to this open cubby where someone had been living and there were dried up old pornos in there. Those were my earliest wacking days and my parents ended up finding them under my mattress. Bad hiding place hahah. And I remember the girls had long curly hair and furry bushes

I found my first mag in the woods behind my Uncles house. I was very confused when I first saw what nudity way.

 

[rakas]

Dude.. Did you do this??

I would love to be able to do that provided that we used a safeword to stop properly such as .... elephant (unless she compares your dick to one its never going to mistakenly come up).

I don't think i would go as far as chocking or slapping the face like in some adult entertainment however forcing and making her gag on the cock ect.. would be great as well as really spanking her ass.

I think if you like been dominant then this would be really great, if you like the girl in control then probably not.

 

[specsto]

I would say take it easy at first, until you know the girl. I have been with my girl for 1year and a half and we are talking about getting serious. I know her now though and we take turns being dominant. I can't lie I love when she chokes the shit out of me and cums while on me. I don't choke her but I pull hair, slap ass and make her beg and tell me who's ass it is. I you have the right woman it is all fun and foreplay, pretty much part of the experience.

DLD

I too found my first mags with a bunch of friends in a forest. Later I saw Debbie as my first adult entertainment star video from a friends fathers collection. Then a young Traci Lords who was like 16 when she started (my personal guess). Actually the first time a seen a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words] was in a adult entertainment movie. 70's adult entertainment was very different from today's and at that time guys weren't hung and the woman still loved it. Taboo had to be the most controversial adult entertainment I had seen at that time. Even though it was fake, during that time I had no idea.

 

[REDZULU2003]

I had two girls in my life who loved it hardcore and likes giving it back I loved them hitting me with a belt across the back and ass, they were amazingly attractive with one being a Russian model. Imagine perfect Russian beauty but she was brutal. She liked to bite my penis and that weirdly turned me on as she was SO sexy and looked so into it that it made me so aroused as she bit into my fat shaft. Many times she would dig her nails hard and very deep into my chest and back which marked me and drew blood but it was FANTASTIC ... I in return scrated her ass, spanked he till it was blood red and pounded her pussy till she squirted everywhere and couldnt walk straight. We even tied ourselves up and used various whips incl a Buffallo whip on my ass but that was too painful ... VERY painful indeed.

I dont see it as bad but many would think we were weird or perverted for doing this. Now and again its cool but I couldn't do it all the time otherwise I'd not be able to sit down for weeks and aswell the girl couldn't either.

Something she loved and I loved doing was biting her ass cheeks really hard while fingering her on all fours, she loved it ... this was a very hard bite, it sometimes drew blood but made us both cum so hard.

 

[Medicating]

I'd stick to what Max said up the top there and look at what Red's saying.

She wants you to take full control and she wants you to be rough in terms of pleasure. She doesn't want a broken nose and her two front teeth knocked out. She wants to feel like she is powerless to you and that she has no control at all. You may well find pleasure in it too.

My current girlfriend and I smack two shits out of each other about when we really go for it, but i've never had as much pleasure as when we do. Unfortunately at college we can't really do it as of room mates, but if we check into a hotel we always do it. The biting, slapping, grabbing of throats, the dirty talk, the scratching, the pushing, the slamming against walls and furniture and the very rough nature of what we're doing just builds up to a crazy climax. The bruises fade and the pleasure is well worth it.

... I'd just say don't hit her in the face. Unless she wants you to.

 

[dickerschwanz]

Well there is rough and their is pain.
Walking that line is fun. In essence she is trusting you very much.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Yep that Russian chic I had used to slap me across the face and ask me to fuck her harder .. harder .. HARDER. I never hit her in the face though, didnt actually like mine hit tbh.

 

[Girth Hammer]

If anything her wanted it rough is a great sign.

1. She is telling you what she wants. most woman want us to be mind readers and give zero communication on what they want. Be happy she is willing to tell you.
2. She trust(loves) you. she want you to "own" her. Some girls look at letting their guy do them silly as a way of giving themselves entirly to you. My lady told me she only did missionary before me. She does EVERYTHING now, cause she wanted to try it all for me.
3. plain and simple......most girls just want to be fucked senseless......Enjoy it! There is a time for lovey dovey and there is a time to drill. DRILL AWAY rofl

 

[bjembe]

Yep that Russian chic I had used to slap me across the face and ask me to fuck her harder .. harder .. HARDER. I never hit her in the face though, didnt actually like mine hit tbh.

hahaha! I think that might be a symptom of watching too much rocco siffredi. He loves to slap woman that guy, can be a bit too rough at times.

 

[REDZULU2003]

lol yeah he is and so to Nacho Vidal ... not really my thing the face but an ass YES .. will slap that with the belt if she wants

 

[DLD]

Jen used to beat the shit out of me, not really during sex though

 

[bjembe]

lol. Nacho, he wants to fuck every woman in the ass that guy. I understand where you coming from red cause I'm an ass man as well. I'll have a woman, ass over tits any day everyday So doing some ass spanking its just in our DNA, however I've done some face slapping as well, sometimes it has to be done

@ DLD lol you should have used that sword mate, and tell her never come empty-handed in a sword fight . Now where you decide to poke her, is up to you lol.

 

[johnydepp]

Oh GOD . some women really like rough at extreme level. hehehe ... but some doesn`t . So dude enjoy . Actually some men also like rough .

 

[DLD]

@ DLD lol you should have used that sword mate, and tell her never come empty-handed in a sword fight . Now where you decide to poke her, is up to you lol.

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Yeah, but I would be serving 10-15 for assault with a deadly weapon

 

[AdmiralLongDong]

Some like it rough. Real rough. I was talking to a friend and she's all crazy over this guy she's with, but it took her a long time to get him to choke her during sex and that's what she loves.

Just be careful, no real choking. Just grab her neck and hold her down by it while you fuck her.


I'd say some really deep throat fucking may be in order too. Have fun.

 

[MikeShlort]

Women love being treated like filthy cock whores.
The Disney princess does not exist.
They want big cock, they want plenty of it, and they want it hard and fast. The more the better.
Women love to sit there and be entertained, so what better than just lying on her back and being dominated without having to do anything?
That's why women love big cock. They want to feel it, for it to hurt, and they want to know they have the biggest dick pounding them of all their friends. Women love to brag.

 

[MikeShlort]

What happened to your revelation that you should try to approach things in a positive way??

It went for a shit.

 

[DLD]

Women love being treated like filthy cock whores. Women love to brag.

pretty broad statements

 

[MikeShlort]

Well make sure it wipes well. When it gets back try to make amends and forgive yourself for your misgivings.

Haha. It will, but I'm sure there will be willnots that will rear their ugly heads in the future. I apologize in advance.

 

[MikeShlort]

Ah, the dreaded willnots! Never had that problem unless I wet the toilet paper, but I use moist wipes now and it's smooth sailing for me. Also, if you trim your hair down there you shouldn't have this problem.

I can't believe I just made a post about willnots. What's next for me? A philosophical look into skid marks, which I don't believe in? There's just grown adults too lazy to wipe properly.

Next week we will focus on the taint. An often neglected subject, but we here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] are always hip to what's happening on the streets and paving the way for full disclosure!

I still can't figure out how women can wear g string and not get skid marks.
They must carry around baby wipes. Or know some advanced loaf-pinching technique.

 

[DLD]

I still can't figure out how women can wear g string and not get skid marks.
They must carry around baby wipes. Or know some advanced loaf-pinching technique.

Perhaps they wash after each time they shit. That is what I do.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Teflon

 

[DLD]

Teflon

That would be awesome!

 

[MAXAMEYES]

And where in the Hell is good ol' Gomer to let us all know how well our advice has been working for 'im ( and HER) all this while?

Chime in boy and tell us of your successes.

(Because failure ain't an option!)

 

[DLD]

And where in the Hell is good ol' Gomer to let us all know how well our advice has been working for 'im ( and HER) all this while?

Chime in boy and tell us of your successes.

(Because failure ain't an option!)

So many start with a question and disappear into the web again...I always wonder if they know how polar their threads are. I bump old threads occasionally to get the users to return and give us an update, it works sometimes.

 

[MikeShlort]

And where in the Hell is good ol' Gomer to let us all know how well our advice has been working for 'im ( and HER) all this while?

Chime in boy and tell us of your successes.

(Because failure ain't an option!)

He went a little too rough so she killed him.

 

[DLD]

He went a little too rough so she killed him.

lol, that could be what happened...maybe he is doing time

 

[MAXAMEYES]

This thread should have enough bumps to look just like a French Tickler !

 

[DLD]

 

[rakas]

Shame there has been no update from him.

I agree with many of the posts here, i think it illustrates a degree of trust (though one night stands are up for it so not sure) and i also agree with the bragging rights point, whilst they may not brag verbally many women light the satisfaction of knowing they have a 'superior mate' as in some ways it illustrates an alpha male effect. In the same way as a teenage girl wants an older boyfriend, many women light to be dominated with a big cock. Instances like this take it even further.

I have to say that i'm not sure i could be as willing as you guys were the roles reversed, i love been in control sexually and the thought of dominating a little sexy woman is a massive turn on but i don't think i'd like to be spanked myself ect..

I've actually been suprised over time just how many women have these kinky urges, the English certainly are not repressed anymore. From my own prospective i did go some way over 2 years ago now because my GF at the time did'nt like blowjobs and thought anal was disgusting.. or so i thought. After a few months i convinced her to try anal and spanking and she loved it, it also turned out that whist she thought blowjobs made her 'dirty', they also really turned her on especially when i made her gag/deepthroat.

 

[DLD]

Bump Bump Bump

 

[bty84]

wife told me last night she wants me to be rough with her....this is 1000% against the type of guy i am.

I have done my fair bit of spanking. I choke her a little bit and have tried slapping her, i am just worried of hurting her. I'm 6'5 330.....

This I believe correlates with her rape fantasy.... a fine line in my book

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

This I believe correlates with her rape fantasy.... a fine line in my book

sounds like the proverbial 'slippery-slope' and I'm curious as to why this 'fantasy' is so pervasive...I've had several women confide that this (or similar) act is a turn-on...

 

[BIGDADDYBOOTYBREAKER]

wife told me last night she wants me to be rough with her....this is 1000% against the type of guy i am.

I have done my fair bit of spanking. I choke her a little bit and have tried slapping her, i am just worried of hurting her. I'm 6'5 330.....

This I believe correlates with her rape fantasy.... a fine line in my book

She can go to the cops and tell them you beat her up or tried to rape her and you are fucked.

#nevertrustahoe

 

[DLD]

sounds like the proverbial 'slippery-slope' and I'm curious as to why this 'fantasy' is so pervasive...I've had several women confide that this (or similar) act is a turn-on...

Exactly. Stay away from this type of playing, it could lead to very bad circumstances. Tell her to beat herself!