Masturbation problem

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Zambrodom3

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Hey guys! I am writing this to ask for your help. I am fighting premature ejaculation and currently doing the Stud- Maker- Drill created by SLICEBEEF ( http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...ATE-premature-ejaculation-quickly-and-forever! ). The problem I have is that when my masturbation exceeds 2-3 minutes (I try not to kegel or tense my muscles therefore keeping my body and mind relaxed) I loose EQ (especially the glans, the shaft continues being 70% or a little less erect, but the glans is gone) and if it exceeds 10-15 minutes I get really bad fluid buildup. Once I did this for 30-35 minutes and had SEVERE fluid buildup (must have been more than an inch) and it was really sore and hurt. It was there for 2 days. In fact, it was so severe, that I had a little difficulty peeing. Yesterday when I was having my stud maker drill session I masturbated for around 15 minutes (and ejaculated) and now, 24 hours after that my buildup has not gone away (and it is sore). What should I do to stop this shit??? I was thinking about adding some jelqs, but that would totally ruin my session. Thanks for the help and support in advance! :)
 
Not sure man. I guess I don't know what this stud maker is all about. Isnt it just edging to mind adult entertainment? Are you getting build up from jerking it? Hit me back.
 
I gave a link to the thread, but yes, it is like edging, but with the difference that when you edge you kegel to shut your orgasm down and when you do the drill- you masturbate and depending on your arousal level you change the intensity of your grip and slow down or speed up the pace. If you are interested in what it is- you have the link above in my 1st post and you can see what it is about :). No matter if I jerk or not I get the buildup. I can feel my cock getting more and more fluffy when in the act of masturbation. If any of the brothers can help me I would be very very thankful :).
 
As I stated in another thread, be sure, during edging and ballooning, and the like, you do not overstep your conscious in viewing material. Be cautious that pornography can become progressive in nature and cause more harm then good. Always keep in mind that desensitization can destroy your sex life and bring on obsessive issues. Find what your conscious finds to be ok for you and never go beyond this point. Edging, ballooning is all about lasting longer with better erections in sexual situations....do not allow yourself to suffer the pitfalls of the pornographic abyss.
 
I have been having some adult entertainment induced EQ issues, but they did fade away (or maybe have almost). The problem is that no matter if I do it with no adult entertainment I still get the severe retention. What should I do to fight it, I assured myself based on my own experience that adult entertainment does no good. But can you further advise me DLD :)
 
You try heat and massage after? I get aMassive donut and fluid from [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and clamping( I know it's different). But I can get rid of a ton of it with 5-10 min of heat and coco butter massage.
 
Jelqs- Find out how many minutes it takes you to do 100 jelqs, then just go by minutes so you don't have to count. Counting in your head will hurt your EQ and decrease the expansion you get. You could look at girls, naked girls, watch soft adult entertainment, or normal adult entertainment if you chose to. Everyone is different on what they want to watch during their girth work, as some people think adult entertainment is wrong, or are worried about becoming desensitized. Just do what you are okay with. Whichever one you choose should help you maintain proper EQ. Also, you can try out Slow Squash Jelqs with your regular jelqs for more expansion. Just do a couple 30 second ones at first, and then slowly build up over time. These will help you with your expansion.

If you are wanting to increase head size, you can use a condom rim, a hair tie, or a light clamp and put it at the end of your shaft, just below the glans while you jelq. This will help engorge the glans and over time increase head size (slow process). If you have a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]hydropump[/words], you can put one of those on as well while you're in the pump. Also, when you jelq, you can hold your jelq for 2-3 seconds at the top of the movement (just below the glans). This will help increase head size as well.

I don't have ocd so I'm not sure what to tell you other than if your testicle issue isn't harmful to your health, it's okay man. I know it's not to you, but it is. There's so much more to life than the size of your testicle. It's up to you to realize it though. Continue your therapy and use medication if you have to man. Be happy and enjoy life.
 
I just like the feel of the message after the heat with the lotion. My unit is pretty sensitive after a huge girth sesh, so the lubercation of the coco butter lotion helps me get a more productive masage in. It also helps find hard areas, such as the ring like vesicle surrounding the glands that flares up after the donut effect is gone. I usually have to get 70 % hard and really work that shit out, which is not easy to do without some kind of lotion. I use coco butter, but use what you like or what you have. Truly, i just like the smell... :)
 
You are not the first one to say that likes the smell of this shit. MAXIMAEYES (I think that's how it was spelled) once shared that he used this same shit cause his wife just love the smell down there! :)

Thanks for the advices- the next time I baloon I will make sure you know if what you told me works. :)
 
So, I had a 30 minute balooning session and it was good indeed! The buildup was not small but afterwards I did a few jeqls warm down and massaging and it did not reduce the buildup, but in the end I got angry and I stretched, put on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJS[/words] and after if stayed on my penis for around 20 minutes (it was tight) I took it off and saw 50-60% of my retention was gone. There was a lot left on the skin covering the glans, but the rest of the shaft was better. I think that my penis will condition itself and will stop getting these. :)
 
Zambrodom3;562767 said:
So, I had a 30 minute balooning session and it was good indeed! The buildup was not small but afterwards I did a few jeqls warm down and massaging and it did not reduce the buildup, but in the end I got angry and I stretched, put on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJS[/words] and after if stayed on my penis for around 20 minutes (it was tight) I took it off and saw 50-60% of my retention was gone. There was a lot left on the skin covering the glans, but the rest of the shaft was better. I think that my penis will condition itself and will stop getting these. :)
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And in the midst of our most moments it is important to hush our minds and stop, look and listen because a solution of great value is being made manifest! You, in your anger, have found a viable way to reduce retention for the whole of the Brotherhood!

Now, you should create a new thread with this new solution so all other Brothers can try! Good work my Brother!
 
Wow! Thanks for your kind words (I guess I am telling you this for around 10000th time). I try to be as helpful as possible (myself included). The thread- consider it done! :)
 
According to me it will be better to decrease its frequency, not stop it alltogether and go out of house and spend time with friends.
 
I'd rather see a bunch of strangers fuck, then see people I know fuck. Be kinda strange to see Mr. Smith down the street plowing Mrs. Smith... Although, she is quite the betty for being around 70... :blush:
 
rofl you like GILFs... rofl. You should know more of me... once I had a wank while my roomate was fucking a random girl... rofl, so crazy I've been...
 
Are you satisfied with your life — career, relationship, friendships — or are you using masturbation as an escape from things that are bothering you?
 
Zambrodom3;562863 said:
Wow! Thanks for your kind words (I guess I am telling you this for around 10000th time). I try to be as helpful as possible (myself included). The thread- consider it done! :)
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You are welcome my Brother!
 
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