I'M A LOSER, it's finally hit me.

A-Spot Spammer said:
going back to what you said about mantra-ing our dicks bigger. Whilst it's likely it wouldn't be possible to increase size just with thecpower of thought, we could perhaps influence ourselves enough to accept what we have or even see it as big regardless of our prior belief...
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Could help to motivate n keep on doing the routines even when I feel I can't get bigger no more...(wasting my time)
 
There is an older book called “Excuse Me Your Life is Waiting” It’s written by Lynn Grabhorn. It’s on it’s 3rd or 4th edition already (all different covers). Specifically for me, this book was the ah-ha moment.

I’ve read myriads of self help books over the years and they all basically said the same thing, believe, positive thinking, yada, yada, yada. But none seemed specific on “How To”. This book talked about getting your mind into an intention state and feeling the vibration of actually being in the outcome you wanted to be in.

For me, this worked. I layered on top of it an energy clearing and a clairvoyant reading from a couple of different energy workers and I noticed simple changes immediately to my benefit.

Ive noticed with myself, that positive or negative thinking are useless, unless you‘re vibrating intention to go along with it. That’s when it becomes powerful. And it works for either good or not-good thoughts.

Ive used it for simple things like getting a front row parking spot, finding a used car in great condition at dealer auction prices, and ensuring my flight was delayed so I could make it on since I was running late. I cannot consider these incidences coincidence because way too many have happened WHEN I put vibrating intention behind it.

too much ramble.... sorry.
 
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Self help books, well this is the place... lotta experienced people here, LOVE, RELATIONSHIPS, SEX, getting bigger, facing life.
 
Big Schwanz Acht said:
I can help, but I don't think you're going to like it...

Channel all of this energy (negative and positive) into yourself, your career, your body...make yourself into an educated, interesting person that people (not just women, but everyone) flock to and want to be around. Positive energy attracts, negative energy repels. Find something that you love to do and are good at...make that your 'why'.

Stop chasing that elusive 'one' and start attracting that wonderful 'many'. Make yourself into something.

And don't get married to the first woman who has sex with you...furthermore, don't get married until you're well on your way to fulfilling your dream(s)
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Spot on....and never define yourself as a looser.
 
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Stripeee said:
Lately I've been thinking, thinking a lot about me, my life and who I am.

I'm nearly 21 years old and I have finally realised that what I am missing in my life and that I am basically a loser...all of my friends have had some sort of meaningful relationship with a girl and have been happy, but me...no, nothing. I've dated girls but every time I think that someone is attracted to me and could be interested in me I get hurt. I've built up some confidence with females over the last couple of years, but that confidence I have built Is just false. Whenever I think I meet a seemingly nice girl that I think might like me, they just turn out to be a neurotic attention seeker that treats me as a confidence boost and drop me like I don't matter.

I don't know how I can go forward and try to meet girls because I'm clearly not good looking like friends say, how am I? I don't get a second glance from girls, 0 likes on any pictures, 0 matches on tinder, 0 responses to messages.

I hate feeling like this but I'm running out of fight....can anyone of the brothers please help?
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When you stop chasing them and start focusing on your dreams and aspirations, they start finding you attractive. At 21, you still have excess time. Even me that is almost 41 I believe I have excess time. Don't let women be
Stripeee said:
Lately I've been thinking, thinking a lot about me, my life and who I am.

I'm nearly 21 years old and I have finally realised that what I am missing in my life and that I am basically a loser...all of my friends have had some sort of meaningful relationship with a girl and have been happy, but me...no, nothing. I've dated girls but every time I think that someone is attracted to me and could be interested in me I get hurt. I've built up some confidence with females over the last couple of years, but that confidence I have built Is just false. Whenever I think I meet a seemingly nice girl that I think might like me, they just turn out to be a neurotic attention seeker that treats me as a confidence boost and drop me like I don't matter.

I don't know how I can go forward and try to meet girls because I'm clearly not good looking like friends say, how am I? I don't get a second glance from girls, 0 likes on any pictures, 0 matches on tinder, 0 responses to messages.

I hate feeling like this but I'm running out of fight....can anyone of the brothers please help?
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When I was around 18 to 23 years, I felt insecure alot but my own insecurity was as a result of my penis size. But many people feel less of themselves at that same age range especially throughout their 20s. This doesn't apply to everyone but to some people.

I believe you are now in a much better place mentally and in other aspects of your life.
 
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