I been bit by the insecurity bug

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ithiel

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So today while on a break I meet this dime. Fine ass. I get this byrd's number and shit, and ya mean I'm thinking ahead of myself, but shit this e notoriety :cool: I nailed plenty of bitches in my time, especially pre-Penis Enlargement which I was a 6x5. Now even being at 7.8x5.7 I'm feelin insecure about my size. Ever since getting into Penis Enlargement, I become obsessed pretty much. I think it's got a lot to do with not being able to bang bitches with the size i want. yall got this problem too?
 
It's kind of funny that Penis Enlargement makes the penis bigger, but it also makes men much more self-conscious about their size than when they were smaller. This self-consciousness can and does cause performance problems. Fortunately for me, I've had sex with some kind women who said the right things, and made me feel very big. I guess if you've been unlucky and gotten all size queens, you really don't have that confidence boost that only a woman telling you that you're big can give.

Until you do the woman who boosts your self-image, you'll just have to assure yourself that your size is more than adequate and have nothing to be ashamed of.
 
You're .2 inches from 8 in length and .3 inches from 6 in girth. How can you possibly feel insecure about anything? You have a monster according to dld. I wish I was your size.
 
I'm 7.75BP x 6.1mseg and 6.25 at the base, by many standards pretty big, but even with my growth of 1.5 in length and .25 girth in less than 3 months no less) I feel small.

Don't wanna go all out about myself but what I'm getting at is:

I feel my goals coming closer and I get anxious. After getting into Penis Enlargement we are desensitized by seeing/reading about/etc larger sizes, and the gradual gains make us not see all we've achieved.

--The fact that we can get more makes us want more in many cases.

I feel as insecure or even more so now than before also, because I know where I really stand, because I have a real measurement and knowledge of other's measurements. Before I started with Penis Enlargement I thought I was really quite big, but didn't know my measurements and didn't think about it in terms of inches like we do.

It's kind of like the saying "the more you know, the more you realize you don't know"

only with penises
 
Travis Dickle said:
You're .2 inches from 8 in length and .3 inches from 6 in girth. How can you possibly feel insecure about anything? You have a monster according to dld. I wish I was your size.
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train hard. no reason you can't have my size.

Besides that, Penis Enlargement definitely fucked up my mindframe. I was neva eva concerned about size until I got in the game.
 
ithiel said:
So today while on a break I meet this dime. Fine ass. I get this byrd's number and shit, and ya mean I'm thinking ahead of myself, but shit this e notoriety :cool: I nailed plenty of bitches in my time, especially pre-Penis Enlargement which I was a 6x5. Now even being at 7.8x5.7 I'm feelin insecure about my size. Ever since getting into Penis Enlargement, I become obsessed pretty much. I think it's got a lot to do with not being able to bang bitches with the size i want. yall got this problem too?
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This is what happens to allot of us, we start putting Penis Enlargement into our dicks and it puts doubts into our heads. I know it is a tough deal, even strange in a lot of ways because you are bigger and this shit should not be happening. The problem is that when we start looking at our penis, really look, we start to become disillusioned by the entire process...dick size, bitches, adult entertainment actors, basically consumed by penis. For me it was a very hard thing to do but I had to put my shit away for a while. I needed to gain some "real" perspective on penis size. I broke shit down, I got real with myself. Instead of surfing the net for adult entertainment that confused me...Mandingo, and everything that follows him, I went to the nudist sites. These sites are THE REAL. This is what most men have and the reaction that women have towards these men is real. Women, in most cases, can't tell a foot from an inch and they flaunt this ignorance in the worst way. Reality is, most women will never witness a penis larger than 6" x 5"...Penis EnlargementRIOD! By the same token, we, as men, can't tell a big penis from an average penis and in many cases a small penis from a average. It is all a big head game. Measure your dick and realize your size. None of us will ever be Mandingo but then again Mandingo will never fuck the bitches we do. It is all relative. You are huge by every standard but your own judgement. Sometimes you got to step back and see things as they are because when we are. Relativity is a very important thing and it becomes skewed when we are suBathmateerged in a one dimensional line of thinking.
 
Kinda got me thinking about this and how I've become more insecure about my size the more I got into Penis Enlargement also... and realized it's because I've become more addicted to "size adult entertainment" and sites like LPSG. So, I'm thinking of quitting all adult entertainment all together for a month to see if I can desensitize myself in hopes of getting a better view of my size. When I have nothing to compare to maybe I can finally let go of these issues.

This thread has got me thinking about it again. Time for action...
 
Word. I'm getting away from this site in the summer. I'm basically cutting off all things like internet, TV, drinking every night, etc. I've already cut a lot of people out of my life who I felt were having a bad affect on me. It's good to get away from everything for a while, and just do what you want without worries.
 
Turns out the opposite for me. Reason I got into this was the insecurity, but now that I've grown and the girlies love it when I poke 'em, all that is gone.. Funny that I would have killed to find out something like NPenis Enlargement before I found out about it, then Penis Enlargement'd like a maniac for a few years, and now its taken the back burner and I have to try to make time to do it.
 
goldmember said:
You must have some secret method. Are you willing to share, or are you filing a patent?
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I'm dividing and conquering my friend, DLD says himself it is so easy to make gains. I was seriously surprised he would make a comment like that. kind of a motivation killer:(

I really believe in my heart and gut that if somebody wants to be Mandingo or even beat him, it can be done.
 
spinner2 said:
Word. I'm getting away from this site in the summer. I'm basically cutting off all things like internet, TV, drinking every night, etc. I've already cut a lot of people out of my life who I felt were having a bad affect on me. It's good to get away from everything for a while, and just do what you want without worries.
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This is a good idea no matter what the obsession might be. It in no way means permanence but it will help people get a perspective and possibly even find out things about themselves they never knew.

As many of you know I have been working on finishing my studio here for over a year. Things are almost complete but during this entire process I spent most of my time in the upstairs bedroom. I became very comfortable with things in this small space. My computer, TV, Bed, Books, etc. were all in reaching distance. I felt safe and there lie the problem. This safety became agoraphobia, something I have struggled with for years. The small space was safe, I was in no danger, everything I needed was right there. This began to effect my life in many ways and I was virtually blind to it. I had a beautiful main floor with a comfortable couch, a TV, windows, light, the door to the outside world but I was scared of changing things as I believed this would be dangerous in some twisted way. A female friend I met a while ago who comes often to visit me would come up to my "safe" room time after time. She would sit on my bed as I sat at my computer. I never realized just how fucked up this was until she told me. She demanded that we spend time downstairs. She also advised me to do this when I was alone.

At first this felt so scary, so strange, so fake and so vulnerable but after facing these fears I started to see just what I had been missing. I found things about myself that were masked by the safety of my exclusion from the rest of my world. I realized there were funny shows on TV, the couch was a great place to read, walking out my front door was liberating, so many positive things came from this abandonment of obsession. I started to have a much broader life.

I know this has little to do with the penis, penis enlargement or sexuality as a whole but the relation is the same.

I lost my best friend, my lover, the person I wanted to spend my entire life with (and still do) to obsessing about my penis. You know what? I don't obsess about it anymore and the change was not as scary as I believed it would be, unfortunately this lesson came at a dear price.

I love having you guys here, you are all my friends and you all are special to me but [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], penis enlargement, sexuality in general is not LIFE. It is a valuable part of life but when we allow it to destroy our lives, relationships, hobbies, etc. it is no where near worth it. Moderation never had so much meaning.
 
Pandora said:
I'm dividing and conquering my friend, DLD says himself it is so easy to make gains. I was seriously surprised he would make a comment like that. kind of a motivation killer:(

I really believe in my heart and gut that if somebody wants to be Mandingo or even beat him, it can be done.
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Mandingo is just a number, even though no one is quite sure what it is:) Getting to his size is easy with time, dedication and the correct exercise. How long could it take? Well that is depending on the size you are and your commitment to Penis Enlargement. At one time I wanted the largest penis in the world but in my old age:D I have become very happy with my size and I now enjoy creating exercise more than becoming the biggest. I gained allot of size and I have no doubt that I could tack on quite a bit more, NO DOUBTS! For me it was more important to move away from size and into other things, at least since my break-up. Who knows what the future holds but that is just another day.

It may sound, at times, that I am dissing [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] but I want no one to take it this way. I am only saying there is so much more to life than the penis. It would be awesome if the world decided to become a paying member of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], I would be rich beyond my wildest dreams but I have never gone about things from a greedy perspective. Penis Enlargement is and always has been something I love doing, love helping with, love contributing to and love writing about...I have never been in this for the money and I guess this is why I never hesitate to encourage those who need a break, or to leave all together from doing so.

I have said this before but it is worth repeating a googolplex more, making your penis is easy, it always was but becoming a confident man was always the issue. I am not only here to help with making your penis bigger, I am here to make your minds bigger.

Peace
 
Travis Dickle said:
Well according to wikipedia (I know :s ) Mandingo is 11 3/4 inches. If pe is lifelong for you than that should be attainable.
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EXACTLY:D :s
 
doublelongdaddy said:
This is a good idea no matter what the obsession might be. It in no way means permanence but it will help people get a perspective and possibly even find out things about themselves they never knew.

As many of you know I have been working on finishing my studio here for over a year. Things are almost complete but during this entire process I spent most of my time in the upstairs bedroom. I became very comfortable with things in this small space. My computer, TV, Bed, Books, etc. were all in reaching distance. I felt safe and there lie the problem. This safety became agoraphobia, something I have struggled with for years. The small space was safe, I was in no danger, everything I needed was right there. This began to effect my life in many ways and I was virtually blind to it. I had a beautiful main floor with a comfortable couch, a TV, windows, light, the door to the outside world but I was scared of changing things as I believed this would be dangerous in some twisted way. A female friend I met a while ago who comes often to visit me would come up to my "safe" room time after time. She would sit on my bed as I sat at my computer. I never realized just how fucked up this was until she told me. She demanded that we spend time downstairs. She also advised me to do this when I was alone.

At first this felt so scary, so strange, so fake and so vulnerable but after facing these fears I started to see just what I had been missing. I found things about myself that were masked by the safety of my exclusion from the rest of my world. I realized there were funny shows on TV, the couch was a great place to read, walking out my front door was liberating, so many positive things came from this abandonment of obsession. I started to have a much broader life.

I know this has little to do with the penis, penis enlargement or sexuality as a whole but the relation is the same.

I lost my best friend, my lover, the person I wanted to spend my entire life with (and still do) to obsessing about my penis. You know what? I don't obsess about it anymore and the change was not as scary as I believed it would be, unfortunately this lesson came at a dear price.

I love having you guys here, you are all my friends and you all are special to me but [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], penis enlargement, sexuality in general is not LIFE. It is a valuable part of life but when we allow it to destroy our lives, relationships, hobbies, etc. it is no where near worth it. Moderation never had so much meaning.
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agoraphobia is a toughie, their is nothing better to be able to make it out of that safe place:)
 
I feel the same way.. at 5.2 i knew i was 5.2 i knew i was small.. now at 6 i think im small ... and i doubt that im 6 when i look at it.. then i used to measure every day and sure enough i am 6 inches nbp... with probably half an inch of fatpad ATLEAST.. so im happy knowing with just weight loss i will be 6.5 but yeah i wish i could get a loan out.. 2 inches of dick 2 inches of girth.. and pay it off over a 5 year contract :D too bad it doesnt work like that hahahaha but one thing that conforts me is im young so ive got all the time in the world to achieve anything i want
 
That can be pretty hard to break...mindframe i mean. I feel much better with my 6 inch, i work for it,. You must feel powerfull...trust the force rofl ...you must feel natural sexual state..be horny..and then you'll be almost invicible:O DROP the fuckin ego..lose the fear and go for what YOU want..you'll probably be just fine :) ..maybe it's been a while since your last sex..that's all..;) It's too late now to think that 7 plus inch is too big..rofl
 
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