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So I've always been open with my wife about PE . I'm 7 so she has always told me I don't need it but she understands why i do t . I often am on the forum with her around . One day while messing around she saw the women's influence page and wanted to say hello to you guys . So here we go


Hey guys

I'm dreads wife I think it's cool that you guys are open enough to be here wanting to improve your self. I wanted to offer my services if you guys have any questions from a woman's view . Maybe something about preferences or maybe a question your not sure if you want to ask your wife/gf about go ahead and ask away .
 
K...I'll bite :)

I was speaking candidly with a FWB and I asked her how much penis size mattered to her and her response was something I'd never heard before. She said that her pleasure isn't size dependent (to a degree) but she felt more feminine with a man who 'filled her up' which in-turn allowed her to mentally 'let go'. Conversely, if she was with a partner that was smaller and she felt like there was 'extra' space, her focus would then shift to trying to make certain her positioning either shortened or tightened her vagina in order to maximize his pleasure.
Are women cognizant to that degree?
 
Well I can only speak for my self but when there is more room you definitely know that . And you will try to adjust your self for more pleasure . And if I guy is bigger and your more full you don't have to worry about that you can just let go and enjoy it more
 
...this is getting fun.

Have you, or do you know if you've had your posterior fornix (the deepest part of your vagina past the cervix) reached/stimulated and if so, how did you respond?
 
Yes I have it's position dependent and I'm pretty small so it's pretty easy for dread to reach . The sensation is good but I only really like it hitting there with slower sex . I find it pretty uncomfortable smashing hard hitting back there
 
my sweetie is very similar...once I get past her cervix she likes me to 'hold-steady' and when I flex/kegel in that deep-spot it can make her climax very quickly. I haven't been able to make her squirt, (there have been several women over the last couple years that can rather easily) but she's multi-orgasmic and that's just as fun.

do you like knowing that your man is 'larger' than the partners of your GF's?
 
That's pretty interesting. I only squirt when I have stimulation back there

Well as I'm sure most of you know women talk about the size of there partner and sex with friends . I do have 1 friend who's man is bigger than dread from what she says . But from what my friends says he can't keep it hard at all . Some females see it as a competition but to me dread knows my body knows what I love and his dick is plenty big so I don't care to much about my friends partners
 
how different we are as genders...where men will trade 'war stories' (often glamorized) about endeavors with random women, but when it comes to our SO or someone we love, it's always a vague 'she's great'. Women are the opposite, very rarely do they divulge their 'slut-stage' but will go on at length about their SO...in very graphic detail. Case-in-point that your friend who's man has a big cock gets 'disqualified' cuz he can't keep it up.

I've literally hundreds of questions, but I feel like I've already monopolized your offer...perhaps a few [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] members may have something to ask/add?
 
strangely thats true women keep alot of the more sluty stories to themselves but all females with talk about their SO easy

ask away the other fellas will ask when they are ready
 
...have you (or your GF's) encountered anyone that was 'too big' and you declined entry? too small? Has your experience crossed ethnic-lines? When you're fully aroused, what would you estimate the depth of your vagina to be?

(just of few questions that have been rattling-around 'the squirrel cage', lol
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745160 said:
...have you (or your GF's) encountered anyone that was 'too big' and you declined entry? too small? Has your experience crossed ethnic-lines? When you're fully aroused, what would you estimate the depth of your vagina to be?

(just of few questions that have been rattling-around 'the squirrel cage', lol

Me personally never to big and ive ran into 1 guy that was really small but i didnt turn him away i feel like im a kinda nice person so i wouldn't do that . I do have 1 friend who said he turned a guy away she is very small like 95lbs 4'11 so the guy might not have even been that big maybe just to big for her.

as far as what i can fit im not sure . Before dread made his gains he hit the back . Then when he gained i got used to it . I know her wants to gain more ( not sure how i will handle it ) but im sure i can get used to a certain amount im just not sure how much
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745236 said:
were you able to enjoy the experience w/the smaller guy? was there much/any feeling inside?

Well he ate pussy very well so there's that

He was maybe 3 inches so it wasnt very pleasing
 
I have heard women talk about odors from men. One is the "odor" of ejaculate. Supposedly, some women cannot stand how it smells. What is your personal experience? I've never noticed mine having much of an odor...maybe slightly like salt water at most, but I have had different women tell me over the years that it definitely had a smell to it.

How about genital smells? My wife sometimes says my testicles/balls smell "like biscuits".
 
stillwantmore2;745283 said:
I have heard women talk about odors from men. One is the "odor" of ejaculate. Supposedly, some women cannot stand how it smells. What is your personal experience? I've never noticed mine having much of an odor...maybe slightly like salt water at most, but I have had different women tell me over the years that it definitely had a smell to it.

How about genital smells? My wife sometimes says my testicles/balls smell "like biscuits".

Well everyone has a "smell" and alot of it has to do with what you eat . I'm sure you guys who have eaten girls out notice that if a females eats bad or smokes cigs her pussy taste/smells bad . Dread and I have been together for a while and I hadn't been with many guys before that but I don't think I've every smelled stinky cum myself but in convos with my friends I know some guys do

I've never smelled balls that smelled like biscuits
 
Italians balls small like Sausage Biscuits :)

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I actually think I have 100 questions to ask you but I will start with the most important one.

If my GF finds out I do PE after years of us being together. Do you think she should freak out on me for not telling her? We are very open with each other but there are some things I would like to keep to myself. There have been some...SOME women on here that are accepting of PE and I think that is so rare that I'm not even going to bother with it. Some people have been accepting of it for only a period of time. The ones that are eternally accepting of it are in my opinion winning lottery tickets.
 
Egghed;745589 said:
I actually think I have 100 questions to ask you but I will start with the most important one.

If my GF finds out I do PE after years of us being together. Do you think she should freak out on me for not telling her? We are very open with each other but there are some things I would like to keep to myself. There have been some...SOME women on here that are accepting of PE and I think that is so rare that I'm not even going to bother with it. Some people have been accepting of it for only a period of time. The ones that are eternally accepting of it are in my opinion winning lottery tickets.

you know her much better better than anyone here so if you personally think she will freak out im guessing she will . I myself wouldn't freakout but thats just me . I feel like there are much worese things you could be doing . At the end of the day your just trying to better your self i see it no different then going to the gym or reading

imo you should always be open i feel thats just the basis of a a successful relationship. To me i see dread just wanted to improve him self only thing i ever asked is him be careful. But thats the same i feel about anything he does. Im more worried about him when he does a jiujitsu torment then i am with pe .

Personally
 
I would think a GF/SO/Wife would question the motives of practicing PE (especially if the relationship is longer-term and there's a 'healthy' sex-life) she might start feeling insecure...or worse. We as men know (or should know) that when a woman gets a boob-job, it for dang-sure isn't for us, lol. (this i the only thing I could think of that would be analogous to PE)
 
DreadMan;745605 said:
you know her much better better than anyone here so if you personally think she will freak out im guessing she will . I myself wouldn't freakout but thats just me . I feel like there are much worese things you could be doing . At the end of the day your just trying to better your self i see it no different then going to the gym or reading

imo you should always be open i feel thats just the basis of a a successful relationship. To me i see dread just wanted to improve him self only thing i ever asked is him be careful. But thats the same i feel about anything he does. Im more worried about him when he does a jiujitsu torment then i am with pe .

Personally

[words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]Sigh[/words]...😓😖. Great answer thank you. It has made me a little sad.
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745616 said:
I would think a GF/SO/Wife would question the motives of practicing PE (especially if the relationship is longer-term and there's a 'healthy' sex-life) she might start feeling insecure...or worse. We as men know (or should know) that when a woman gets a boob-job, it for dang-sure isn't for us, lol. (this i the only thing I could think of that would be analogous to PE)

It's also important for use as women and men that what your SO does isn't necessary for or in spite of you . I'm working out really hard right now so I can show my abs . Will dread like that ? Yes I'm sure he will but it's more for me then anything . I want to accomplish something alot of people done . Dread wants a bigger dick once he gets to his goal I'm sure he won't be able to fit all of it inside me . So his goals are clearly not all about me . It's for him he wants it so I feel I have to support him in getting it

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Egghed;745626 said:
Sigh...😓😖. Great answer thank you. It has made me a little sad.

Don't be sad the way she reacts will tell you alot about your relationship .
 
DreadMan;745635 said:
Dread wants a bigger dick once he gets to his goal I'm sure he won't be able to fit all of it inside me . So his goals are clearly not all about me . It's for him he wants it so I feel I have to support him in getting it.

Good...Jesus...Lord this woman is immaculate ...💎. This has to be some practical joke Dread is playing on us 😍🤩. Is this so hard to ask for?!
 
Egghed;745646 said:
Is this so hard to ask for?!

Yes, yes it is.

Ms. Dread is the epitome of a Unicorn and as such, must be admired from afar and never coveted. Us mere mortals can only hope to glean insight and bask in her aura for whatever short-time she chooses to put-up with us :)
 
How many licks does it truly take Mrs.Dread? :)
 
Egghed;745646 said:
Good...Jesus...Lord this woman is immaculate ...💎. This has to be some practical joke Dread is playing on us 😍🤩. Is this so hard to ask for?!

This is dreadman

No not a joke I'm just a lucky guy
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745647 said:
Yes, yes it is.

Ms. Dread is the epitome of a Unicorn and as such, must be admired from afar and never coveted. Us mere mortals can only hope to glean insight and bask in her aura for whatever short-time she chooses to put-up with us :)

It shouldn't be that hard I'm just a normal chick trying to keep my man happy
 
DreadMan;745703 said:
It shouldn't be that hard I'm just a normal chick trying to keep my man happy

trust me on this one...you're far from normal.

generally what happens is a woman's insecurities will eventually out-rule her love/affection and begin to undermine her man...very gradually and almost imperceptibly. If he starts to do any self-improvement, she will take this as a reflection on her and the fact that he's not content and begin to sabotage his ability to take action. She will be more demanding of his free time, laden additional family obligations, all sorts of little things that eventually make it impossible to make positive changes (unless it's her idea and it rewards her/the family in some way).

here's an analogy I heard somewhere:

A guy is fishing for a mermaid from his beautiful boat using an expensive pole and lure. She likes his pole/lure/boat and allows herself to become captured...after a while she convinces him to get rid of that stuff that attracted her because he doesn't need it any longer. It makes sense so gone is the beautiful boat, expensive pole and lure. A few months/years go-by and the mermaid looks around and says, 'I'm outta here', your broke-ass doesn't even have a boat!

The story is only funny as it plays-out the male/female dynamic...so, Ms. Dread, you are no normal woman :)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;745726 said:
trust me on this one...you're far from normal.

generally what happens is a woman's insecurities will eventually out-rule her love/affection and begin to undermine her man...very gradually and almost imperceptibly. If he starts to do any self-improvement, she will take this as a reflection on her and the fact that he's not content and begin to sabotage his ability to take action. She will be more demanding of his free time, laden additional family obligations, all sorts of little things that eventually make it impossible to make positive changes (unless it's her idea and it rewards her/the family in some way).

here's an analogy I heard somewhere:

A guy is fishing for a mermaid from his beautiful boat using an expensive pole and lure. She likes his pole/lure/boat and allows herself to become captured...after a while she convinces him to get rid of that stuff that attracted her because he doesn't need it any longer. It makes sense so gone is the beautiful boat, expensive pole and lure. A few months/years go-by and the mermaid looks around and says, 'I'm outta here', your broke-ass doesn't even have a boat!

The story is only funny as it plays-out the male/female dynamic...so, Ms. Dread, you are no normal woman :)

I know there are a lot of women like that . I have friends who do the same things . But then in turn will get mad when the man they are with does the same or doesn't allow them to be free. Dread and I have an understanding that while we are together we are still serperate people . We don't have to do everything to together . I have no desire to see starwars dreads loves that shit so he can go alone or with his friends . Just like if I want to see a romcom I'm not going to drag him along . What these other women don't understand is your not going to lose your man for giving him freedom your going to lose him for locking him down . Best example dread and his cousin who are like brothers grew up loving wrestling they are going to WrestleMania next year . He wants to see football or basketball game go ahead . All of my girlfriends gave me shit . But why ?? They don't trust themselves so they don't trust the men they are with . I'm going on a cruise with dreads mom my mom and some other females in our family all dread ask was the days so he can take them off since can watch the kids . I truly don't think I'm special everything I've said makes sense and is the way it should be

Maybe I'll write a book for your guys wives and girlfriends
 
Lol you are far from being a normal chick. I told my GF that I was going to get rid of my Penile pearly Papules and she started crying asking me to please reconsider.
 
DreadMan;745886 said:
No one told me there's be math

Yes, there needs to be math but after recalculating and cross referencing against other equations I was able to determine that you are right, if done with proper density and propulsion you can get to the center in a single lick. I have also crunched these numbers with absolute zero and discovered that if swallowed whole it takes no licks to get to the center, just a deep throat :)
 
doublelongdaddy;745926 said:
Yes, there needs to be math but after recalculating and cross referencing against other equations I was able to determine that you are right, if done with proper density and propulsion you can get to the center in a single lick. I have also crunched these numbers with absolute zero and discovered that if swallowed whole it takes no licks to get to the center, just a deep throat :)

Apon further investigation your math is correct
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746382 said:
Are you able to achieve orgasm through intercourse and if so, what are your 'triggers' and how did you discover them?

yes i can and from what most of my friends say im lucky . Most of them needs some sort of clit simulation. Dread is the only man who made me cum from just intercourses. Ive been with 1 guy who was a bit bigger than dread ( before his gains now he is bigger ) . And he never mad be cum . So while size is important its not the be all end all . You have to know how to use it how to work it . Dread can tell when im almost there and he can motion it perfectly for what i need . So i would say maybe thats the trigger
 
sounds like you're reaping the benefits from Dread's hard work :) on that topic, are you able to discern an appreciable difference? has this boosted your interactions or changed things for the better? I ask cuz I think my SO suspects 'something is going on', but I always play it off by telling her 'it's just happy to see you' or that 'I've missed her'.

So...can your vagina detect these minute changes in size week/week or month/month?
 
Vaginal orgasms are difficult for most women, they rely on other stimulation to make it work. I was with one gal who needed no stimulation and had vaginal orgasms. I did like that as it made my job easier :) She also squirted like a whale!
 
For me, when my partner orgasms with me inside her it makes for a much more intimate experience. It's also funny how every single woman is vastly different from any other, especially when it comes to cumming. My current SO likes me to find her 'sweet-spot' in her posterior fornix and hold myself there while lightly kegeling...20 seconds of this and she blows.
A previous GF only liked partial penetration (maybe around 4" or so) and like to grind her G-spot against it. Listening to her movements and following her lead will generally bring you both to Nirvana
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746404 said:
sounds like you're reaping the benefits from Dread's hard work :) on that topic, are you able to discern an appreciable difference? has this boosted your interactions or changed things for the better? I ask cuz I think my SO suspects 'something is going on', but I always play it off by telling her 'it's just happy to see you' or that 'I've missed her'.

So...can your vagina detect these minute changes in size week/week or month/month?

Yes I can notice the difference a bit. But I think since you guys gain a little at a time there isn't a huge shock with gains . When dreads does his water pump i can really feel the difference but that's a pretty big jump in size
 
DreadMan;746462 said:
Yes I can notice the difference a bit. But I think since you guys gain a little at a time there isn't a huge shock with gains . When dreads does his water pump i can really feel the difference but that's a pretty big jump in size

what would you guess his girth is after a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] session? is your pleasure enhanced when he's in that condition?
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746464 said:
what would you guess his girth is after a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]BM[/words] session? is your pleasure enhanced when he's in that condition?

The only reason I know what his size is is because he tells me and we talk about his pe. He normally gets an inch gain from his bathmats . Which would put him at 6.25 . To be honest it's a little much I think his girth and length are perfect . He can already bottom out and the girth after [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] sometimes is a little much .
 
DreadMan;746473 said:
The only reason I know what his size is is because he tells me and we talk about his pe. He normally gets an inch gain from his bathmats . Which would put him at 6.25 . To be honest it's a little much I think his girth and length are perfect . He can already bottom out and the girth after [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]bathmate[/words] sometimes is a little much .

do you wait for the temp gains to subside, or just avoid it altogether? (joking)
 
Yes! I suspect my woman might think I'm growing but I think I can see her mind wrestling with "reality". The other days she said "whoaaa your hanging lower today hunnie". I practically left my car there and ran home on the highway to do another session. The motion was like an adrenaline shot to the heart.

How easy is it for you to tell the difference? As slow as I'm gaining, my woman's body is stretching along with me to accommodate my newer size. VERY interesting stuff

OH you answered already lol. Never mind.
 
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Egghed;746507 said:
The other days she said "whoaaa your hanging lower today hunnie". I practically left my car there and ran home on the highway to do another session. The motion was like an adrenaline shot to the heart.

Our SO's have no idea how much of a motivating factor it is to hear anything like that...what a rush!!
 
Big Schwanz Acht;746486 said:
do you wait for the temp gains to subside, or just avoid it altogether? (joking)

lol we have a few kids so when the available times shows im taking it regardless
 
Are you more impressed with length or girth? And why?
 
Also, what feels better overall? Length or girth? Let's assume the length isn't just trying to stab you and knows how to hit the right spots. Does having a lot of girth ever get "annoying" to deal with? Or is it always a win win?
 
to answer both of your questions girth ive dated guys with very little length and good girth and vice versa and i honestly feel the girth makes the biggest difference. Having a 10 inch dick is cool as a talking point but if i can only take half of it who cares but girth on the other hand matters
 
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