Maintaining An Erection PT. 2

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What's good [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words].

So I am a week without fapping. I went on a trip two weeks ago and no fap for a week but I caved in on last Saturday.

I realized my endurance during sex has went to shit because of not fapping. I bust within 3 minutes or less. Last night it was 15 strokes literally lol. I can keep going as long as I don't pull out but my dick is about 70% erect. Granted, my wife isn't westernized so she doesn't get frustrated easily but I know that it if it keeps happening she will eventually grow tired of it.

I know if I pull out and cum adult entertainment star style I can keep my erection but it is hard because cumming inside feels like heaven.

Do supplements like Horny Goat Weed help with this? I want to stay away from Viagra and Cialis.

Any suggestions?
 
Besides lots of kegels and practicing edging the best practice is to play the game. If its been too long I usually finish kind of quick. I can tell when its going to be one of those nights so I'll go for a lot of foreplay. When you're with someone you love it's not always about the finish but how you get there. Women are different than men too. If you think it might be a quickie then spend 10 minutes kissing and caressing her, grabbing at her, letting her know you love all of her. Go down on her for a while, get her moaning and screaming, and then pop in there and pound both of you to orgasm. Now she feels special and loved and that 30 seconds of you inside her was just the icing on the cake.

I build [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] pretty quick. If we haven't had sex in a week or so (opposite shifts fuck everything up for us) I may be quick. The next night I'll be longer, and within about 2 more days I'm fucking her to 2,3, maybe even 4 orgasms before I cum. I'll pull out or really slow down, sometimes even stop completely, if I'm too close and want to go longer. I'm edging during sex and you can't get any better practice than that.
 
Mike3209;759196 said:
You can try that dld push or clamping your base to help with controlling cumming.
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Someone read my list of premature ejaculation list :)
 
smokey622;759120 said:
What's good [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words].

So I am a week without fapping. I went on a trip two weeks ago and no fap for a week but I caved in on last Saturday.

I realized my endurance during sex has went to shit because of not fapping. I bust within 3 minutes or less. Last night it was 15 strokes literally lol. I can keep going as long as I don't pull out but my dick is about 70% erect. Granted, my wife isn't westernized so she doesn't get frustrated easily but I know that it if it keeps happening she will eventually grow tired of it.

I know if I pull out and cum adult entertainment star style I can keep my erection but it is hard because cumming inside feels like heaven.

Do supplements like Horny Goat Weed help with this? I want to stay away from Viagra and Cialis.

Any suggestions?
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One of my greatest worries is premature ejaculation. It just seems to be something that has no permanent cure
 
huge-girth;759547 said:
One of my greatest worries is premature ejaculation. It just seems to be something that has no permanent cure
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As I just commented in another thread it seems if I'm edging after pulling myself back a few times it becomes harder for me to cum. If I hit the point where my body is starting the contractions to ejaculate and I stop myself I'm usually good for a while. I get the feeling of a mini orgasm and have to focus just a little to maintain 100% EQ. Much much much harder to do with a partner and you've got to creatively pull out or stop the BJ for 10-20 seconds to recover.

One of the worst things is how many of us typically masturbate. We usually stroke the shaft. During sex the head is in constant contract and is obviously the most sensitive part. You've got to practice edging and controlling by putting your focus on the head. I even fail doing this at times. If you're able to getting a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fleshlight[/words] or other toy will force you to change masturbating so it's more realistic to what parts of the penis get the most focus during sex.
 
cladre60;759639 said:
As I just commented in another thread it seems if I'm edging after pulling myself back a few times it becomes harder for me to cum. If I hit the point where my body is starting the contractions to ejaculate and I stop myself I'm usually good for a while. I get the feeling of a mini orgasm and have to focus just a little to maintain 100% EQ. Much much much harder to do with a partner and you've got to creatively pull out or stop the BJ for 10-20 seconds to recover.

One of the worst things is how many of us typically masturbate. We usually stroke the shaft. During sex the head is in constant contract and is obviously the most sensitive part. You've got to practice edging and controlling by putting your focus on the head. I even fail doing this at times. If you're able to getting a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fleshlight[/words] or other toy will force you to change masturbating so it's more realistic to what parts of the penis get the most focus during sex.
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Funny enough, when I masturbate, I focus mainly on the glans to mid-shaft, I don't go all the way down. I believe the best way to combat premature ejaculation is to have a stable/understanding partner.
 
Mike3209;759492 said:
Yes sir I've been working on it when I'm able to.
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Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.
 
doublelongdaddy;759756 said:
Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.
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You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.
 
doublelongdaddy;759756 said:
Good for you! I found my greatest sexual abilities by using those techniques. It has been quite a long time since I have had sex I can tell you that when I was having sex I could cum on command, get erect right after orgasm or never lose the erection, i was able to have many dry orgasms during sex also. It made me a beast in bed.
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Are you sure it was not the 10" cock that made you the beast in bed. ;)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;759822 said:
I've said it a few times but it's worth repeating...there's a lot of talent whiling-away on the bench. C'mon DLD, get yourself off the DL :)
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It's been so long he'll recreate the scene with the exchange student in American Pie.

But round 2, that'll be 5 whole pumps.

Can't run a marathon when you haven't run around the block in a decade.
 
cladre60;759811 said:
You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.
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I share the same opinion with you about this. And also since DLD owns the forum, it makes perfect sense for him to use his penis. If he is not using his penis, most members would be less motivated about doing PE because the owner of the forum is not using his penis and it would lead to lack of motivation. More like lead by example
 
cladre60;759811 said:
You're wasting your skills. No one is saying try to have sex with every person possible but I'm pretty sure God wants you to get off the bench and take the field. That'll make it a lot easier for him to put the right woman in your life.
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Hey, if the good Lord wants to bring a woman into my life I would take her, that has not been in the cards yet but if it be God's will and the will of the rest of you :) Maybe it will happen. I love that you guys care for me so much, really!
 
doublelongdaddy;759932 said:
Hey, if the good Lord wants to bring a woman into my life I would take her, that has not been in the cards yet but if it be God's will and the will of the rest of you :) Maybe it will happen. I love that you guys care for me so much, really!
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That's fine but God isn't going to send her to your house like a friend sending you a pizza. You've gotta go do some looking. He's playing hide and seek with the woman for you. Go find her!
 
cladre60;759968 said:
That's fine but God isn't going to send her to your house like a friend sending you a pizza. You've gotta go do some looking. He's playing hide and seek with the woman for you. Go find her!
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I can order them! They just cost money and leave after. God knows my heart and what is good and bad for me, I am always guided by the Spirit. But, just so everyone knows, I am not against having a woman but I have a very busy schedule and I am not sure a woman would want to deal with that. I have the Brotherhood where I am working daily, 3 Ministries I work with every day, I have family time and then I have to garage where Iam trying to keep food on the table. Very busy indeed, but if a cute chick wanted tp be a part of all this I am game.
 
doublelongdaddy;760188 said:
I can order them! They just cost money and leave after. God knows my heart and what is good and bad for me, I am always guided by the Spirit. But, just so everyone knows, I am not against having a woman but I have a very busy schedule and I am not sure a woman would want to deal with that. I have the Brotherhood where I am working daily, 3 Ministries I work with every day, I have family time and then I have to garage where Iam trying to keep food on the table. Very busy indeed, but if a cute chick wanted tp be a part of all this I am game.
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Go get her tiger! It might be like playing Where's Waldo but there's 1 out there.
 
cladre60;760267 said:
Go get her tiger! It might be like playing Where's Waldo but there's 1 out there.
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lol so true! That is how it feels when I start to think about getting a woman, where the fuck is Waldo! :) If I do land her she will be a hot ticket, my taste is extremely picky! And since I am not a beggar I can be a chooser! :)
 
doublelongdaddy;760367 said:
lol so true! That is how it feels when I start to think about getting a woman, where the fuck is Waldo! :) If I do land her she will be a hot ticket, my taste is extremely picky! And since I am not a beggar I can be a chooser! :)
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Get your uniform on and we'll get you back on the field ASAP.
 
cladre60;760433 said:
Get your uniform on and we'll get you back on the field ASAP.
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They are making my uniform as I type :)
 
doublelongdaddy;760576 said:
They are making my uniform as I type :)
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Well tell them to stop stretching their dicks for an hour and finish it.

If we didn't like you we wouldn't keep pushing you out of the nest.
 
cladre60;760617 said:
Well tell them to stop stretching their dicks for an hour and finish it.

If we didn't like you we wouldn't keep pushing you out of the nest.
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I do really want a baby girl so there is incentive to find a women but again, my pickiness is ridiculous.
 
doublelongdaddy;760734 said:
I do really want a baby girl so there is incentive to find a women but again, my pickiness is ridiculous.
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DLD on a first date..."while going grocery shopping together on a first date is kind of odd it'll actually let us learn a lot about each other. For instance, see this cucumber? Would you be afraid to have something this big inside you? Are you willing to at least try? I'm patient, we can use lots of lube, and an object that size WILL fit eventually. No I don't have a vegetable fetish it's just that I'm rather large..."
 
cladre60;760754 said:
DLD on a first date..."while going grocery shopping together on a first date is kind of odd it'll actually let us learn a lot about each other. For instance, see this cucumber? Would you be afraid to have something this big inside you? Are you willing to at least try? I'm patient, we can use lots of lube, and an object that size WILL fit eventually. No I don't have a vegetable fetish it's just that I'm rather large..."
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Words like that would surely scare the day light out of the lady
 
huge-girth;760767 said:
Words like that would surely scare the day light out of the lady
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I've had a few that did an excited "OH MY GOD" when they saw my piercing. They got a little nervous and giddy with anticipation as to how it was going to feel. I can only imagine how much bigger of a response a very large penis would receive.
 
cladre60;760815 said:
I've had a few that did an excited "OH MY GOD" when they saw my piercing. They got a little nervous and giddy with anticipation as to how it was going to feel. I can only imagine how much bigger of a response a very large penis would receive.
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Does it bring them more pleasure or you?
 
doublelongdaddy;760816 said:
Does it bring them more pleasure or you?
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I think it does more for them. If I take it out I don't notice a drastic difference but I'm also wearing it 24/7. I have 2 balls on it that are 3/8" diameter which is actually pretty damn big. Plus the jewelry itself is just over an inch in diameter. I have maybe 1/2" inside my urethra.

Older pic attached. Lost a bit of my girth since then but I'll get it back!
 
cladre60;760815 said:
I've had a few that did an excited "OH MY GOD" when they saw my piercing. They got a little nervous and giddy with anticipation as to how it was going to feel. I can only imagine how much bigger of a response a very large penis would receive.
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I want to get to 9 inches in length so bad. I'm way too desperate to get there. This PE thing is too addictive.
 
cladre60;760883 said:
I think it does more for them. If I take it out I don't notice a drastic difference but I'm also wearing it 24/7. I have 2 balls on it that are 3/8" diameter which is actually pretty damn big. Plus the jewelry itself is just over an inch in diameter. I have maybe 1/2" inside my urethra.

Older pic attached. Lost a bit of my girth since then but I'll get it back!
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wow, that looks like it hurt! Looks good though!
 
doublelongdaddy;761072 said:
wow, that looks like it hurt! Looks good though!
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It did. Most guys aren't pierced as far down so the skin was a bit thicker where mine is. I started with 10ga jewelry and over a year stretched to 8, 6, and then 4ga. I'm really considering going back to slightly thinner jewelry. As I gain girth I may have to for the comfort of the vagina.
 
cladre60;760883 said:
I think it does more for them. If I take it out I don't notice a drastic difference but I'm also wearing it 24/7. I have 2 balls on it that are 3/8" diameter which is actually pretty damn big. Plus the jewelry itself is just over an inch in diameter. I have maybe 1/2" inside my urethra.

Older pic attached. Lost a bit of my girth since then but I'll get it back!
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Are you fully erect in this photo?
 
cladre60;761089 said:
It did. Most guys aren't pierced as far down so the skin was a bit thicker where mine is. I started with 10ga jewelry and over a year stretched to 8, 6, and then 4ga. I'm really considering going back to slightly thinner jewelry. As I gain girth I may have to for the comfort of the vagina.
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I like it but I do think I would like a thinner gauge also. But even as it is it looks boss!
 
doublelongdaddy;761182 said:
I like it but I do think I would like a thinner gauge also. But even as it is it looks boss!
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Thank you. 10 and 8ga were uncomfortable for me. I could have sex but it didn't take long before the thin metal to start rubbing me in a bad way inside me. When I stretched to 6ga it was night and day difference in comfort instantly. Apparently some guys are like me and don't tolerate thinner metal well.

One of these days I'm going to take the 4ga ring out and drop back to 6ga. Of course I've been saying that for 2 years and still haven't done it.

It does change how you stroke the penis too. Not as easy to start with the head and stroke towards the base. Even stroking up from the base you have to stop when you reach the jewelry. I did a little edging last night without it in and enjoyed it was like a totally different penis.
 
cladre60;761217 said:
Very damn close and it's not a great angle for judging size IMO. I lost a little girth since then too.
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Exactly, because your size is hard to judge in the photo
 
huge-girth;761245 said:
Exactly, because your size is hard to judge in the photo
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Angle is everything in photos, from certain perspectives a penis can look bigger or smaller than it is. With self taken pictures we do not have the luxury of wide angle lenses with professional photographers taking pictures in a perspective that looks huge. I can take a photo of my penis from the front, as in the picture Clare took and I appear to be much shorter than if the photo was taken from an upper angle or different perspective I would look longer. If LIGHTNING is doing the photography He can make my dick look 14" or 5".
 
huge-girth;761245 said:
Exactly, because your size is hard to judge in the photo
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I took that shot more to show the piercing. Like DLD said it is hard to get good shots by yourself.

Trying to get pics when measuring is really hard.
 
cladre60;761350 said:
I took that shot more to show the piercing. Like DLD said it is hard to get good shots by yourself.

Trying to get pics when measuring is really hard.
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I have tried so many times to get a measurement pic. As soon as I get the ruler my penis will reduce to be fully erect.
 
doublelongdaddy;761307 said:
Angle is everything in photos, from certain perspectives a penis can look bigger or smaller than it is. With self taken pictures we do not have the luxury of wide angle lenses with professional photographers taking pictures in a perspective that looks huge. I can take a photo of my penis from the front, as in the picture Clare took and I appear to be much shorter than if the photo was taken from an upper angle or different perspective I would look longer. If LIGHTNING is doing the photography He can make my dick look 14" or 5".
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This is why I believe Julio Gomez is not more than 9.5 inches in length and 7 inches girth. The camera makes him look like someone with an 11 inches penis.
 
huge-girth;761380 said:
This is why I believe Julio Gomez is not more than 9.5 inches in length and 7 inches girth. The camera makes him look like someone with an 11 inches penis.
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These camera operators are pros with all the goodies needed to create an illusion that people are willing to pat for. A camera with the right lens can make a monster look small and a small penis look monstrous.
 
doublelongdaddy;761483 said:
These camera operators are pros with all the goodies needed to create an illusion that people are willing to pat for. A camera with the right lens can make a monster look small and a small penis look monstrous.
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The perspective changes based on the size of the girl too. An average size penis looks large when your nailing a 5' tall petite girl and a large penis will look small if you're with a 6' tall girl who has a shapely figure.

I'm 5'6" and once dated a girl who was about 4'10". My dick looked huge when she was holding it and when I was fucking her.
 
doublelongdaddy;761483 said:
These camera operators are pros with all the goodies needed to create an illusion that people are willing to pat for. A camera with the right lens can make a monster look small and a small penis look monstrous.
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Once I get to my length goal and get the camera I intend buying, I will take a pic with the camera and make sure the lens can give me a bigger penis to scare the life out of women
 
huge-girth;761589 said:
Once I get to my length goal and get the camera I intend buying, I will take a pic with the camera and make sure the lens can give me a bigger penis to scare the life out of women
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It'd be more fun to show them a pic of what looks slightly larger than average. They'll think "this is going to be fun" but when they get their hands in it they're instantly dripping wet.
 
cladre60;761661 said:
It'd be more fun to show them a pic of what looks slightly larger than average. They'll think "this is going to be fun" but when they get their hands in it they're instantly dripping wet.
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More like showing them a smaller version of my penis I guess
 
huge-girth;761682 said:
More like showing them a smaller version of my penis I guess
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Show them from your view which as we all know makes it look a little smaller. 8" from there would still look impressive but when it's in their face they'll think it's 12".
 
cladre60;761702 said:
Show them from your view which as we all know makes it look a little smaller. 8" from there would still look impressive but when it's in their face they'll think it's 12".
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Can't wait for such moments :)
 
Before I had sex with women in my past I would tell them my penis looks just like a penis only smaller. They would get a kick out of it and expect a smaller size, but then when I whipped out my dick they would be pleasantly surprised :)
 
doublelongdaddy;761788 said:
Before I had sex with women in my past I would tell them my penis looks just like a penis only smaller. They would get a kick out of it and expect a smaller size, but then when I whipped out my dick they would be pleasantly surprised :)
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I had a friend who used to do tell women it was 1" long. Dunno how big he really was but he said women were always happy when he found out he was lying.
 
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